你地覺得小朋友有無壓力

NICOLE123

小朋友不停面試你地小朋友有無壓力?
我覺得我個仔有.佢次次入去interview都好嚴肅
好正經.....
in完出黎又鬆哂

Piglets

My daughter also 磨牙 when sleeping in night time.  I consulted with the doctor whether it was something to do with her pressure, his answer was the "the brain is developing????"

Actually, my daughter is a happy girl and I don't feel she is having any pressure for the interviews.  She just feels as she is going to the playgroup, and that was the way I delivered the message to her.

原帖由 BabyISC 於 09-11-17 09:41 發表
my son is very strange, he seems very happy during daytime, he is only 2.5yr-old, we rarely push and blame him, but 磨牙 heavily when he fell asleep.
i think he may experience some sort of stress tha ...

Grace1010

可能我個女仲細﹐我又唔覺得佢有壓力或特別唔開心，有唔開心都係interview時遇著一啲佢唔鐘意嘅玩具，又要佢嘗試，嗰時就會走人離開座位

eggmama

agree! I'm so regret that I showed my depression after 1 interview, my kid did jumped, stood on chair , I didn't blamed her but she should notice my LONG face. (However, school accepts her ) Everytime I would praise her effort by giving a hug, kissing and words ONLY, no sweets, Mcdonald  or toys. Moreover, I tell daddy what she did during interview, praise her again.

原帖由 cattylui 於 09-11-17 13:37 發表
第一個女，頭一兩次interview，我自己好緊張 ，亦都好在乎囡囡表現，不過我無俾壓力囡囡，但好在佢答得好好。

反而第三次去見TT，可能等得太耐，佢又眼訓，in得好差！可能囡囡見到我失望個樣，in原反而抱住我，又唱歌俾我聽。係 ...

happymum1

My son is still less than 2 year old now so maybe he's too young to feel stressed.  We've attended 4 interviews so far and everytime we just told him we are going to school tomorrow to play and he's quite happy about it.  Indeed, the teachers played with him everytime and asked him questions.  We are not very stressed at the interviews because very luckily he was accepted by the 1st kinder early in Oct so everytime it's like another exercise for us parents.

Kendis1

I think 應該是談不上是壓力, 不過他們(聰明些,  察覺性高的小孩) 一定是知道發生緊d咩事 (與平時不一樣的).

原帖由 NICOLE123 於 09-11-16 17:48 發表
小朋友不停面試你地小朋友有無壓力?
我覺得我個仔有.佢次次入去interview都好嚴肅
好正經.....
in完出黎又鬆哂

tauchuen

小朋友去IN, 可能老師同學校環境唔啱FEEL就表現失準, 咪好似大人打工咁一樣, 唔開心咪搵第二份囉, 有時塞翁失馬, 焉知非福, 總之最緊要小朋友開心快樂咁生活.

原帖由 cattylui 於 09-11-17 13:37 發表
第一個女，頭一兩次interview，我自己好緊張 ，亦都好在乎囡囡表現，不過我無俾壓力囡囡，但好在佢答得好好。

反而第三次去見TT，可能等得太耐，佢又眼訓，in得好差！可能囡囡見到我失望個樣，in原反而抱住我，又唱歌俾我聽。係 ...

cattylui

第一個女，頭一兩次interview，我自己好緊張 ，亦都好在乎囡囡表現，不過我無俾壓力囡囡，但好在佢答得好好。

反而第三次去見TT，可能等得太耐，佢又眼訓，in得好差！可能囡囡見到我失望個樣，in原反而抱住我，又唱歌俾我聽。係果一刻自己好心痛 ，interview啫，有咩比得上囡囡開心緊要。自此我就平常心面對，interview咪當去街街，無論點都唔應該令我地屋企任何人唔開心。

原帖由 點算好 於 09-11-16 18:03 發表
完全沒有是騙人的 , 他們大多能感受到氣氛及家長的反應. 所以如果小朋友一看到老師像四大金鋼(惡面佛心, if applicable). 唔驚就有............((((鬼)))) ...

beegoo

我地只係同個仔講返學學，佢應該覺得幾好玩。因為佢星期五in完，之後星期日我地喺hollywood plaza行街，佢經過都拉住我地話要返學學。

jl118

原帖由 kerkermui 於 09-11-17 11:39 發表
我諗應該無喇~
兩次都係c6出馬, 佢對自己有d expectation, 所以好認真, 但係我地都無話好緊張個結果, 只係早一日佢問我地聽日去邊時講佢知去學校同老師傾計咋~

不過我估佢厭煩, 點解d人成日問佢個名, 答親都無哩正 ...

