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教育王國 討論區 初中教育 URGENT - need to change school for my F.1 son
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發表於 09-10-8 03:29 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印
URGENT help - need to change school for my F.1 son

Sorry I don't know how to type Chinese. My son was very unhappy in the F.1 school. I received call from class teacher in week 2 (mid Sep). She verbally warned my son for "talk too much" in class. And emphasized that under school's rules, he will receive warning letter if he is still talkative. I was very embarrassed. Children need to adapt to new lives. School & parents should help but not by giving warnings at the start. My son was under pressure everyday. He is now assigned to sit somewhere out-focused from teacher. That's why I need to look for another school now.

Any suggestion for schools? I am living in HK side. I want to try Wah Yan College, Raimondi, St. Paul College, HKUGA, & St. Louise.

Pls help!
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發表於 09-10-8 08:14 |只看該作者
你個仔都係讀咗個幾月咋, 你需唔需要考慮清楚先比佢轉校呢?中一生係需要時間適應的, 通常學校初初係會寛容處理的, 可能你所學校比較嚴或個別老師問題啦!
如真要轉, 試下直資啦, 其他比較搶手的官津校可能無位了。

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發表於 09-10-8 09:56 |只看該作者
If I were you, I will find out what are the reasons why your son talk too much in the class (Is the same pattern in the primary school or for the new environment only…).  Secondly, I will seek help from the school social worker, let your son have a talk with her and try to find the solutions …..  Generally, talk too much in the class is a signal of attending seeking….. . If your son is really under pressure, try to appreciate for his improvement (even though very little improvement) and encourage him to face the challenge…..  Your son needs your support during this hard time….

In my point of view, the teachers are not loving and caring students in this school, I think it is not easy to change to other school right now especially your selected schools are very very popular…..  I guess HKUGA is more appropriate for your son as heard that this is school is a not traditional school and suitable for the active students.
Tomorrow is better

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發表於 09-10-8 10:40 |只看該作者
Agree Elona's recommendation......

原帖由 Elona 於 09-10-8 09:56 發表
If I were you, I will find out what are the reasons why your son talk too much in the class (Is the same pattern in the primary school or for the new environment only…).  Secondly, I will seek help f ...

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發表於 09-10-8 11:02 |只看該作者
你都識得講「學校同家長要一齊幫小朋友」啦!

唔好下下將責任推比學校,先瞭解下小朋友是否真係上堂講野,甚至影響同學仔聽書,有無辦法幫佢改善下。否則,無論轉去邊間學校,情況都會一樣。無一間學校會接受上堂講野的學生。

大家易地而處,你個仔因同學上堂講野,而受到干擾,你又會點呢?

你將責任推比學校,繼而轉校,個仔會認為自已啱晒,轉校後繼續講野。返學除了求知識,仲要學識分對錯。先自己檢討下先啦!

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發表於 09-10-8 11:13 |只看該作者
原帖由 kenny325i 於 09-10-8 11:02 發表
你都識得講「學校同家長要一齊幫小朋友」啦!

唔好下下將責任推比學校,先瞭解下小朋友是否真係上堂講野,甚至影響同學仔聽書,有無辦法幫佢改善下。否則,無論轉去邊間學校,情況都會一樣。無一間學校會接受上堂講野的學生。

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講得好!
而家啲人既思維真係丫,唉。

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發表於 09-10-8 14:37 |只看該作者
其實都係小事一,相信F.1仔多嘴的有很多.
學校在開學頭一二個月會比較嚴,先給大家下馬威,否則放鬆之後就很難控制.  我個仔F.1時都常常和老師駁嘴,又比老師罸留堂,都沒甚麼大不了.  到了F.2又是駁嘴,被老師調到角落頭,孤獨一個,他自已覺得沒有問題,只是我打了電話給老師,第2天就調回正常座位. 到了今年F.3, 他覺得老師不論大事小事都亂駡一通,習已為常,只要老師有料到教得好,他會主動道歉,熄事寧人.  其實我都很少給予意見,讓他自已成長及解決.  待他長大後有更多有趣的校園回憶.

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發表於 09-10-8 16:07 |只看該作者
I agreed on you. At the begining of their Secondary school life, both parents and teachers need to give a hand to them but not demotivate. Before you action, please take a talk with your son and his class teacher.If the problem still exists, you may select some direct intake schools and I think they are more open than the traditional schools. HKUGA and Evangel College also are good choices.

原帖由 kpmak 於 09-10-8 03:29 發表
URGENT help - need to change school for my F.1 son

Sorry I don't know how to type Chinese. My son was very unhappy in the F.1 school. I received call from class teacher in week 2 (mid Sep). She verba ...

[ 本帖最後由 sunnytiffany 於 09-10-8 16:14 編輯 ]

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發表於 09-10-9 01:15 |只看該作者
Thank you for all of you! Either support or not, it is very important to share with you. But what pineapple0983 mentioned "而家啲人既思維真係丫,唉" is ridiculous. This is very impolite! As a mother, I just want to share my feeling & seek help...

