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比人話我不自量力,唔應該咁對bb.我錯在那裏?
因為我只係中五畢業?
1.我好相信early learning,尤其語言,我就係講唔到native english先帶bb返playgroup,令佢聽多d囉!bb又開心,咁又錯!
(話我痴線,咁細個要佢返學,咁細個識咩呀!)

2.同bb玩flash card(又話我咁快教佢字,變態喎!)
右腦教學姐!比佢睇之麻,重來冇期望係要識晒d字,亦從來
冇考過bb.just a game! 又錯.

3.同bb講英文,我做唔到全英文,但一定係一整句講,唔會一句中一句英,有時廣東話.(又話我英文又唔係A,學人講英文,你攪到個仔語障你就死,不自量力!)
嘩!洗唔洗咁講呀,呀仔11個月,用英文或中文問佢,eyes,nose, month,teeth,head, toes,ears,etc.佢全部show到比你睇,咁你又笑得咁開心!(bb識分咩英文,咩中文架,right?)

唉!攪到我都諗緊,我係咪真係咁不自量力,大想頭!
定係我唔好理佢點講,照行?

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Hello, Cheer up please

I think You are a very good mother. To spend time and effort to growth with your baby. Both my husband and myself are university graduates from HK top schools with Master degree and still can't speak native english. I did not feel very regret and I can only admit that it is so truth that we are not native English speakers as we don't have environment during our growth up. I believe same problem for HK students (not alking about the new generation). Even you have "dcotor" degree, you will not have expertist in all laspects. Form 5 is nothing wrong. Never mind the qualification. I guess we, as mothers, will understand which contents and levels are within our ability. Be confident.

Just keep yourself reminded that
- do not give pressure to your child, and
- don't just focus on langauage and ignore other aspects, like physical development...Balancing...
- keep on observing if child has any speech delay issues in future...etc
- have sufficient Cantonese/ English environment as well

It should be fine. Your husband will tresure you at the end.

Cheer up!
Kate

原帖由 chiu328 於 08-8-26 16:16 發表
比人話我不自量力,唔應該咁對bb.我錯在那裏?
因為我只係中五畢業?
1.我好相信early learning,尤其語言,我就係講唔到native english先帶bb返playgroup,令佢聽多d囉!bb又開心,咁又錯!
(話我痴線,咁細個要佢返學,咁細個 ...

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Add Oil. keep on. don't give up :)

教養孩童，使他走當行的道，就是到老他也不偏離。 (箴言22:6)

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原帖由 Kate.Tong 於 08-8-26 22:24 發表
I think You are a very good mother. To spend time and effort to growth with your baby. Both my husband and myself are university graduates from HK top schools with Master degree and still can't speak ...

kate
多謝你的鼓勵及意見!
我同朋友傾過,佢都話唔好大在意自己的學歷,我地爸爸媽媽究得小學程度啦!佢都可以碩士畢業啦!
我之前帶亞b返playgroup,d mama講英文講到興高彩烈,我真係有d自卑架!(我仲打算報讀英文架,比我朋友話,你用錢比個b學好過啦!亞b學野快過你10倍呀!he..he..好似又係傻d!)
不過後來我諗深一層,返去palygroup係亞b玩,係亞b學聽英文,唔係我. 如果我聽唔明,我會直接問佢地講咩架,咪當自己學理一份0羅!(好彩冇比人白眼,之前試過比人白眼)
我唔會再比太大壓力自己,盡自己能力,比多d愛個亞b,最緊要happy!

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做媽媽真係唔容易, 我都覺得好像從新再學習.
其實最大的壓力係來自身邊的人, 不過, 我都學緊只要係正確的同對BB好的, 就算沒面子被人彈都要做.最終一定會有成果的, 加油!

