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I always encourage my students by telling them, EVERYTHING comes with a price. You don't "work hard" now... play all the time, you will pay for it later. (young kids don't understand that) older ones do.
I always empathize with them, in the example in practicing piano.. I always tell them, " I hated practicing too. In fact, even in an interview with Yundi Li, he also said he hated practicing piano."
I always tell students, it's hard, I know... but don't give up, because everyone else around us are moving forward, and only you would be left standing there if you don't learn something with your everyday 's time.
Furthermore, my students understand, it's like buying something... Mommy and Daddy have to pay at the store when you want a toy right? Same thing.... if you want to play piano well like your friends, then you have to practice. You don't have to practice alot in a day, bit by bit.... you will get to your goal. Just NEVER quit.
Most students take up a hobby or lesson because they had interest.... but when it gets hard, of course, the easy way out is to quit. It's up to the parent to encourage and the teacher to modify the lessons to allow the student to continue without too much pain.
Effort is a must, but it doesn't have to be that painful.
I never allow my kids to quit at anything they start. Set a goal, doesn't have to be the diploma level... but set the goal for your child to take himself further. never allow them to DROP where they are right this moment.
They will never learn to survive in the real world... or even university.
Just my opinion. |
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發表於 09-6-17 21:16
