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回覆 1# hysterical 的文章
Hi ,my boy had the similar problem like your son before. He was frightened about movies(volcano, Lord of the Rings). He had nightmare that we were burned by lava inside our home. He could not leave me or his grandma. Luckily grandma was able to be with him all the time. He had to take the bath with me by sitting on my lap, even in the house he had to sit in some corner otherwise he will be very unsettled. Here are what we did:
1) Some one he trusted to saty with him all the time, even durning school days he could choose to stay at home.
2)Went to see the doctor, but he would pretend he was ok, so no much help from the psychologist.
3)We were all a bit crazy like my boy, we just agreed with him(but it was difficult to do that, sometimes I couldn't!), if he scared of ghosts, his daddy would get his gun(toy gun) to shoot away the ghosts, I would talk with him about those stuffs and we would both cried a lot together, or I would say sorry just to make him cry.
4)Pray together with him.
It has been almost 4 years. From time to time he still had the some problems, but each time the situation was getting better.
Most importent, me myself is getting settled about his situation, that realy help him a lot! Good luck! |
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