你地會同BB主要講英文定Cantonese?

ho_yan2406

我冇能力全程同BB講英文,但我會有時成句咁用英文叫佢做d野,e.g pick up the toy car呢d簡單句子....BB而家19個月,都識好多字,佢自細出街,我就見乜就指住教佢(car,bus,taxi,bird.....),多數教英文,後尾又教埋中文,而家佢見蘋果/聽到我話蘋果,佢就會講apple,見/聽我講香蕉會講banana,仲有tomato,orange.......眼耳口鼻o個d都一早識晒,見巴士會講bus/巴士,雀仔佢都識中英文,出街見到乜就講,當然唔係乜都識la~始終都只係歲半,我覺得已經好叻仔,基本上教佢乜佢就學乜,又冇話只認字唔認物,或者只識英文唔識中文呢d情況~同埋好多野佢識,但唔係我教佢,而係佢自己平日見得多自然識,好似佢會拎住我支化妝水,然後扮倒出黎,拍下塊面咁...

ShaB

sorry typo, i meant not to argue but to share...

原帖由 ShaB 於 10-4-21 14:45 發表
It is a difficult question to ask which language is more important than the other. But I can share my experience with you that, if you English is good enough to read, then you will learn a lot from En ...

ShaB

It is a difficult question to ask which language is more important than the other. But I can share my experience with you that, if you English is good enough to read, then you will learn a lot from English books, reference, or even just magazines. Also same to Chinese, if your Chinese is good enough to read high level reading, you will of course, gain a lot of knowledge.

This is my reply to English vs Chinese, nothing to do with child teaching at whatever stage. If we can build up communication bridge with our kids thoughout our lives, then communication is the key, not the language itself. Not to argue not to share.

原帖由 jeanne1120 於 09-11-2 13:55 發表
講廣東話

我覺得香港d 父母，真係崇洋得過了份

經常在街聽到d 家長同細路講英文
可惜，絕大部分都係

1. 發音唔標準
2. 唔係complete sentence
3. gramma 錯誤
4. 嚴重中英夾雜

講真，我覺得谷小朋友英文真係毫無需要。 ...

ShaB

So agreed with anteater. I dun think it's a good idea to teach ABCs to kids who are less than 2 or 3 years old. I 'vestarted to speak English with my kid since pregnancy, and I am a working mum. I asked our Indoesian nanny use English for communication. & I keep correcting her when she uses wrong grammar and so far, nanny loves to use English and use the right grammars for spoken English.

Why I do that? because I want to promote English in our family. My hushand uses Cantonese. For now, my kid of 2.4 years, she can speak "Where's my bread Auntie brought, mummy ?" It doesnt make sense in proper English grammar's point of view, but at least, she knows about pass tense for now and I will not correct her at once because that will kill her confidence, but in some way, i will use the same sentence but different content to make her understand how to speak English properly.

I just want to share with parents who use English daily in Chinses society, Add oil, Dont give up, Kids are capable of all things even you think that is impossible. But just dun mix up with Hong Kong's education concept, like to learn this word, to learn that word, because words are meaningless to kids who are less than 3 years old. Show them pictures and encourage them to speak freely. You may understand your kid more, because you will know what attract your kid more in the picture, etc etc... what objects your kid likes, ....

原帖由 anteater 於 10-4-18 07:28 發表
大家唔好咁快教小朋友(1-2.5歲)認字呀,有些學說話要教左小朋友認知個世界先,俾多d想像空間佢,你們咁快教字,會影響小朋友的思維,令到佢出街只係認字,而唔理身邊周遭事物,要認字,留番返學至教,我的小朋友初時好似你們 ...

BH_2

測 speech 的方式有可能不合時宜,  通常香港的方式都係係測廣東話, 即係一個用開英文的小朋友去用此方式測都是會"肥"的, 所以所謂 delay 都可能是用不合的工具去測的結果.   

如果要有英女皇口音或牛津的才可以教, 我看是很不現實的, 在現在教英文的老師中, 有英國人, 美國人, 更有其它的人仕, 誰說誰的才是正統, 我認為能溝通才是最重要的. 當然能有牛津音是最好的.  

那種語言都可以晚些才開始學, 但君不見一些去外國讀了多年書的, 回來說不了幾句英文, 因為一直在唐人圈中生活, 又怕說錯, 不肯用英文, 結果如何. 學習不怕錯的態度需要早些培養.    .  

我自己就主張早教, 不是要偏中或英, 而是要一齊教, 但先會多些花時間在英文上, 因為在香港, 一般環境的小朋友身邊說英文的環境沒中文的多, 要他的英文熟練度同中文一樣, 自已唯有盡力營造環境, 多講多說英文給他習慣,  此不是祟洋, 而是現實環境需要補足.  

