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waiyinmama

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囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

小女現5.5yr. 學了鋼琴1年多了, 但近期很不愿lin琴. 特別是老師教的新歌. 我也知道是很辛苦的, 看她lin琴時的不情愿及哭泣, 使我很掙扎. 如現在放棄便等於沒學過. 但在這情況下堅持, 我和她都很累. 我問她是否很不喜歡 - 答案當然是"是的". 但我又問她想不想可以彈自己喜歡的歌曲 - 答案當然是"想".

煩請有類似經驗的人士給給意見. 謝謝.   :-|
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waiyinmama

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

ming2,

謝謝你的幫忙. 我相信囡囡練琴不足同要轉位彈令佢覺得困難. 等我今晚同再同她傾傾睇下.

Thank you so much.
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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

2 weeks ago I have had an experience similar to yours.  As what Ming2 says, you need to talk about this situation to the teacher and also tried to understand what kind of problems your girl encountered.  The main reason of my girl resisting to practise piano due to her unfamiliarity of keynotes which make her lose interest to piano learning.  After I found this barrier and discussed with the piano center and the teacher, she started to pick up the interest again within these 2 weeks.

This is very common that the little child will lose interest to piano practising by learning different degree of new songs.  In my case, I will get her practise new songs first and after that, I encourage her to play those old songs which make a balance for her.  In a result, she is quite eager to play those old songs or make songs herself nearly half hour more after practising the new songs.  This does work for my girl and hope you will get your own way to encourage your sweetie.

那時我為得到這孩子祈禱，上主就賞賜了我所懇求的，所以我現在把他獻於上主，他一生是屬於上主的。（撒上：２７－２８）你教導孩童應行的道路，待他老年時也不會離棄。（箴２２：６）

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

encourage and give her motivations.  I guess the teacher plays a very important role too.  A friend of mine wanted to quit piano when she was young because the teacher almost made her hate music but luckily she changed teacher who knew how to encourage and motivate and she finished grade 8 and still enjoying piano playing.

So do communicate with the teacher about make sure you have a teacher who loves music (but not too serious to a degree that make kids scare) and loves kids.

Some time teachers think it is parent's problem as it is parent's responsibility to ensure kid practice.  As kid cannot progress without practice.

So I guess is the dynamic between you, your kid and the teacher la!  Don't blame any one of the three and hope your kid will find the joy of piano playing soon.


Just a comment I heard a lot, private teacher usually teach better the piano center's teachers.
No offence intended!

I am just a parent who want my kid to learn music via piano.  piano is just an instrument, not the music itself.

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waiyinmama

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

囡囡的第一位老師是琴行的老師, 教法是註音"1,2,3,4....". 幾個月后老師離開琴行. 新老師是琴行內一位非常年輕的女孩, 她完全控制不了囡囡, 在上課期間囡囡落地唱歌 :cry:

因此找了一位私人老師, 老師HEAD到囡囡, 教法用的是"ABCD...".  但是發生了一件事: 經常是奶奶操囡囡去老師家, 弟弟(3YR)也會跟住去, 但囡囡學琴時, 奶奶同弟弟會去公園玩, 到時間再一起去操囡囡. 有一次當奶奶同弟弟要去操囡囡時, 弟弟急住去廁所. 由於時間的問題(囡囡已夠鐘落堂), 奶奶就叫弟弟忍住, 去到老師家再同老師借廁所(附近最近又可以借的廁所就是老師家, 囡囡學了半年, 弟弟都沒有去借用過老師的廁所). 到了老師家門口, 老師同囡囡已在門口等了, 老師原來要出去了. 但實在沒辦法的情況下, 奶奶開口同老師借廁所, 但回答竟然是"不可以". 此時囡囡也開口了"老師, 我也很急, 可不可以借你的廁所". 老師叫囡囡去公園(會所)的廁所.

老人家回家后非常不滿, 我考慮了2晚, 決定換老師. 因為我希望囡囡長大是一位有愛心的人.

就這樣, 現在這位老師是第三位. 但老師不用"ABCD", 是用"DO RE MI". 所以可能是這樣囡囡覺得辛苦. 而且對符號又有些混亂. 也許這是困難過DO期. 我現正想辦法讓她多熟悉音符.

