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6365
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發表於 06-10-17 11:31 |只看該作者

資優兒

我個仔仔今年小一,就讀於油塘一間直資小学,開学一個月己經被老師至電過家長幾次,話佢上堂唔專心兼倒蛋,但我己勸過,鬧過同打過他,依然冇用,於是我慢慢再跟他傾過啦,原來佢話D課程太簡單,尤其數学同英文,所以唔專心上堂,於是我就考下佢啦,發覺佢己自學咗乘除數及份數,當然那些只是很單的,但在小一來講己經很深了,我又除意問下佢課本的英文啦,佢又識讀又識解,於是我又問佢課外位英文老師關於佢英文追唔追得上,結果話佢英文幾好添,但就上堂倒蛋.我不知点算好,問朋友話佢可能係資優兒,但我問過做資優Test要成三千多元,是否有需要做呢?我本想至電學校副校長傾關於課程問題同管教啦,因佢學校時常說拔尖補底,但佢己是尖班了,點知我至電学校,接線位小姐又唔比機会我同副校傾,又唔知佢乜Title,佢話有嘢可同佢講,點知佢越講我覺得佢幫我唔到,兼態度唔好,請問現在我点做好,佢係咁推話家長應教佢專重上課,但我都講過啦我對佢己沒辦法所以先揾学校傾,所以很失望.
  

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發表於 06-10-17 11:53 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

去優才小學�SFA(課程很深),佢地收左好多聰明既小朋友,前者仲比你jump班+!如果家長從無教過小朋友,又無比佢睇過這類書,而無師自通,就好叻啦!因E+好多家長都實行0才教育,好多天才小朋友都係培養出來,唔同我地細個。去圖書館借D數學小天才,睇下佢識唔識做。有D校長一睇&同佢講下野就知佢係資優+啦!



scso 寫道:
我個仔仔今年小一,就讀於油塘一間直資小学,開学一個月己經被老師至電過家長幾次,話佢上堂唔專心兼倒蛋,但我己勸過,鬧過同打過他,依然冇用,於是我慢慢再跟他傾過啦,原來佢話D課程太簡單,尤其數学同英文,所以唔專心上堂,於是我就考下佢啦,發覺佢己自學咗乘除數及份數,當然那些只是很單的,但在小一來講己經很深了,我又除意問下佢課本的英文啦,佢又識讀又識解,於是我又問佢課外位英文老師關於佢英文追唔追得上,結果話佢英文幾好添,但就上堂倒蛋.我不知点算好,問朋友話佢可能係資優兒,但我問過做資優Test要成三千多元,是否有需要做呢?我本想至電學校副校長傾關於課程問題同管教啦,因佢學校時常說拔尖補底,但佢己是尖班了,點知我至電学校,接線位小姐又唔比機会我同副校傾,又唔知佢乜Title,佢話有嘢可同佢講,點知佢越講我覺得佢幫我唔到,兼態度唔好,請問現在我点做好,佢係咁推話家長應教佢專重上課,但我都講過啦我對佢己沒辦法所以先揾学校傾,所以很失望.
  

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628
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發表於 06-10-17 21:56 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

點解才小一已有尖班?是否入學時需考試呢?

我阿仔而加都係咁,每天上課都係度玩文具,放晒d筆係桌上當車玩。亦有騷擾同學。有老師唔俾玩的話,佢話佢就係度發牛豆。

可以怎樣呢?同學校講過,但也沒什麼法子幫他吧?我想佢地而加可以做到的,就是由他玩算了(只要唔好咁誇張和騷擾別人的話),我覺得阿仔上學,大部分時間都浪費掉。

昨天,他還無聲無色的偷偷把家裡一本四下的學林數學放在書包帶回校,就在上課時明目張膽咁拿出來做。

我放學檢查佢書包先知道,嚇了一跳,佢話老師看見都無理佢。我只好拿拿林寫封信給老師,表明唔係我做母親的故意縱容佢違反紀律,挑戰老師。唔想學校以為我認為阿仔可以享有特權為所欲為.... :cry:  :cry:

我加下都好煩,好彩佢仍有電腦課和體育堂係鍾意ge,好彩佢識到一些朋友仔.....所以佢暫時都沒有抗拒上學。但另外的問題是,佢經常對老師(給父母)無大無細,態度囂張,自把自為,完全不曉得自己只是個還未足六歲的黃毛小子,非常放肆.....。
我都快被他氣得七孔流血架喇。   
誰會直率地說出所認識的真實?有所認識的少數人,愚蠢地不隱蔽自己充實的心,向愚民們說明他們的感情和見識,他們總是被人磔死或燒死。 歌德 <<浮士德>>入來做下test,不同的人對事情有不同的看法和感受﹗

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發表於 06-10-17 23:25 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

hi,老友
為何不索性跟他做test???因材施教ma!
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628
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發表於 06-10-17 23:28 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