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我覺得你無問題, 人地點講都好, 最後你BB有成績出黎D人就無聲出...
1. PLAYGROUP...其實我個仔15個月都上過, 你問我有無用我覺得你比既錢唔會同佢學到既野成正比, 但係BB會好開心一班人玩...你AFFORD得到上係對BB好不過當然我覺得2歲開始成效會明顯D.
2. FLASH CARD...BB係部COPIER可能開頭佢唔知係咩但係你不斷咁REPEAT佢係會入腦既.
3. 我都好似你咁同BB中英文佢係明既但係唔肯講, SPEECH THERAPIST話因為我中英文令佢唔知用中定英講, 叫我全中...不過我覺得我個仔係咁既TRAINING 唔WORK令佢講野慢但有D小朋友係OK既, 所以我先轉全中, 我覺得如果你個小朋友無問題可以CONTINUE呢個方法
我覺得你有時間有多餘錢去學英文OK喎...因為我等BB大D都會去學拼音跟住可以教佢...

原帖由 chiu328 於 08-8-27 11:31 發表

kate
多謝你的鼓勵及意見!
我同朋友傾過,佢都話唔好大在意自己的學歷,我地爸爸媽媽究得小學程度啦!佢都可以碩士畢業啦!
我之前帶亞b返playgroup,d mama講英文講到興高彩烈,我真係有d自卑架!(我仲打算報讀英文架,比 ...

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原帖由 chiu328 於 08-8-26 16:16 發表
比人話我不自量力,唔應該咁對bb.我錯在那裏?
因為我只係中五畢業?
1.我好相信early learning,尤其語言,我就係講唔到native english先帶bb返playgroup,令佢聽多d囉!bb又開心,咁又錯!
(話我痴線,咁細個要佢返學,咁細個 ...

其實教仔唔係講有無能力, 而係講有無心
而我覺得你係一個有心o既媽咪, 咁就足夠去教好自己仔女
就算係個大學教授, 如果無心教自己小朋友, 幾高學歷都係假
我本身都是一個相信早教的媽咪, 亦有同仔仔睇字咭認字
早教的成效真的很神奇, 幼兒的學習能力真的很大
我支持你繼續做, 不過建議你可以在圖書館借一些有關幼教的書籍來support 自己, 當有人話你的時候, 你用幼兒理論及專家意見來擋, 會有說服力好多
我好鍾意睇呢類書籍, 亦有為我的早教寫blog
有空入來交流一下大家的早教方面
http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/longlongkiu

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原帖由 pamelaywy 於 08-8-27 23:35 發表

其實教仔唔係講有無能力, 而係講有無心
而我覺得你係一個有心o既媽咪, 咁就足夠去教好自己仔女
就算係個大學教授, 如果無心教自己小朋友, 幾高學歷都係假
我本身都是一個相信早教的媽咪, 亦有同仔仔睇字咭認字
早 ...

其實想問下,有冇好書介紹我睇.
有時都唔知買咩書.
glenn domen同七田真的系列己經睇晒!
平時得閒我咩都睇下,如百科書,英文文法,張怲惠個2本書咁羅!係咪唔係好夠?
(最好唔好英文,我驚睇唔明.thanks!)

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原帖由 chiu328 於 08-8-28 16:57 發表

其實想問下,有冇好書介紹我睇.
有時都唔知買咩書.
glenn domen同七田真的系列己經睇晒!
平時得閒我咩都睇下,如百科書,英文文法,張怲惠個2本書咁羅!係咪唔係好夠?
(最好唔好英文,我驚睇唔明.thanks!) ...

其實公共圖書館有好多選擇
如果你去o個間圖書館有教育資源部, 裏面會有好幾個書櫃都係關於教仔的書籍
如果沒有, 其實你去普通成人圖書館o既教育類, 分類號5字頭, 都有好多選擇
你只係睇杜曼同七田真, 睇範圍都算窄, 可以睇多o的幼兒發展, 幼兒心理學, 幼兒教育學, 教育心理學, 家長教育等類型, 全面o的睇幼兒發展, 唔係只係幼兒認知上的發展
我的blog 裏也有一些教育書的summary 推介, 你有時間可以去看看

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睇左你既BLOG,朗朗好聰明喔..我囡囡23個月了, 豆大個A都唔識, 有圖案既佢都識用ENG表達,但就唔想學A-Z,1-10,我真要好好嚮你學習... 加油!!!

