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本帖最後由 heebo 於 16-10-15 16:42 編輯
Oboe_FRSM 發表於 16-10-15 13:32 
I would like to share with you my unpleasant experience and hear your opinion about it, whether the ...
I wouldn't conclude she cheated you or you being naive. But I would say that you were being kind and helpful to have gone out of your way to help her out of kindness, just like when you responded to parents questions here or gave professional advice, without material gain. I assumed that she wanted to have lessons with you but changed her mind later. She could have approached a few teachers at the same time and decide later through which teacher to buy the oboe and with who to take lessons, this we don't know. If she had withdrawn and not buying through you, you may have felt differently as she hadn't saved $10,000 and you wouldn't have felt used but your effort has been spent just the same. I do believe it is not nice and plain irresponsible of her not to respond to you. |
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