其實就算做左test...咁咪又係咁咁咁......
又可以點點點呢?
誰會直率地說出所認識的真實?有所認識的少數人,愚蠢地不隱蔽自己充實的心,向愚民們說明他們的感情和見識,他們總是被人磔死或燒死。 歌德 <<浮士德>>入來做下test,不同的人對事情有不同的看法和感受﹗

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628
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發表於 06-10-17 23:33 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

我想知道,在一般學校裏,有幾多個gifted child做左test "證實"左係 gifted之後,可以有很多援助?
是否上課就不會再搞事?
我見朋友個仔check完咪一樣不停被老師罰罰罰...
一樣上課悶到佢cc下.....   :cry:
誰會直率地說出所認識的真實?有所認識的少數人,愚蠢地不隱蔽自己充實的心,向愚民們說明他們的感情和見識,他們總是被人磔死或燒死。 歌德 <<浮士德>>入來做下test,不同的人對事情有不同的看法和感受﹗

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發表於 06-10-17 23:59 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

我都想要援助~~~
不過~如果肯定了是資優的話,意志便可堅定點,  然後再定下目標,..........努力.................加油..............
如讀一些專收gifted child的學校,這些學校都有一套的教學方法。
又例如是數學資優的話,你可以替他報讀奥數。

雖然教統局無能,但係做媽咪嘅要自強ma,咪咁消極la~~@@
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6365
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發表於 06-10-18 10:35 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

在佢小一入學前學校己考編班試,聽你咁講我仔仔跟你仔仔都一樣難教,試下慢慢同佢傾啦,雖然我都試過唔work,但我今次又再試,係咁哦佢,呢幾日佢又好似乖咗,又或者見見學校社工啦,因我同學校講想請社工同佢傾下,雖然學校未安排到,但我希望有效啦,因社工有經驗,幾難攪D小朋友都見過啦.

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6365
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發表於 06-10-18 10:45 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

之前我個仔都考過優才,但就waiting,可能佢當時唔係咁合作又倒蛋啦,最終都冇消意,可能間學校唔會收D咁唔乖既學生啦,唔知点算好呢?

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發表於 06-10-18 15:08 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

Hello,
我的兒子也是資優生。當他還在小一的時候,他時常在課堂上做一些特發事,好在他那班主任善解人意,有好教師是好的backup。我不久之前看報章報導現在只有三間私立小學積極推展資優教育,包括聖方濟各英文小學、聖若瑟英文小學及高主教書院小學。尤其是聖方濟各英文小學,全校有900多名學生,其中200被識別為資優生。你可為你的小朋友試一試轉校,如再遲一些,你的小朋友習以為常,以為每當上英文或數学可上堂唔專心兼倒蛋就不好了。
leeamy

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發表於 06-10-18 17:01 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

leeamy,
係呀, 其中有一個六年班的男生IQ去到150,
可能是全校之冠.

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發表於 06-10-18 17:28 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

My son has doen a IQ test in the HKU. He scored 154 maks. I haven't told the school.

He is very naughty in the class. So many pulishments on him. He is always talking to the classmates no matter how far are they.

However, his acadanic results are not very well.

The IQ test indicated that he is good at the leadership and problem solving. That's why he becomes the centre of the classmates.

How can I help him? Is there any source I can looking for?

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發表於 06-10-20 13:41 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

間間學校如果有得揀都揀d唔止聰明,而且要乖gala
leeamy 寫道:
Hello,
我的兒子也是資優生。當他還在小一的時候,他時常在課堂上做一些特發事,好在他那班主任善解人意,有好教師是好的backup。我不久之前看報章報導現在只有三間私立小學積極推展資優教育,包括聖方濟各英文小學、聖若瑟英文小學及高主教書院小學。尤其是聖方濟各英文小學,全校有900多名學生,其中200被識別為資優生。你可為你的小朋友試一試轉校,如再遲一些,你的小朋友習以為常,以為每當上英文或數学可上堂唔專心兼倒蛋就不好了。
leeamy

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發表於 06-10-20 14:59 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

係唔係gifted都好..都當佢係gifted甘教啦!!

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發表於 06-10-24 13:13 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

Hi mazbongo,

Does your son has any extra curricular activities after school? let him do something he like very much, and also when it is time for tests, you have to assist him to study, make sure he can have better academic results to boost up his confidence.

leeamy   

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發表於 06-10-24 15:57 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

leeamy,
   好多謝你既意見,今朝學校社工電联過我,因佢百厭我教唔聽,我主動跟班主任話見社工,佢都話我仔可能是資優,佢話會多些同仔仔傾下,及會寫信去唔知咩嘢部門(我唔記得咗),幫佢做些Test,希望可幫到我啦.