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發表於 09-10-9 01:32 |只看該作者
Calm down every beautiful mum

all of us here just want our children will have a better education, better childhood

sometimes we didn't make the best option, but i'm sure all of us are trying hard to give the best to the children   

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發表於 09-10-9 08:17 |只看該作者
最好同囝囝face to face talk with 佢老師or社工, 問清楚到底咩事先. 要清潔你囝囝既清況再考慮轉唔轉校, 如果唔係, 轉左校後情況又冇改變架話, 咪煩!
而且, 我地做父母既, 都應該要教下我地d細路要面對現實......度度都有佢地既遊戲守則, 要玩就守人地定既rules, 唔係下下自己想點就點架麻...係咪?
有時....搵社工幫下手都好既.

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發表於 09-10-9 10:57 |只看該作者
我細個仔小三又係好鐘意上堂講嘢,後來班主任嘗試過不同既方法令佢好啲;第一次係將佢調去老師前第一個位,後、左、右都係好乖既女仔;佢冇辦法,就拎轉身搞後面個女仔個筆袋,比人投訴;跟住將佢調去牆邊最前個位,咁佢前面、右邊都冇人,後面係一個身形大隻既留班生;佢都可以同隔一行既老友傳紙仔,結果又係接投訴,要記佢過咁滯。後來又咪係我同學校聯手搞惦佢。不過唔好忘記,佢係小學生黎咋。
KPMak我同你Say Sorry先,不過你捨本逐末既思維我的確唔係咁認同。

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發表於 09-10-9 12:05 |只看該作者
大家的出發點都係想幫個小朋友,平心靜氣討論,千祈唔好勞氣。大家觀點與角度不同,教育仔女的方法亦不同,存在分歧在所難免,你副眼鏡都唔一定啱我戴,係咪?

記得N年前看過一套由新馬仔主演的粵語長片,新馬仔飾演的沙三少,很得父母愛惜,他出世時即哭鬧不休,但每當落雨天,沙三少聽到雨點打到屋頂瓦片的聲音時,便會破涕為笑。因此,沙母派下人在屋頂長期灑黃豆,以博沙三少一笑。廣東人有句說話,形容受父母愛惜的孩子:「灑黃豆灑大」,便是指沙三少。

沙三少長大後,為非作歹,無惡不作。沙母不但未予糾正,更處處維護。沙三少最終因犯了大罪,被判死刑。行刑前沙母餵他食飯。沙三少竟然在沙母臉上咬了一口,沙母大驚並問因由。沙三少說:「我自細犯錯,你都不糾正我,你以為係愛我,其實係害我。我有今日,係你一手造成。」。

自此,我以沙三少的故事警惕自己。亦將沙三少的故事告訴我的兒子。(純綷有感而發,別無他意!)

[ 本帖最後由 kenny325i 於 09-10-9 12:06 編輯 ]

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發表於 09-10-9 14:53 |只看該作者
Kenny 希望你咁比心機講既"沙三少"故事可以同樓主開倒竅喇。
喱套經典DVD我都有睇過,當年唔覺乜嘢,因為仲細;而家想起來,值得再看一次,以免重蹈覆轍。
仲有一句老人家名言:個仔自已教總好過比外人教,因為如果個仔比外人教,係唔會留手既;到時,真係後悔莫及呀。

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發表於 09-10-10 09:37 |只看該作者
個沙三少警世故事好好。
易地而處, 如果我係老師, 個學生猛咁同其他同學傾計, 破壞課堂秩序, 阻住其他同學上堂, 又阻住教學進度, 我都會閙佢。

我覺得你應揾出個仔上堂同人傾計嘅原因, 可能係本身天生好鍾意講嘢, 佢小學時有冇畀老師投訴過呢, 如果冇, 係咪佢升中後唔適應新環境, 又或者佢間中學係英中, 而小學係中文小學, 突然轉哂英文而跟唔上, 冇心機, 惟有同同學傾計打發時間。
又或者你個仔係資優生 (我見你想轉嘅學校都係band 1學校), 根本已經識哂, 冇心機上堂, 所以同同學傾計。又可能佢覺得同同學啱嘴形啲, 例如講打機。
你有冇試吓問佢喺學校上堂同同學講啲乜嘢內容, 記住要喺佢開心嘅時候旁敲則擊, 千祈唔好用質問嘅形式, 要好似你同朋友傾計咁, 唔係佢唔會講你知。你又可以問老師個仔上堂嘅情況, 係咪堂堂都傾計, 抑或某啲科目冇興趣先傾計。

我相信冇一間學校會容許學生任意學生喧嘩嘈吵, 就算你轉校都冇用, 唔通年年轉校咩? 所以一定要揾出原因, 對症下藥, 先可以解決問題, 千祈唔好拖, 唔係轉校就可以解決問題。

[ 本帖最後由 maglam1985 於 09-10-10 09:47 編輯 ]
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