原帖由 pamelaywy 於 08-8-30 15:04 發表

其實公共圖書館有好多選擇
如果你去o個間圖書館有教育資源部, 裏面會有好幾個書櫃都係關於教仔的書籍
如果沒有, 其實你去普通成人圖書館o既教育類, 分類號5字頭, 都有好多選擇
你只係睇杜曼同七田真, 睇範圍都算窄 ...

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發表於 08-10-7 17:39 |只看該作者

請問你地點樣擺相架‧我都想學‧同埋Blog好靚啊可吾可以教我。

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Keep up the effort!

As some parents have mentioned before, it really depends on our attitude rather than how capable we are.

In our case, we took our kid to playgroups since he was 6 months old.  My wife also adopted flash cards (mainly English and Chinese).  At first, we were not sure if our kid had really learned what had been "flashed" b'cos he was too young to give a response.

Now my 3-year-old loves reading (both English and Chinese books) by himself alone or with us (though he always prefers mom to read the stories to him).

Recently I find that he has started to read out the book (about "level 1 or 2" which is not too difficult for him).  That's amazing, for I know that my son has recognised many words (both meaning and pronunciation) but it surprises me when he is confident to read out sentence by sentence.

Remember to cultivate a reading habit for your little loved ones.  This is important for the future self learning process.

Let's work hard in raising our kids.

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發表於 08-10-31 13:22 |只看該作者

加油啊~
中五畢業也不代表甚麼
我先生身邊的朋友(已做了媽媽的)
又懂普通話日文等等
有時聽他們談一些話題興高采烈，
自己卻答不上去.但也不要緊呀
因為自己是為子女做出發點就可了

孩子健康成長　乃是父母的最大禮物

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加油.............. 最緊要有心
唔好理人講咩

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中五畢業有咩所謂,我都係,不過我係律師樓做秘書做左十幾年,我從來都唔會睇小自己,自信係自己比自己,我可以話你知我個女3歲半已經識過百中文字,串6百幾個英文,+-x數都識計,全都係我自己教,我教個時我老公都成日話我,宜家佢聲都唔敢聲,重以個女為榮,所以只要你自己有自信就得,唔好理人講咩,(你重可以教埋個小朋友做人要有自信同唔好睇小/取笑人

),我成日都係咁教個女,比心機!!

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發表於 08-11-14 00:14 |只看該作者

回覆 # 的文章

chiu328,
好欣賞你 ! 唔好理其他人!
1) 話明playgroup, 目的係透過遊戲令BB學習得泥又開心, 如果你同BB都開心, 這playgroup 已經成功, 你比錢都係值得。
2) flash card -- 我記得BB 2歲幾時剛剛世界杯, 麥XX送咗好多張有英文國家名嘅咭, 我有十幾張, 咪貪得意比囡囡玩, 讀咗幾次比佢聽, 佢完全記得, 小朋友的記憶力好驚人, 要好好哉陪。
3) 你都好啱, 同BB講整句句子, 唔好又中又英, 我嘅經驗係每句唔須要用好深嘅字, 但唔好錯。另外可教佢多的生活上佢可睇得到或具體啲嘅生字, 對佢第時大個有幫助。

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今天去幼稚園"in" , 好down,見到別人的bb好叻,又識這樣,又識那樣。
我的bb,比較另類,別人未玩的,他巳經玩了,到先生叫佢玩給時,他巳經無心情去表演給人看。好似他不懂似的,看到別人的bb,又識kiss,又識那樣。我好像好失敗

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