怎樣說服朋友比佢阿女繼續st?

cmchang0927

我friend阿女25月大:
1. 經常留口水, 連番2歲班老師都叫佢要帶幾條口水肩
2. 多數發出ar ar 聲, 唔識叫daddy mommy or 奶奶 mum mum, etc, 只係想抱時講"paul"
3. 走路不穩
4. 從來沒有模仿遊戲

醫生查不出原因, 體重從未達標, 身高average.  已經接受了半年ot training (一星期一次, 每次三小時), 朋友說bb只有少訐改進, 還不懂得說話.  她說那些ot教的training 沒有新意, 她放工後回家自己幫阿女都得, 準備放棄ot training.  有沒有過來人可告訴我這是否正確的決定? Thanks!  我不忍心看見bb不知道會不會被延誤了治療的時間

HMA

Charlotte_mom, thank you so much for the detailed reply.
It's very kind of you.
I’m also a working mom so I don’t think I can attend all classes…but I think I can manage to attend around 50% of his classes (assuming that he will have training class once a week)…really need to discuss with my husband.

I’m glad to hear the good news about your son.
I believe you have done a lot for him.
加油!但我覺得無o野會難到你的. 希望你兒子在港大同學會小學讀得開開心心,一切順利!:)

原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-8-15 21:48 發表
e位vs i位, 邊樣好d, 我真係答唔出, 不過我只知e位既訓練都係office hour, 如果媽媽要返工, 要帶佢去都幾麻煩(如果搵老人家or工人帶就無意思啦)

我仔係基督教服務處, 係我既協康朋友介紹的, 佢話基教i位幾好, 不過 ...

HMA

有一事請教, I位和E位那樣較好?
小兒之前是global delay, 一直排E位. 最近評估:delay有進步, 但言語still delay及有自傾, doctor suggested 繼續排E位.但說若我們很想轉I位, 可跟社工傾.

另想請教Charlotte_mom, 你說的I位學校很好,可否PM校名給我? 因我不熟I位學校.若我要求轉I位,可做參考. 另你有沒有找私小or直資給你兒子?因我不熟識小/中學(真慚愧 ),不知從何入手,可否給一些建議?I live in Kowloon side, but willing to move if we can find a school which suits my son.
Many thanks!

原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-8-3 12:13 發表
邊有咁易! D社工邊會彩你丫!
I位有I位資格, E位都有E位資格(好似要肌肉發展有問題至可以排E位, 齋SPEECH DELAY唔可以去E, 我仔都唔可以去E)
而且果時我都有考慮過, 去政府E位, 咪即係要成日OFFICE HOUR帶佢去做訓練 ...

cmchang0927

Thanks for yr sharing!
My friend always calls me and complains abt minor things, e.g. her girl coughs, so she put an apple into her school bag everyday for a wk and asked the school teachers to tell the helpers to cut it up for her girl to eat at lunch time (cos' other fruits are 涼!), then the teacher said that it would increase the workload of the helpers.  She just complained to the headmaster, so finally, she found that two out of the seven days the apple was fed...... then she called me to complain that in the international kindergarten, the teachers and helpers just helped her to feed her girl with apple .........., and also, she said that there are so many "big 6" kids in the i- kindergarten, the parents are so 不知所謂;  She let her girl to have trainings but she always said that it wasn't useful cos' her girl still 流口水......she is the kind of person always said that "有錢有咩唔得?"  But I knew that she was quite depressed when she knew that her girl is delay earlier.  I am just not brave enough to tell her that her girl needs to study in i-kindergarten cos' speech is her most concern at this moment......  She always said that the i-kindergarten's kids will have bad influences on her girl............ so......... just 呻下......

原帖由 Charlotte_mom 於 10-7-30 17:56 發表
我仔都係讀i位, 就黎畢業了(9月升小1)

無錯, i位學校唔係谷, 你要同果d國際幼稚園比, 當然無得比, 1星期有1,2日外藉老師仲想點? 我仔果間3年都無一日!
想當年, 阿仔入左間所謂名幼稚園, 社工打黎話打到i位, 左唸右 ...

