我很累....

jjbaby0307

日日滿腦子 interview, interview, 等結果, 緊張, 瞓唔到, 失望..., 覺得好累, 成日叫人平常心, 係咪真係咁容易????

BBR

in完今個星期六終於告一段落，可以鬆一口氣 全部學校都in完，實在太開心，精神上好累，要好好慶祝一下

mrsanthony

政府的教育政策失敗!

venuscc

全世界比，香港人應該系最幸苦人中的一族！
好多資料顯示亦都證實過呢個結論！
所以所計啦，要做好呢份"工"(香港人)，真系唔易，咪先點解成日有人話要移民呀，我林佢地都不過系想“辭職唔撈咱”，出外邊起碼行步路都無咁快呀嘛！

GIPW

Dear all parents
Just relax a bit.  I am also one of the mum who are waiting for the result of DGS and all the "famous" primary school.  But if my girl can't get into those school.  I am fine with the result - at we all tried.

But sometimes I really wonder if DGS is the "right" school?  are you or your children prepare for this ?  Imagine if you get 90 marks and you just discover that you rank the last in the class?  

I sometimes do wonder.  I need to walk through all this with my kids, am I prepare?  Do I have the time to do this?  I just can't leave my kid to go thru all this herself - this is talking a 6 years schools life.

If you can get into the top of the school, CONGRATULATION!  - your task has not ended but this is just the beginning.   If your kid can not cope with the pressure of the traditional school, what then could you do ?

By just thinking of this, I feel more tired.

BBR

唉!根本就唔可以全母語教學,香港係一個國際都會,英文係唔可以決小,英文係每一個國家都會用的共通語言,要推行母語教學係無可能,小朋友從小到大去學英文易過讀大學至黎慢慢學,最慘係D小朋友成為白老鼠 ,攪到D學校偷偷用英文教書

原帖由 Venuscheng 於 08-11-19 16:43 發表


我都覺得政府的教育政策實在好失敗, 本來母語教育本身的理念唔係錯, 不過當社會要求都係英文, 大學係全用英語時, 而中文書籍又在短缺中, 在這種環境下講推行母語, 跟本就係要那些學生變成實驗犠牲品.  母語教育唔 ...

Venuscheng

原帖由 BBR 於 08-11-19 14:01 發表
香港政府好多政策都好失敗(當然最失敗係教育政策!!!!)每年交幾十萬稅但就完全分享唔到任何優惠,我都想個女可以讀資助學校,但一方面好多資助學校都不知所謂,一方面政府又成日變政策,講真如果當年唔實施這個母語教學, ...

我都覺得政府的教育政策實在好失敗, 本來母語教育本身的理念唔係錯, 不過當社會要求都係英文, 大學係全用英語時, 而中文書籍又在短缺中, 在這種環境下講推行母語, 跟本就係要那些學生變成實驗犠牲品.  母語教育唔係淨係學校轉母語咁簡單呀! 整個社會都要配合. 求職時係唔係可以只要求中文水準呢? 而且同外國人好唔同, 如菲傭學英文會容易過學中文, 因為佢地本身母語同英語有相似地方. 而中國人的中文同英語係好唔同的語言, 就好似外國人都覺得學中國較難一樣. 當然, 總會有人消除萬難的學會.

gracechung

     

原帖由 dimmy 於 08-11-19 13:29 發表
It was around 6:30 p.m. I was disappointed to receive the rejection letter from the desired school because of the age constraint.

I was inside one of the compartments on a MTR train towards Kwun Ton ...

BBR

香港政府好多政策都好失敗(當然最失敗係教育政策!!!!)每年交幾十萬稅但就完全分享唔到任何優惠,我都想個女可以讀資助學校,但一方面好多資助學校都不知所謂,一方面政府又成日變政策,講真如果當年唔實施這個母語教學,都唔會個個走哂去爭私校同英文學校,令比母語教學個班小朋友大部份D英文程度差到不得了

gracechung

可憐天下父母心！

原帖由 goodmama2003 於 08-11-19 10:51 發表


我認, 我不是一個好的天主教徒, 但, 我是一個好媽媽. 我有付出過心血同時間給我個女. 多謝你的祝福, 我也祝福所有好媽媽的仔女都可以入到最心儀的學校. ...

dimmy

It was around 6:30 p.m. I was disappointed to receive the rejection letter from the desired school because of the age constraint.

I was inside one of the compartments on a MTR train towards Kwun Tong. The compartment was almost full of passengers. When the train reached Shek Kep Mei , a lot of passengers tried to squeeze through the crowd. A boy wearing a school uniform screamed out when the door closed. He seemed to be a primary student at the age of not more than 12 years old. I believe that the boy got the “Down” syndrome (唐氏綜合症). A woman in mid-thirties put her arm warmly around his shoulders and then gave him a big hug, just like holding a big baby boy. I guessed she was his mother or guardian. She took a deep breath occasionally. The boy stopped screaming, winked and showed a nice smile on his face. They quit at Prince Edward.
At that moment, I felt that I was a lucky man indeed.


