謝謝女兒

jywbb

將來學有所成, 亞仔/亞女仍然會怪責當年父母給他/她的安排及栽培嗎 ?

kyliema2006

講得好。我已經唔駛緊張其分數、名次了。祇是教他做人處事的正確的態度，都已經講到口臭，若然再為其學業傷腦筋，一定噴血而亡。

原帖由 麟媽媽 於 08-12-31 18:35 發表

只望各家長不要只追求學業成就，
要多關心子女內心感受。


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麟媽媽

相比真正踏入小學生涯，
考小學只是一個開始，
已覺好辛苦？可惜陸續有來，
只望各家長不要只追求學業成就，
要多關心子女內心感受。

原帖由 goodmama2003 於 08-12-31 17:25 發表


實不相瞞, 真是好辛苦呢~~~ .

vhunghk

我覺得應該講:辛苦你(小女),辛苦大家了!!

hisambaby

其實你地真是我的所有,女,因家裏最近有一些非常重大的問題,再加上在你面試前沒有為你準備好,現沒有一間school .. 比你backup..我真的好多好多嘢擔心,,但我就對你及細佬大駡,,,真的對不起....對不起....
希望天父不要放棄我們,,,,衰運快遠離我們

twobigeyes

Fully agree with you!  

原帖由 Crabmeatsoup 於 08-12-31 11:47 發表
我覺得你又唔駛甘激。我深信做父母所做既一切(尤其是係BK ’小一選校’交流既父母)﹐出發點都是為子女好﹐只是大家用既方法或程度上有所唔同。

我自己去年都經歷過同囡囡考小學既階段﹐的確要準備好多嘢﹐過程好辛苦。講真﹐ ...

Crabmeatsoup

我覺得你又唔駛甘激。我深信做父母所做既一切(尤其是係BK ’小一選校’交流既父母)﹐出發點都是為子女好﹐只是大家用既方法或程度上有所唔同。

我自己去年都經歷過同囡囡考小學既階段﹐的確要準備好多嘢﹐過程好辛苦。講真﹐有時小朋友你唔  ‘強迫’佢﹐佢又點會時時都聽話或自發性努力呀﹗我相信成功考到一間心儀既小學﹐是父母和小朋友一起努力既成果﹐某程度上對小朋友亦終身受用。

經過一番努力﹐父母在這裡抒發一下感受亦無可厚非。要知道父母對子女既愛都是無條件的。我唔明點解你要人'懺悔’和覺得人地做既嘢會令你 '覺得很嘔心' 囉.

原帖由 rohoy2k 於 08-12-28 00:26 發表
如果, 有人強迫一個五歲的小朋友做很多不是該年齡可以應付的事, 而因為小朋友對父母無條件的愛(或無奈的接受), 給了你一個讓你高興的結果.

這裏不應是你來,向明知不會來看的小朋友, 悄悄道謝的地方.

這應該是你夜 ...

[ 本帖最後由 Crabmeatsoup 於 08-12-31 12:02 編輯 ]

Png

只想講, 謝謝你.

原帖由 rohoy2k 於 08-12-28 00:26 發表
如果, 有人強迫一個五歲的小朋友做很多不是該年齡可以應付的事, 而因為小朋友對父母無條件的愛(或無奈的接受), 給了你一個讓你高興的結果.

這裏不應是你來,向明知不會來看的小朋友, 悄悄道謝的地方.

這應該是你夜 ...

wynma

我的快樂, 憂傷, 因她而起...
這句說話對父母來說講得很到肉, 我的快樂, 憂傷, 都因我的囝囝而起。以考小一為例, 未放榜前很是憂慮, 幻想考唔到時很是悲傷, 到真的考到了, 興奮得淚如泉湧, 哽咽得說不出話來! 謝謝你的分享, goodmama2003.