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ChattyST, Please check PM

salpaut

我好同意ChattyST的說法, 真係有好多人接受唔到自己的小朋友唔能夠讀傳統的幼稚園o架! 有些人去完健康院見醫生, 經初部評估後, 他們也不信, 堅持話子女只係慢, 無問題, 唔會俾佢地上training, 這樣其實間接令佢地錯失左學習的黃金期, 好可惜o架! 另有會員話可以自費搵私人語言治療, 呢個方法當然可以啦! 不過唔係人人負擔得起!!

cmchang0927

其實佢女間學校都有建議佢轉下午班, 因為下午班少人d, 容易d照顧佢阿女.  我有一d疑問想請教一下你:

1. 佢女從出生到現在(七月兩歲半)也不會笑到露齒, or笑到咭咭聲, 與口肌弱有關嗎? or it just because of her personality?
2. 從無玩躲貓貓, 扮演e.g 煮食等遊戲, ok嗎? 不過現在已有進步, 懂得把書拿到媽媽面前, 說一個和"睇"差不多音的字.  

Thanks!

ChattyST

原帖由 cmchang0927 於 10-6-15 00:11 發表
Oh!  我仲以為i位是有發展遲緩的孩子最好的選擇呢...... 那麼如果上午去i位, 下午去國際幼稚園, 好唔好呢?

I 位對好多有發展遲緩的孩子都是一個不錯的選擇.
問題是, 未能完全接受小朋友有DELAY的家長,接受不了小朋友不是入讀傳統名校!

我認識有些家長會堅持有發展遲緩的孩子讀傳統名校,
結果半個學年後, 給學校勸籲轉校...

[ 本帖最後由 ChattyST 於 10-6-17 12:28 編輯 ]

ChattyST

原帖由 cmchang0927 於 10-6-14 01:23 發表
最近我FRIEND排到I位, 將於9月入學.  佢阿女而家係間以英語為主的的2歲班.  排到I位我替她高興因她只排了八個月. 前兩日, 佢又同我投訴, 話I位間幼稚園CHEAP, 一星期才有一兩日外籍老師教授的英文課, 每日也要簽健康 ...

I 位學校目標係: 提供一個共融(有其他NORMAL DEVELOPMENT 嘅小朋友)嘅學習環境之中, 俾有語言/肌能/智力發展慢嘅小朋友, 從朋輩同I位老師及專業治療師協助下成長! 唔係專學英文WOR!

pollybell

返兩間我覺得對小朋友黎講太辛苦,如果佢已經唔需要午睡就無所謂.不過一放學要即食飯轉頭又趕返學真係要屋企附近先得.

原帖由 cmchang0927 於 10-6-15 00:11 發表
Oh!  我仲以為i位是有發展遲緩的孩子最好的選擇呢...... 那麼如果上午去i位, 下午去國際幼稚園, 好唔好呢?

cmchang0927

Oh!  我仲以為i位是有發展遲緩的孩子最好的選擇呢...... 那麼如果上午去i位, 下午去國際幼稚園, 好唔好呢?

原帖由 pollybell 於 10-6-14 11:31 發表
你朋友所謂既野我完全認同,如果佢唔想讀有I位既幼稚園可以自費搵私人語言治療,或者平時小朋友放學可以同佢去學英文.每個人諗法唔同,自己應該最清楚自己小朋友既需要. ...

Capricorn2521

哈哈...d I位學校同國際幼稚園比較，一定冇得比。因為服務目標同對象亦不同。

[ 本帖最後由 Capricorn2521 於 10-6-14 13:32 編輯 ]

pollybell

你朋友所謂既野我完全認同,如果佢唔想讀有I位既幼稚園可以自費搵私人語言治療,或者平時小朋友放學可以同佢去學英文.每個人諗法唔同,自己應該最清楚自己小朋友既需要.

cmchang0927

最近我FRIEND排到I位, 將於9月入學.  佢阿女而家係間以英語為主的的2歲班.  排到I位我替她高興因她只排了八個月. 前兩日, 佢又同我投訴, 話I位間幼稚園CHEAP, 一星期才有一兩日外籍老師教授的英文課, 每日也要簽健康申報表, 又要帶兩對SOCKS, 同學質素差.................其實我另一FRIEND的BB只是8個月大, 流口水也比她阿女少好多. 她其實也知道自己阿女DELAY, 但是不知為甚麼又覺得TRAINING 好廢............... 又不大認同專業人士的意見, 例如單一語言學習, 我話都好既, 而家I位雖然外籍老師少opportunity 接觸, 可以專心學好廣東話先, 佢即刻話:我唔贊成要先學一種語言先囉...............