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發表於 13-1-16 23:59 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印
My son got beaten in his primary school. That guy hit my son's head, face with fist and thighs with kicks. What should I do to stop that?
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發表於 13-1-17 03:33 |只看該作者
學校 怎處理?
for every one criticism, three positives must be given.

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發表於 13-1-17 10:51 |只看該作者
回復 iamjoy 的帖子

You mean bully?  If the kid is small, you should report to the school.  If the kid is big enough (say p.4 or above) and no serious injury, you should let the kid to handle it.  You may ask your kid to report to the teachers.  

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發表於 13-1-17 11:24 |只看該作者
thanks for your advice. he is just p.2. but the kid was really violent. he banged my son's head with the door. i found my son has bruises on his thighs, buttock, and on the side of the belly in the past weeks. He told me they are sport injuries but I persuaded him to tell me the truth. This bully has been hitting my son for over 20 times and is very violent. I told the school and the counselor met that boy and said that he was remorseful and cried. but nothing is really done. What should I do?

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Yanamami  Even the boy is regret for what he has done, he should still be punished.  I'll ask the school to call the boy's parents for a meeting at the school.  發表於 13-2-2 09:46
Yanamami  The school has not done enough to prevent this from happening again.  This is serious.    發表於 13-2-2 09:42
Jane1983  咁真係幾嚴重!同學校跟進,揾解決方法。over20x,撞頭落門!吾係一句後悔就算。  發表於 13-1-17 22:23
overview  call police.  發表於 13-1-17 13:57

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發表於 13-1-17 13:00 |只看該作者
回復 iamjoy 的帖子

The school may not have handled it properly.  I think the main issue is to avoid it happens again.  My son was bullied by a kid of another class (not violent acts).  I told my sold to handle it himself - report it to teacher and find out the reason why.  I also told him there must be a bigger bully behind every bully.  So my son went to find out who was behind and luckily he found that person (which is in fact my son's friend).  They sorted it out themseleves.

I suggest you to find the reason for the bullying acts.

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發表於 13-1-18 01:26 |只看該作者
笠住死仔包個頭and do the same to him,tic for tat. 20次甘多wor!擺明係個惡霸喇!不教訓佢佢真以為呢個世界冇公義!好激氣!


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發表於 13-1-18 13:32 |只看該作者
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發表於 13-1-18 13:41 |只看該作者

回覆:re: how to handle school violence ?

趕快為傷勢拍照留紀錄,將事情經過丶日期紀錄。如校方沒有妥善處理,可考慮報警,讓欺負人的知嚴重性,被欺者知道有出路。



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發表於 13-1-18 13:43 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 laorenjia 於 13-1-18 14:23 編輯

bksummer

我仲以为我係另類,我教阿女,还拖再讲,唔夠打就更加要打,(被)打到對方第日見到自己都要運路走,千奇咪睇眼前得失避開,除非對方有心打瓜自己(細路仔好少有咁嘅深度),拳頭交,万事有阿爸撐。阿女小學嘗有一同學成日蝦佢,如今係佢最friend嗰個,先排我舉例佢最要好嘅同學UE考A乃此姝。小學蝦蝦霸霸嘅,多數有啲料到。

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發表於 13-1-18 13:45 |只看該作者

回覆:re: how to handle school violence ?

另外長遠方面要令小朋友自強,了解成被欺者原因,對症下藥,減低再成為欺凌對象的機會。



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發表於 13-1-18 14:21 |只看該作者
laorenjia 發表於 13-1-18 13:43
bksummer

我仲以为我係另類,我教阿女,还拖再讲,唔夠打就更加要打,(被)打到對方第日見到自己都要運路走 ...
小朋友要成日昅實的。

我女以前係playroom爭玩具打人,教極吾聽,我同佢講再打人,返屋企罰佢。


最近發覺佢係playroom,被人打吾還手,我問佢點解吾保護自己,佢話打人我地會嬲,講極都任人打,唯有話佢吾還手,返屋企罰佢。好無奈!

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發表於 13-2-2 02:08 |只看該作者

回覆:iamjoy 的帖子

學柔道/抬拳道自強



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發表於 13-2-2 09:36 |只看該作者
Jane1983 發表於 13-1-18 14:21
小朋友要成日昅實的。

我女以前係playroom爭玩具打人,教極吾聽,我同佢講再打人,返屋企罰佢。
You teach her to還手???? Unbelievable.....Is this the right thing to do? Is there a better way to protect herself?

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發表於 13-2-2 09:58 |只看該作者

回覆:re: how to handle school violence ?

練武、「還拖」、「笠頭」,這𥚃的回應還真重口味。



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發表於 13-2-2 13:53 |只看該作者
回復 Yanamami 的帖子

先say "No,吾好",跟住走開,再黎就還手。
好多小朋友縱得太勁,父母見女打人扮懵,要教小朋友保護自己!

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發表於 13-2-2 15:28 |只看該作者
JustAParent 發表於 13-2-2 09:58
練武、「還拖」、「笠頭」,這𥚃的回應還真重口味。
我以為她們講笑!
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.


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發表於 13-2-3 12:34 |只看該作者
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發表於 13-2-3 15:38 |只看該作者

回覆:re: how to handle school violence

我細囝過去兩年亦間唔中被同學無故推撞跌倒,很多瘀傷。老實說,老師很難捉到同學。我唯有教阿囝自保,起碼不要讓人打自己。



for every one criticism, three positives must be given.

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發表於 13-2-3 17:40 |只看該作者
有d小朋友被縱壞,一吾鍾意就打人,~4歲人仔,但手腳好重。

在playroom,試過善意規勸、對家長表達意見、同兩個小朋友解釋,以致嚴詞指責等等,都無用。唯獨還手,佢知痛知有consequence,先有所顧忌。

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發表於 13-2-3 23:21 |只看該作者
……看到尼度,真系幾驚~~
希望阿仔唔會遇到了,我真系完全唔識處理尼種問題。
香港這個關頭,梁特首和林鄭和一批官員準備去廣州輕鬆兩日了……政府的態度沒有最差,只有更差……
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