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Believe it or not, i have exactly the same situation as you.
I love my daughter very much, and she's a 100% mummy girl, if mummy walks aways, her tears start to drop. I tried my best to give her more extra cirricular activities to play with other children, she was improving a lot during summer, but I guess all the children are different facing the P1 interview, my girl is going backwards, cry each time going to interview, and not only that, even cry when going to piano lessons and now when going to school......
Like all other parents, I applied 7 schools for her. The first interview she didn't know what was happening so she didn't cry when she was walking up to the classroom with other children. But when I picked her up, the teacher told me she might be nervous and cried a little bit at the beginning of the interview..., and that's when the nightmare begins...
The 2nd, 3rd, and 4th school, she cried each time....
The 2nd school was the school I like the best as the school is well-known to provide a happy environment for children. My girl cried and would not go up to the classroom at all. The teachers were very nice, they let me accompany her all the way to the classroom, let me sit right beside her. She felt more comforted and performed quite well with my presence, but of course, I was crying in my heart as I know for sure I'm going to fail this school...
The next day after the interview, I wrote a letter to the school's principal to express my gratitude to the teachers who didn't give up my daughter when she was crying, and encouraged her to complete the interview successfully. Two weeks later, I received an acceptence letter from the school.
I think it's very harsh for a 5 year old child to face this kind of pressure, although most kids are enjoying the interview and are just like going to play. I have another few interviews in the next few weeks, but I have decided to give them up as both my daughter and I cannot afford this pressure, I told her: no more school interviews, you only need to be a good girl and I'll be very happy. Both of us feel relax now.
原帖由 123had 於 08-10-19 22:44 發表
I love my son so I feel very pain and heartbreak every time when he was crying while entering an interview room.
I feel disappointed every time when I received a reject letter from the schools.
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