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Re: BB 的人生路 - 出世為讀名校??
As parents, we always want the best for our child and this has not changed throughout history. In ancient China, parents dream is that the son goes to Beijing, takes exam and become a government official. Nothing has changed in the last 1000 years.
The most important thing is motive and method. Everyone has their choice and there is nothing wrong with wanting the best for a child.
The problem is that too many commerial entity has been trying to make money out of this desire and not delivering the goods.
1)由細到大與你一起看通俗的電視劇和一日到晚播不停的廣告。
They might grow up not watching TV when they have a choice.
2)你唱K時，也教他們學做fans，愛上虛榮的流行歌手
They could also say no and turn on some other things that interest them.
3)餐餐公仔麵，損壞智能發展.........
They may gro up to hate these noodles.
As an example, my parents were heavy smokers but I don't smoke. My father enjoys swearing and using four letters words all the time but I hardly ever say anything like him.
While a child is influenced by the parent, the result is not always predictable.  |
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發表於 05-5-20 01:05