我個女又係講我中文全名，但我又唔覺得佢係玩嘢，只係用左唔同角度去理解問題

HumptiDumpti

>>>可能响小朋友嘅世界裡只有鍾意唔鍾意
yes, i think so too.

緊張到手震，真係好慘bor..., he must be very tense.

原帖由 tauchuen 於 09-11-17 10:40 發表
可能响小朋友嘅世界裡只有鍾意唔鍾意.......我覺得如果小朋友唔鍾意間學校就唔好迫佢, 免得適得其反, 影響佢讀書情緒.

kerkermui

我諗應該無喇~
兩次都係c6出馬, 佢對自己有d expectation, 所以好認真, 但係我地都無話好緊張個結果, 只係早一日佢問我地聽日去邊時講佢知去學校同老師傾計咋~

不過我估佢厭煩, 點解d人成日問佢個名, 答親都無哩正經!
仲識得玩嘢, c都唔話同佢一齊嗰個係邊個, 答老師老豆個中文全名!

[ 本帖最後由 kerkermui 於 09-11-17 11:41 編輯 ]

QEgg

我個仔唔止怕醜, 拿住個配對玩具手震, 我睇到好心痛呀! 之後同佢講番, 唔洗緊張, 當係參觀人地學校, 又有玩具玩!

tauchuen

可能响小朋友嘅世界裡只有鍾意唔鍾意.......我覺得如果小朋友唔鍾意間學校就唔好迫佢, 免得適得其反, 影響佢讀書情緒.

原帖由 HumptiDumpti 於 09-11-17 09:53 發表
since we didn't do any particular practice with my boy to train him for these interviews; and even didn't say things to him such as"u have to especially behave in these places...do this and do that... ...

HumptiDumpti

since we didn't do any particular practice with my boy to train him for these interviews; and even didn't say things to him such as"u have to especially behave in these places...do this and do that...." so i don't think he s feeling the stress in most of the interviews.

in fact, my boy can't stand crowded environment... so i can see he was feeling very uncomfortable when visiting St. Cat & LLC

BabyISC

my son is very strange, he seems very happy during daytime, he is only 2.5yr-old, we rarely push and blame him, but 磨牙 heavily when he fell asleep.
i think he may experience some sort of stress that he do not how to explain to adult.

原帖由 ngmyan 於 09-11-17 08:05 發表
my gal seems to understand what I say.. as for my kinder before the interview, I will tell gal that this is a good school that mama wants her to get in... need to answer the teacher argh....then my ga ...

ngmyan

my gal seems to understand what I say.. as for the kinder before the interview, I will tell gal that this is a good school that mama wants her to get in... need to answer the teacher argh....then my gal will perform well.. for those I have not said anything one, she just enjoys it as a playtime....

[ 本帖最後由 ngmyan 於 09-11-17 13:25 編輯 ]

tauchuen

係呀, 我阿女都無壓力, 一來, 我同老公無迫佢, 二來, 面試時老師問/玩嘅嘢就係平日我哋講/做, 所以佢都可以輕鬆面對, 完全無異常表現.

原帖由 Chris852 於 09-11-16 18:52 發表
我個寶寶基本上無壓力, 去到邊都如入"無人之境".

好彩佢成日笑, 鐘意抱人, 識撩人, (出街時都撩哥哥, 姐姐玩), 面試應嬴唔少分數.

Chris852

我個寶寶基本上無壓力, 去到邊都如入"無人之境".

好彩佢成日笑, 鐘意抱人, 識撩人, (出街時都撩哥哥, 姐姐玩), 面試應嬴唔少分數.

happyvalley

原帖由 tauchuen 於 09-11-16 18:11 發表
我覺得咁細個小朋友應該唔知咩係壓力.... 佢哋可能係俾家長過份緊張同埋凝重嘅面部表情嚇親啫.

面試前的小動作，咪就係表現有壓力。