給他讀英普學校, 當然同時亦教他中文, 小朋友一起學, 如果有任何障礙, 只是運用環境不夠多造成, 或是我們教得不夠努力及缺乏技巧,  而不是一起學2-3種語言造成.  因為我自己亦在多語言環境成長, 中英文的成績都不差, 就知道早學的自然性是一樣很重要的事.  如果有人堅持早教雙語會形成 delay, 似乎看輕了小朋友的能力, 其實都不需勉強, 各人有自己的教養方式, 大家去做做值得做的就行了

原帖由 BabyISC 於 09-11-2 17:10 發表
It is funny that one can use such an example (你可以話我當小兒係弱智嘅咁教嘅) to illustrate their concepts in education.
There is thousands of theory to educate children, we should choose the one that ...

ada1812

我係中國人, 所以講中文

adaadayau

我地consistent d

媽媽講英文，爸爸講中文。

我始終覺得講晒英文唔係咁好，始終中文先係母語嗎~

Chewy

Yaulinda,

放心去做啦! 明架啦! 好似我之前講「每個人都有自己教仔女的一套」自己覺得啱就去做, 上嚟呢到都係想Share 唔同觀点同心得! 都無真正啱同錯! 出發点係為小朋友好就得啦!

yaulinda

Dear chewy,

無論如何,
多謝你讓我更有信心在現階段用英文"頂"住先,希望小女升上幼稚園後,在廣東話上"勁"番!

Chewy

brrbaby:

我個女而家三歲半, 上咗K1 之后中文勁咗好多. 可能係主流班. 肯講中文, 同埋識分边个要講中文, 边个要講英文.
當然有時佢会講到Ｄ英文Grammer 嘅中文, 要斗正佢.

之前同佢講英文真係為咗佢get a easy life with my maid. 生活係香港, 我諗小朋友会較容易pick up 中文!

原帖由 brrbaby2007 於 10-4-19 15:53 發表


請問你的小朋友會唔會唔想講中文呢，我寶貝就好似有呢個問題，我而家同佢講翻多d中文了，但突然轉channel唔知佢亂唔亂:idea:

qqbabe

我接受唔到我同老公講廣東話同阿b講英文.

yaulinda

可能我就是那些自己英文又唔係正,
但又要同個細路講英文既其中一份子,

不過我唔係想扮野,
我唔覺得識英文勁D,
我唔會覺得英文重要D,
又唔係想"show off"自己的水皮英文,
亦唔係想個細路學人做鬼佬,

只係細路各有特性,
有些可以同時學兩種語言,
有些要一種還一種地學,
我個細路真係好抗拒中文,
始終佢同菲菲相處時間真是比我多,
所以我的部署是先讓細路以英文掌握基本的生活用語, 而後讓他一面成長, 一面以中文取替,
長遠以廣東話為主要用語.

我想說,
這是沒有辦法中的辦法,
是無可奈何,
徐非我唔駛返工自己一手一腳湊,
..
聽到有家長認為這個現象膚淺,
我認為是有需要先了解每個家長出發點的差異

smartmatt

Whatever you do don't force a foreign language onto your kids...

I allow my kids to progress naturally when it come language simply because the environment is critical to successful to learning a language.  Cantonese is normally spoken at home and outside hence this is first language we use.  

My boy just 3 yrs old is more receptive to languages then my girl, 5 yrs old.  My boy can speak in full sentences in English by watching English children TV and off course speak full complicated sentences in Cantonese (probably picked up from sister).   My girl English although good as a second language but not as good as my boy's.   Hence, I speak more in English with my boy.  Each kid will be different.

kfy

原帖由 brrbaby2007 於 10-4-19 15:53 發表


請問你的小朋友會唔會唔想講中文呢，我寶貝就好似有呢個問題，我而家同佢講翻多d中文了，但突然轉channel唔知佢亂唔亂:idea:

有朋友試過，唔會亂架。

brrbaby2007

原帖由 Chewy 於 10-4-19 10:30 發表
每個人都有自己教仔女的一套,因為我係working mom, 照顧女兒嘅工作交咗俾菲律賓工人,幸好,佢英文很好至少無口音...BB開始己经同佢講英文,看英文節目...2歲送她去讀國際班..其實我目標非常簡單...係0-2歲開始学語言的 ...

請問你的小朋友會唔會唔想講中文呢，我寶貝就好似有呢個問題，我而家同佢講翻多d中文了，但突然轉channel唔知佢亂唔亂:idea:

snoopymom

我bb15M
我的母語是普通話
我和bb在婆婆家就講國語
我和bb和工人一起就講英文
我和bb和爸爸一起就講廣東話
單獨和bb也是講國語
不過同bb出到街見到d朋友又係廣東話
不知道這樣會不會令bb容易有語言混淆呢?

kfy

原帖由 KK07 於 10-4-19 13:36 發表
我會用自己最流利的語言同自己的BB溝通,我的母語是廣東話,所以我一定會用廣東話和BB說話,今天教她知識,長大同她講道理/哲理/人生經驗,老來和她傾心事.  

無論呢個世界變成點,普通話重要又好,英文重要又好,我要用最 ...

同意！

KK07

我會用自己最流利的語言同自己的BB溝通,我的母語是廣東話,所以我一定會用廣東話和BB說話,今天教她知識,長大同她講道理/哲理/人生經驗,老來和她傾心事.  

無論呢個世界變成點,普通話重要又好,英文重要又好,我要用最能表達我內心世界的語言同我的兒女溝通,因為這是我做母親的權利!

hagupit

我地全家都同bb講廣東話, 但遲d會報net既playgroup.