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本帖最後由 jolalee 於 14-5-12 06:48 編輯
hamufamily 發表於 14-5-11 16:12
其實對我泥講學術唔係我最注重的。middle school 前我希望佢係愉快學習,雙語發展,希望佢去到美國易D適應 ...
If academics is not your primary target and you want your kid to have a happy childhood, then why were you targeting top traditional local schools in the first place? Kids are quite adaptable so I think you need to list out your priorities honestly to yourself first: strong English proficiency, strong Chinese proficiency (please remember you can't have your cake and eat it too), discipline vs freedom in learning, name/fame of the school (be honest to yourselves, we did), academics, time for sports & the arts, amount of family time, financial input etc. take note that once you have set 1-2 as priorities, then the rest has to be sacrificed to a certain degree one way or another. Be strong but take a deep breath, once the dust settles in a year or two you will feel much better ;) |
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