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Re: 仔仔返學唔開心，點算好?
Dear Parents,
As I mentioned before, I usually teach very young children. In my previous teaching experiece, I usually only take a few days or less than one week to settle the children to the class. Of course, some of the children may still cry for a while after a weekend! But, yes.....some children might only testing the teachers and parents if it works if they crying a lot! Will parents pick them up earlier if they cry harder!! Children are really really smart!!!
I can't accept the children in my class crying for more than two weeks! It doesn't mean I am trying to blame on the children or wear a color glasses to treat them! I just feel that if the children crying that much, it may reflect as a teacher, I do have a problem too! I would query anything wrong with me or in my class that couldn't attract the child to come to school!
It is because I really believe that in the early years of school life, the most important thing is allow the children to enjoy themselves at schools, and establish a positive image of school as well as teachers! So, I won't accept my students crying that much! Of course, I do think that sometimes the problem is not on me or the child! Who? is on the parents or the first care giver of the child!!
Parents, Please do not mind or allow me to say that! Some of the common problems I found in lots of parents which may caused your child has difficulty to settle in school.
1st~ lying! very important to keep the words or promise that you has told your child. ( I have much experiences that some children even cry on the first few days, but they didn't cry hard! and after I explained to them why mummy sent them to school and when would parents come pick them up, they would stop crying and kept telling themselves "mummy comes later! mummy goes to Park'N shop"! It is a very positive example! These kind of children are the same, emotionally they do miss their mums, but they have a belief that their mums will come back soon! that's why they have the ability to comfort themselves!
2nd~over protection! Try to allow your children to do as much as thing by themselves before they start school! Imagine if your child at home has everybody attention, care and protection, how can they adapt to share adults attention and care with other children in a few days? Also, they may lose or lack of security in groups or strange environment!
3rd~peeping at the classroom doors or windows! After you said bye bye to your child, never try to peep your child at the door or windows!! It is because your child will think that why mums leave me here with a stanger or they will try to cry harder to get you back!!! (so, sometimes when i have a child who crying quite a lot! I will take them have a walk in the whole school, and show them there is no parents in any classes or anywhere!!!
Oops! I have been talking too much tim! but hopefully you gals/guys understand what i am trying to say la!
(hahaa....I press a wrong button and end up open a new topic tim!!!) stupid me!!! |
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發表於 06-9-9 23:25