謝謝大家的建議.
waiyinmama

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babyhowie

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

小朋友學琴最怕時時轉老師，
因為個個老師脾性、教法都唔同，
要一個咁細o既小朋友去適應都有一定困難！
我自己本身都係呢個問題o既受害者。
我由P.3開始跟學校入面o既音樂老師學琴，
一路都順順利利，考完2、3、5級之後，
老師要跟丈夫移民英國，
結果轉左3個老師都唔得，最終只有放棄！
依家到個女學琴，
點知到佢準備考3級（第一次考琴）o既時候，
佢個老師向琴行辭職，就呢件事我好緊張，
要遇到一個好老師又夾到自己o既並唔容易，
所以我寫封信講述自己學琴o既經歷，
唔希望自己個女都係咁。
可能老師見我咁有誠意，最後答應上門教我個女。

waiyinmama,
我諗你依家o既情況，不如同囡囡take a break先，
等佢忘記d唔好o既經歷，得閒再同佢開個琴黎彈下，
希望係冇壓力o既情況下帶起佢o既興趣，
等佢自己主動提出學番琴。
況且佢都仲細，依家佢咁抗拒o既情況下繼續學，
恐防會有反效果，令佢討厭學琴o忝！
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bau

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

hi babyhowie

how old should I let my girl learning piano, how much for private tutor to come to your house?

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mrs_tom

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

waiyinmama,

我都贊成讓你囡囡take a break先，就算6 歲幾學番要由頭開始都唔算遲。

至於鼓勵的方法，我就試過陪囡囡練琴，太難的第一、二日可能只叫佢練熟幾個bar/左or右手/一行，逐日加上去。又試過由她彈琴，我唱歌詞，並對她說︰你練熟了就給我伴奏，然後表演給爸爸看。她為了要彈給我唱，果然後努力練習，結果是學琴前一晚由爸爸做觀眾，看我們母女倆表演。如是者都有個幾月，算是伴她走過了一個低潮期。



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babyhowie

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

Hi bau,

How old should a child start learning piano?
I guess it should depend on different child.
My daughter's piano teacher charges $200/hr,
I think it's quite reasonable.
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waiyinmama

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

Dear all,

Thanks for your advise. 囡囡昨晚表示同意再努力(非強逼).

但實際還得看接下來的情況.

waiyinmama

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routingswitch

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

Good to hear that!


It is hard to find a good teacher that have heart for Music and match your kid.  I guess as long as your kid have great interest in Music or piano then eventually you may find a perfect match.

I also agree with mrs_tom that "就算6 歲幾學番要由頭開始都唔算遲。"


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Today

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

My son learnt piano for 1.5 yr and he hate practice piano very much.  He enjoys the music concert very much but he don't like piano.  I am afriad this would make hime hate music if continue learning piano.  At this moment, he don't know which musical instruement he would be interested in.  Should I let him stop.  Any Mom have the experience pls share.

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

she should continue...
because she will be grateful when she grows up, not many ppl are able to learn music!!

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

You said, 'He enjoys the music concert very much but he don't like piano.'
Obviously, he don't like playing piano, of course, he hate practicing.  Don't waste money, stop it.  Explore his interest and let him learning another music instrument will be better. It's only my comments.

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ming2,
It was his own decision for learning piano.  Yesterday I talked to him again and he was so happy to heard that I let him to give up.  But he promised me to keep practising the old songs everyday until he found another musical instrument he is interested in.
Actually, I am so happy after making the decision.  But my second son (5 yr old)is asking me when he could start to learn piano......

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

I have a friend who's daughter was completed G8 flute while she is P4.  I asked my friend, does her daughter likes flute very much.  She said "no".  She needs to remind her prastice everyday even now she is learning diploma (she is just F1 now), she needs to urge her everyday.  佢話細路個個貪玩, 邊肯自動去做呀, 但只要你迫佢, "餓"佢兩句, 佢還是去做的, 這樣已經alright啦, 佢個女唔學唔學, 而家考八級樂理, 仲話已經plan好幾時finish diploma.

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Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

I don't want my child dislike music because of the bad experience in learning.  Actually I do not have any expectation in that area.  But how to find the one that he like is not easy.  Do anyone know if any centre in Hong Kong could provide such needs. ie. the child could trial several instruments before they make the choice.  

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