原帖由 goodmama2003 於 08-12-23 11:35 發表
其實, 我也要謝謝我的女兒,

是她, 令我的人生更加充實同精彩,
是她, 令我更禮會到 "養女方知父母恩" 這句話的含意.

我的生命中不能沒有她,

她是我的心肝寶貝,
她是上天給我的恩賜,
我的快樂, 憂傷, 因她而起.. ...

rohoy2k

如果, 有人強迫一個五歲的小朋友做很多不是該年齡可以應付的事, 而因為小朋友對父母無條件的愛(或無奈的接受), 給了你一個讓你高興的結果.

這裏不應是你來,向明知不會來看的小朋友, 悄悄道謝的地方.

這應該是你夜深人靜, 獨自來懺悔的地方.

不是想批評人. 但是我覺得很嘔心.

sara

Though my daughter is not smart and diligent, though she cannot follow all my instructions, I love her and support her anytime.......even she cannot admit any school I like.....
Parental love should be unconditional! Hope that all moms can love their children spontaneously.

amanda030209

I would like to say very very thank you to my daughter and My all family member are proud of her as she really done the best.
from newborn till now,she is a very mature,serious and understanding girl.Obey command,well awareness,hard working girl.I really feel that she is a great gift that God send to me.

The only thing that I worried for a long time is that she is very shy and under stress .Until now,she would feel scary and cry and shivering to attend a new class,or face to a new teacher.But magically she did very well in all the interview period and without any crying and upset feeling.On the other hand,she enjoy very much and asked me for further interview,so funny!!

actually,she is still not realizing that which primary school she will be attend even she already know she has been accepted by those primary school as she read all the reply letter already by herself.(because the selection of the primary is decided by me at last!so poor hers!No rights!),she still just thinking of her classmates and wants to be with them forever(if she stay in her own primary school)!!
So.......I just have one target at this moment is how to make my daughter to be much more happy  in the future.

Anyway,physically and psychologically health for my daughter are the most important for her and me!
THANK YOU DaDa

happyrain

Actually, I wish to say sorry to my daughter.
During the course of "school hunting" activities, I had forced her to do a lots of things that she did not like. In order to be more competitive, I let her join a lot of classes and competitions.
Sometimes, I saw her looks really tired and asks me to let her miss one lesson, but I refused.
I  remember her big eyes filled with tears but still obey my instruction to attend classes - my heart was filled with tears too!
When she failed the interview for the school I liked most, I remember how bad I treated her - my dear little angel, Mami sorry for what I have done to you!
Why parents and kids have to go through such pain? Why can't kids behaves like kids - play, sing, enjoy the life as they like?
I am sorry, my little angel, mami have been to harsh to you! You are only five years old!

Cherishvalue

請大家把今天對丈夫和孩子的感激記在帳上。

等孩子升到小學以後，爲學業爲教導爲期望， 我們可能都會想跟丈夫或孩子們大叫。 那時候恐怕我們要把今天積存下來的感激都用上， 才能壓下心頭的怒火呢！


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inquisitive

原帖由 goodmama2003 於 08-12-23 11:35 發表
其實, 我也要謝謝我的女兒,

是她, 令我的人生更加充實同精彩,
是她, 令我更禮會到 "養女方知父母恩" 這句話的含意.

我的生命中不能沒有她,

她是我的心肝寶貝,
她是上天給我的恩賜,
我的快樂, 憂傷, 因她而起.. ...

Good mama,

I love your message, you made me cry.
I remember the first time I ever saw my son cry (when he was only two days old in hospital)...  my heart ached in ways I have never known before.  Now, five years later, I cannot imagine life without him (even when he makes me so mad on the rare occasion!)
God has been so kind to me.  My boy is naturally a happy boy, always laughing, always joking.  Of course, sometimes he is all boy, wanting to talk about monsters and guns...but at other times he is loving, always hugging me.  My favourite times are when he and I share a quiet moment (at least once a day), and suddenly, he will look at me and gently say "Mama, I love you".
He is truly the best gift from God.