Urgent! Really want to seek for help!!!

pingoj

原帖由 wisekid2007 於 09-6-19 17:52 發表
Thanks for your sharing. It is really not easy to be parents.

My boy vomited several times and always said very tired these two days. I just brought him to consultant a paediatrics. The paediatrics c ...

Sorry to hear that your boy suffered from vomiting. He will go through this, he will be fine later.

Started from 5 years old, my boy vomited quite often. It lasted for almost 2 years. He blamed the food. He was very thin. It was a pain to look at him at those days! In side me, I said "太难养了!"

He is quite ok now. I can't remember how things changed, but I feel that I played a important role in this issue. I stay at home, spend a lot of time with them(he has a young brother), slow down the thing, I also work on myself ,so that I can quit the idea that he should be outstanding. He might be or might not be outstanding, that is not my concern anymore. Children are so sensitive that they sense every single feeling you have for them!

Kids are kids, no matter how smart they are. They have the right to be silly, to be naughty, aren't they?

Mqchris

hi wisekid2007,

understand your worry...
其實未接觸過你的仔仔..當然不能就此給予任何的意見...不過他今次的情況與以前的不同..本身emotional,..同埋見佢有生理不常情況出現(嘔)..如果你擔心，不如先問問以前見開的cp的意見, 因他比較清楚仔仔的情況....有需要先再見psychi... 或再轉其他CP取其的意見

其實你自己都好清楚，加上太太本身都係worker.....所以我相信你地可以應付...
希望你仔仔健康成長....

原帖由 wisekid2007 於 09-6-19 21:08 發表
Hi Mqchris,

Thanks for your concern.

My boy is 8.5. Three years ago, my boy showed emotional problems at school that he acted out in the class, i.e. didn't want to participate in class activities an ...

Mqchris

i am a social worker mainly for child.

無詳細看你以前的message, 不知他幾多歲，有d咩經歷，不過簡單看你形容他的情況，如果你的小朋友已看過醫生，証明不是普通生理患病，你真應該尋求一些輔導服務，讓小朋友得到協助。
尋求的方法:
1. 看西醫，讓他介紹及寫轉介信，介紹一些合適的.. 因不知你想是私人的還是政府的...所以好難介紹CP或精神科。同埋其實找PRIVATE的CP，會快D，但好貴。

2.  不知你那一區，如一般情況，可先到地區上一些非牟利的中心或社署，找社工協助，因可以先作輔導或一些有關的THERAPY再做轉介，或一些ASSESSMENT都可以。

3.  學校社工，如有的，都可以轉介。

我想專業的意見你是需要的... 為免憂慮，盡早處理，因他似是Depression...

原帖由 wisekid2007 於 09-6-19 17:52 發表
Thanks for your sharing. It is really not easy to be parents.

My boy vomited several times and always said very tired these two days. I just brought him to consultant a paediatrics. The paediatrics c ...

pingoj

Dr. Ho Ting Pong
Specialist in Psychiatry
Tel:  28155111
        27879372

pingoj

Hi ,my boy had the similar problem like your son before. He was frightened about movies(volcano, Lord of the Rings). He had nightmare that we were burned by lava inside our home. He could not leave me or his grandma. Luckily grandma was able to be with him all the time. He had to take the bath with me by sitting on my lap, even in the house he had to sit in some corner otherwise he will be very unsettled. Here are what we did:
1) Some one he trusted to saty with him all the time, even durning school days he could choose to stay at home.
2)Went to see the doctor, but he would pretend he was ok, so no much help from the psychologist.
3)We were all  a bit crazy like my boy, we just agreed with him(but it was difficult to do that, sometimes I couldn't!), if he scared of ghosts, his daddy would get his gun(toy gun) to shoot away the ghosts, I would talk with him about those stuffs and we would both cried a lot together, or I would say sorry just to make him cry.
4)Pray together with him.

It has been almost 4 years. From time to time he still had the some problems, but each time the situation was getting better.

Most importent, me myself is getting settled about his situation, that realy help him a lot! Good luck!

mow-mow

Try Dr WONG Chung Kwong in TST.
He is a psychiatrist specialising in children.
His clinic number is 2525-3133.
Hope your son gets better soon!

Williamhero2009

They are Psychologists.

hysterical

She is a psychologist from the US, specialising in children. But she works closely with several psychiatrists and could refer immediately. She works with international schools like HKIS and HKA.

The reason I recommended her is that she is very nice and easy to talk to, not scary and too clinic-like.

原帖由 wisekid2007 於 09-6-18 15:34 發表
Thanks. May I ask she is a CP or a psychiatrist?

kyliema2006

祇是一名婦孺之見，不知湊效否。

若能令令郎心情輕鬆、開朗，會否能改善情緒不安。從令郎的喜好著手想，他喜歡與什麼人玩，又或者喜歡到什麼地方玩，適當的社交圈子還會有幫助，又或者多給孩子擁抱，鍚鍚，儘量令他知道你們是多麼關懷他，希望對可以有幫助啦！

hysterical

Dear wisekid,

Dr. Jadis Blurton is very good with children. You will feel very comfortable talking with her as well. Her office is located in Central.

Therapy Associates
28691962

Good luck!

Mighty

When I was a child, I had an experience of a very sudden and big banging sound behind me when I was washing dishes.  I screamed very very loud and my mother came to see what had happened to me and she thought I was hurt.  I wasnt hurt phsically at all but that night I had a fever and I was so scared that I had to hold someone's hand (all the time) for 2 days.  I m no expert but I think depression is not an instant incident.  So I hope your son is not depressed just because of watching that movie.  Any chance that he happened to have a flu that made him sick?  A sudden suspension of school might also give him the feeling of lonliness, especially you said you are both working.  Is it possbile at all you or wife take 1 or 2 days off and be his company and see if he gets better?  All the best and good luck.

oooray

I've no recommendations on experts.
If I were you, as a parent, I would try to take a few "half-day off"(if possible) and stay at home with him in the daytime, as a surprise, to cheer him up, especially there are no school in these days...
Then, leave the rest to the experts. Be happy when you are with your boy. Try not to show worrying in front of your boy.
Take Care!