  
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發表於 06-10-25 17:30 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

leeamy 寫道:
Hi mazbongo,

Does your son has any extra curricular activities after school? let him do something he like very much, and also when it is time for tests, you have to assist him to study, make sure he can have better academic results to boost up his confidence.

leeamy   

Thank you. I have try my best all the time. He has enough extra curricular activities - twice a week. All are related to sport. The teacher and I hope that he will find exhausted after playing sport. However, it seems no significant improvement.

The acadamic results are not the focus. I find that his  concentration ability is too low. He is easily attracted by many other things even they have no meaning. On the other hand, he is always full of confident on every thing. He thinks he can solve any problem. So fuuny.

I will keep on observation on him.

Thanks again.

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發表於 06-11-21 01:03 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

leeamy 寫道:
Hello,
我的兒子也是資優生。當他還在小一的時候,他時常在課堂上做一些特發事,好在他那班主任善解人意,有好教師是好的backup。我不久之前看報章報導現在只有三間私立小學積極推展資優教育,包括聖方濟各英文小學、聖若瑟英文小學及高主教書院小學。尤其是聖方濟各英文小學,全校有900多名學生,其中200被識別為資優生。你可為你的小朋友試一試轉校,如再遲一些,你的小朋友習以為常,以為每當上英文或數学可上堂唔專心兼倒蛋就不好了。
leeamy


我兒現讀sfa ,九月尾時,開了一個家長會,
是有關資優兒童的講座。

聽完後,我決定做;
事實,我無想過自己兒子是否資優。
我覺做智力評估,若果是的話,
我們作為父母要怎樣幫助孩子?
不是也不打緊呀。

而學校亦會協助資優兒童;
當你的小朋友在智力評估達130以上,
才算是資優,就會用抽離式。

我兒當日的評估,有一個初步結果,
在三個項目都達130以上,
學校是要交評估的正式報告。

若不是入讀 sfa,我真不會特意去做智力評估的。

但學校用何種辦法教導,現楷段我都不知道的。

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發表於 06-11-22 01:38 |只看該作者

Re: 資優兒

Hi mazbongo

Just share my personal experience about my son.

1.  Dig out his strength and build on, give him more challenge:

Before his IQ test, we discovered he is very good at numbers, direction, excellent memory, always ask questions and why etc.  A friend of us recommended him to take a math program by EPGY (Subsidary of Stangord University).  He finished 4 years program in 12 months, he found the program is challenging and keep on excel in maths.

2.  Ask for help like psychologist or social worker:

We are lucky to have a very good psychologist to assist us to understand a gifted kid.  As parents, we misunderstand his attitudes and actions, without the external support and guidance we will be the same to blame my son as naughty.  E.g.  he likes to play and make alot of noise and seems to talk to another person near by him.  Normally, my wife will stop him, but the psychologist explains to us that let him do it, its good because he makes up some situation or story, which is creativity.  If we record it down, we can understand he creates some stories and interesting topics.

3.  Talk to teachers and principal:

We talked to the principal and shown her my son's IQ report.  She enrolled him into a creativity group particularly for fast learner and gifted kids.  They learnt something outside the normal class, which is more challenging for their age.  E.g. mind map, EQ, presentation skill, creativity projects.  Teachers also pay more attention on their behaviour and attitude during the class.  e.g. as my son very good at maths, his teacher assigned him to follow up a classmate or a junior student, used his gift to help those kids to improve their maths grade.  In P4, he assisted a classmate's score from 56 to 87 in 2 months.  I asked his classmate during the birthday party, what's the difference of my son's method compare to the teacher.  He explained to me that my son used more than one method to illustrate how to solve the problem, so he can pick any method he can easily understand to solve the problem.  After a while, my son's EQ improved as he is not just a student in class, he is a junior teacher in the class.  So he behaves much better in class.

4.  Let him have more exposure to understand many smart kids around:

My wife will arrange some challenges for him, say EPGY will organise Talent Search Test all over the world, also in HK.  My son went for the test 3 years ago, 600 kids sit for the test.  he knows that his talent need to improve and be more competitive.

5.  Gifted and polite:

Gifted doesn't mean you can do whatever you want in class.  If he does, ask yourself, how he behaves at home, if yes again.  The problem most likely from the family instead of classroom.  You need to do something and stop to spoil him.  e.g. when my son at P1, we explained to him that doing homework, pack his school bag, revision for test and examination are his responsbility, also no matter how smart you are you need to respect your teachers and don't affect classmate to learn during the class.  It sounds simple and common sense, but I can ensure you that not many parents really do it.  Now, he is at P6, we are no need to help him for revision before examination.  He score straight A in all subjects.

I heard a seminar 6 years ago presented by Prof Wong Chung Kwong from Chinese University.  If a kid has emotional or behavioural problem, as parents, we must examine ourself, his problems most likely come from our poor role model.  it make sense to me anyway.
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
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