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iceymama

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我小朋友一歲時,已經發現情緒和行為有問題, 他性格很內向, 害羞, 喜歡在一邊觀察, 怕被羣眾注目, 常常說 "Bye Bye"逃避事情,特別一班人時。一班人高興拍手, 他也會哭。那時, 我帶他去不同playgroup, 希望對他有幫助。現在他兩歲多,仍然沒有太大改善。

他會同其他小朋友玩,也懂得sharing, 學習也正常,但當他唔願意 or想逃避,他的問題又出現。

我很擔心會影響他的發展,將來上學, 年尾也要去幼稚園 interview。請問有無人幫到我。謝謝

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Charmaine_PaMa

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發表於 09-6-9 23:58 |只看該作者

I suggest you may get professional advise, if interest please pm me.

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iceymama

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發表於 09-6-12 07:28 |只看該作者

can anyone help

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LoJulita

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原帖由 iceymama 於 09-6-12 07:28 發表
can anyone help

I think that's his character or what we called "personality". He's very self-contained. Besides, I heard that many kids in the age of 2-3 are the time when they are self-centralized. That's only my opinions! I'm not sure cos I'm not an expert. I read one article on the web about "Shy Children". But I printed it out and accidentally threw it away. Otherwise, I can share the article w/ u because my daughter is acting like that.

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iceymama

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發表於 09-6-12 13:18 |只看該作者

Thanks for your reply. How do you help your daugher to improve this? or need to consult expert advise ?

原帖由 LoJulita 於 09-6-12 10:29 發表

I think that's his character or what we called "personality". He's very self-contained. Besides, I heard that many kids in the age of 2-3 are the time when they are self-centralized. That's only ...

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LoJulita

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I had spoted her weakness since she's 1 year old. I put her in pre-nursery class so that she can interact w/ children. In her first parent's meeting, the teachers had pointed out her weakness and I honestly told them my concern too. The teachers are very nice and caring. They try to encourage her to play w/ other children and input more attention on her. She has improved alot since then. That's really the school's effort. Besides that, I read books and articles, try to learn the ways of teaching and "handling" shy children. u can do that too.

http://www.shakeyourshyness.com/teachingshychildren.htm

http://www.askdrsears.com/html/10/T110223.asp

http://www.childdevelopmentinfo.com/disorders/shy_child.htm

If your case is worse than those mentioned on the articles, i think it's better for you to consult experts. cheers~~

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iceymama

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Thanks for your sharing.

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petpet1117

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原帖由 Charmaine_PaMa 於 09-6-9 23:58 發表
I suggest you may get professional advise, if interest please pm me.

我的兒子也有情緒問題,可否pm資料給我,tks!

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kathylo

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發表於 09-6-18 17:44 |只看該作者

My daughter also has this kind of problem. She is now 5 and half year old. She afraid to face to many people even we bring her to my husband's family. She hide herself behind my body and holds my clothes very tight.
She starts to have this behaviour since she was 2 years old.
Before studying in kinder, we bought her to attend playgroup. She afraid to do everything except eating and doing art work.
Now, she afraid to dance and perform in front of many people. If someone asks her question, she escapes and do some strange facial expression.
When she study N1, she need to spend half year to familiar with the school. At the time, she always sit especially in music class. Her teacher always talk to me and we tell them the problem of my daughter.

Thanks to the teacher in her kinder, she behaves so smart in the school and all the teacher and worker and even principal praise her.

I think the important thing you do is to accept the behaviour of your child, be patient, don't blame your child. Don't give your child pressue. And then, encourage your child. If your child has a little bit improvement, you need to give him a big appreciation.

One experience:
Last month, my daught need to attend ballet exam. Before the exam, she already told me she don't want to attend. She gave me so many excuses in order to escape this exam. Then, I just told her that she must go and I would give her a great support. Also, I told her I don't mind the result of her exam, just treat it as game and try her best to do the exam. If she escape, I will so unhappy and disappointed. If she is willing to go, I will so happy. Finally, she behave so good and showed her confidence.

I think we need to give a clear instruction on what your child should do and the result of doing such things. Also, you need to explain why your child should do. It takes a long time to "fine tune" this behavior. Like a long-time "war".
I nearly spent 3 years to change this behavior of my daughter. However, now, there is still room for improve among me, my husband and my daughter

If become worst, you should seek the advise from experts

[ 本帖最後由 kathylo 於 09-6-18 17:56 編輯 ]

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原帖由 kathylo 於 09-6-18 17:44 發表
My daughter also has this kind of problem. She is now 5 and half year old. She afraid to face to many people even we bring her to my husband's family. She hide herself behind my body and holds my clot ...