I am no longer disappointed, angry or unhappy because I have already a happy family, with a healthy and happy son and a lovely wife. Nothing is more important than a healthy and happy family.

As parents like all of you, we spare no effort in enriching the life of our next generation with all the best resources we can offer. In the past few months, the parents were very busy (i.e., preparation of portfolio; research on the desired schools; keeping track of the different schedules –submission of application forms, interviews as well as release of the interview results; interview rehearsal, in addition to the regular review on our kids’ homework and study as well as other usual activities for the kids. Now, we should have a break for both parents and kids.
If the education system really runs well in H.K., why are there a lot of parents who prefer to spend a lot of effort and money on DDS or private schools, even under the poor economic recession?
Does the education policy serve us well or we serve the (changing) policy ? As learnt from newspapers, many senior government officers sent their kids to overseas for study. Why?

原帖由 hcheng 於 08-11-19 10:58 發表


I am same as you.  I am not only exhausted but also disappointed because both of them still do not have an offer on hand.

2x pressure
2x disappointment

[ 本帖最後由 dimmy 於 08-11-19 14:03 編輯 ]

Venuscheng

原帖由 hcheng 於 08-11-19 10:58 發表


I am same as you.  I am not only exhausted but also disappointed because both of them still do not have an offer on hand.

2x pressure
2x disappointment

我都係兩個小朋友, 大仔in小一, 細女in幼兒園, 大仔no offer, 細的有一個最大好處就係阿哥個間實收, 所以一定有offer. 通常每次公佈結果個日會有唔開心, 不過過了又無嘜野, 因為神會為我兒子安排最好的. 大家努力吧!

hcheng

原帖由 phoebelau 於 08-11-18 19:50 發表
請不要介意
我來這裡洩洩氣
真的很.....很累呵!!
大仔(IN 小學), 細仔(IN 幼稚園), 在這兩個月入面, 共IN了十間學校
日日上網搜尋學校, 日日上BK, 望住個電腦望到幾乎想作嘔
填FORM, 交FORM, 等信, 面試, 等 ...

I am same as you.  I am not only exhausted but also disappointed because both of them still do not have an offer on hand.

2x pressure
2x disappointment

LS+MCS

原帖由 goodmama2003 於 08-11-19 09:58 發表
我有20分, 我報的是maryknoll,

為左拿5分, 當bb 2y 時, 我花了1.5年時間入天主教. 為的, 只等11月24日.

It's not so good to be a Catholic purely for the sake of getting 5 marks. Anway, wish you the best of luck and hope to hear your good news next Mon.

BBR

我同你諗法一樣,第2round我都唔抱太大希望,同埋可能已經有私校收,所以唔太緊張,我都係諗住去叩門

原帖由 gdmice 於 08-11-19 09:30 發表


My daughter is same to yours who only has 15 marks. I have to put more effort on the 3rd round to "knock the door" if we fail in the 2nd round "lucky draw"!

gdmice

原帖由 BBR 於 08-11-19 08:41 發表
我個女得15分所以我預左入唔到第一輪,基本上24號對我黎講一D影響都無

My daughter is same to yours who only has 15 marks. I have to put more effort on the 3rd round to "knock the door" if we fail in the 2nd round "lucky draw"!

jmiu

To Phoebelau,

我和你的情況一樣.
大女(IN 小學), 細仔(IN 幼稚園).
由9月開始搵學校, 替大女整Portfolio,
填表, 交表, interview, 等信, 再interview...
兩個月來每天上班都不能集中精神.
不敢在老公面前說太多,
費事他亦和我一樣神經衰弱. 影響工作.
更加不會在小朋友面前表達.
前兩天跟奶奶說起細仔SPC 只是Waitlist.
大女聽到已很不開心. 她以為細佬沒有幼稚園收....

這兩個月真的很漫長.
對我來說比金融海潚更厲害.
錢沒有了, 可以將來慢慢再搵番.
但小朋友的學校, 只有這次機會.
機會沒有了, 將來未必可以再搵番.

原帖由 phoebelau 於 08-11-18 19:50 發表
請不要介意
我來這裡洩洩氣
真的很.....很累呵!!
大仔(IN 小學), 細仔(IN 幼稚園), 在這兩個月入面, 共IN了十間學校
日日上網搜尋學校, 日日上BK, 望住個電腦望到幾乎想作嘔
填FORM, 交FORM, 等信, 面試, 等 ...

LS+MCS

Good luck to all of you ! It's not easy to be dads and moms nowadays !