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beautymom

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發表於 04-5-14 17:10 |只看該作者

我個寶寶都左宜家..成2yrs,都只係講到d單字...好擔心呀!!
大家有冇咩提議呀?

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hinhinmummy

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

beautymom

我個細仔兩歲半, 佢只係識講 : 哥哥, 姐姐, hi, candy, 爸爸.

佢明我們講mug野, 做完某d佢認為自己好叻的野, 佢會捉住我對手, 示意我拍手讚佢.

有d人話, 仔係講野慢d, 我都有d擔心, 所以佢上幾個月不舒服, 看醫生時, 我問過醫生, 佢話我個仔又不似有問題, 不過我擔心的話, 可以寫紙比我帶佢去大口環check一check, 所以我都打算帶佢去, 不過大口環都依家都未排到期.....

有d媽咪話, 返左學會講得好快...

我都好擔心...

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chuchumui

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

我女兒又係成兩歲都唔肯講

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cameo

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

你係自己湊定係工人湊啊???因我覺得小朋友跟工人講野係學得慢d啊,另外都可以試下同佢多d唱歌都得o架,有幫助的,因為o係一個開心o既氣氛下令小朋友"開口"...
我覺得有時小朋友性格係被動o既話,做家長都要迫下佢的,我囡囡由細到大,我問佢野唔俾佢只係點頭or"令"頭的,一定要用口答我"係"or"唔係",開頭佢望住我點點頭我會叫佢用口講,其後佢次次點頭我都扮唔明,只要佢開口我先有反應,佢就習慣左要"用口"去表達自己,我都有解釋俾佢聽的,因為我係"用口'問佢野,所以佢要"用口"答我...
希望除左睇醫生之外,呢個小心得都可以幫到你la....

~~~My dogs Phoebe,Minnie,Ah Bert and Rico~~

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ELJCHL

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

try to bring him/her to study nursery class, you will see the results after 2-3 months.

I love my dear husband and dear daughter.

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justjust

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

hinhinmummy,

I remember having same discussion with you and other parents under another topic of 親子溝通.  How's your son now?

chuchumui,

We also take more or less the same course of action as you did.  We switched to one language immediately.  We took our girl to government's assessment centre (still waiting in the queue), private pediatrician, speech therapist and audiologist.  We engage her in conversation and restrict TV time to max. 30 mins. a day or less.  In a month and a half, we saw dramatic improvement not only in her speech but also in her discipline.  We guess that with better communication skills, we have better understandings with each other and she behaves better.

The progress of our girl is not as fast as yours (to speak 3-element phrases in 4 therapy sessions) but her school teacher says she is really making good progresses, in terms of speech development, behaviour and discipline.  She even says that it wouldn't be long before we can introduce other languages to her.  The results are quite encouraging and we will keep it up.

We are engaging 2 speech therapists right now.  One is from a private institution ($400/30 mins) and another one is referred to us by Hong Kong Christian Service ($400/1 hr).  Both are good and we will observe some more before deciding which one to stay with.

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maychow

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

just just

I just want to know, do u bring yr baby to have some assessement first ? I also want the information of yr speech therapists, thanks so much.

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justjust

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

Hi maychow,

Pls check PM.

justjust

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hinhinmummy

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

justjust

我個依家兩歲半啦, 都係不肯開金口, 但佢又明我們講mug, 有時電視講hi, hello, 佢又會跟住講, 係不肯出聲, 我尋日試過比粒糖佢, 但要佢講爸爸, 姐姐, 哥哥是但一樣先肯比佢, 佢先肯講姐姐.

我都不知點算!

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justjust

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

hinhinmummy,

Have you taken him to any doctor?  I would suggest you to have him assessed asap.  Not to say that your son definitely needs special training or anything, but generally speaking, it is better to check it out whenever you are in doubt.

Since your son is still young (3 months older than my girl), we really can't tell whether he knows to talk but refuses or is afraid to, or his speech development is really delayed.  Probably the professionals can give advice on this. Of course I hope your son belongs to the former case.  Then he needs more encouragement and confidence to express himself.

If your son really needs special training, the earlier to start such training the better.  He will be able to catch up very fast.  My speech therapist told me that small kids (2~3 yrs old) usually progress much better than elder ones (4 yrs and above).

But afterall, parental involvement and stimulation is most important.  Of course specialists can help, putting the child into full day nursery/kinder can help, but the most important is how much time and efforts we spend on the child.  For us, quality time spent with our girl is the best training for her.  Not only did it improve her speech development dramatically, it also improved our 親子 relationship and helped her to become more settled (mentally).

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SandyKL

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

beautymom, hinhinmummy,

我細仔細時都有同妳地一樣嘅擔心，佢兩歲都唔講野，單字都唔講，我當時好擔心，去健康院俾醫生check過條脷，又冇問題，至到兩歲開始講單字，媽、爸、好等，因為佢係我阿媽全日湊，應該冇語言障礙，我阿媽當時好有信心咁話佢明白我地講野架，洗嘜驚佢唔講野，我試下佢，又真係明白我地講嘜，咁即係唔係聾架啦。

後嚟到咗3歲入幼稚園，都係唔識講全句，但入學後半年度，開始改善勒，漸漸多講長d句子，後嚟仲越講越多，到依家五歲八個月，想佢off都難，仲頂心頂肺，中咗我朋友嘅預言，佢話男仔係較遲講說話，第時我想佢收聲就知我嘅擔心係有幾無謂。

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hinhinmummy

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

justjust

我都有帶佢看醫生, 還book左大口環去check, 但未排到期, 我亦有打算帶佢返playgroup, 還拿埋資料, 點知特然又有野做, 忙得濟, 未報名. 加上阿女近排鼻竇炎加中耳炎, 成兩星期都未好, 成日要帶佢去看醫生.

多謝你關心, 我會的起心肝, 帶佢返playgroup.

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justjust

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

hinhinmummy,

We can never have a break whenever the kids are sick. My girl also caught a bad flu 2 weeks ago and we even rushed her to the hospital for continuous high fever.

Anyway, I hope you daughter will recover soon and you will have more time for your son.

[size=xx-small]Hindsight: With the recent doctor experience (we spent thousands in the last 2 months already), no wonder so many parents want their children to be doctors.

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chuchumui

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

Justjust,
你講得好

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gigi2

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

Justjust,

I can't agree anymore with your hindsight that tells the words from my heart.

For assessments from paediatrician, doctor and O.T. and together with the succeeding training by 2 Speech therapists and 1 Occupational therapist for last month. It is a large lump sum expenses to me especially I have 2 children. But I really do not dare to gamble my children's future but only sit and wait to expect she will speak very well later without any therapy training. Or I should not consider too further about my retirement life anymore…

那時我為得到這孩子祈禱，上主就賞賜了我所懇求的，所以我現在把他獻於上主，他一生是屬於上主的。（撒上：２７－２８）你教導孩童應行的道路，待他老年時也不會離棄。（箴２２：６）

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justjust

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Re: bb到宜家都唔係好講野..好擔心..

gigi2 and chuchumui,

I guess we took the same course of actions and therefore we have the same experiences and feelings.  It's really good to share our feelings here because not many people can understand.

Almost all my other friends/colleagues I know would tell us our worry is excessive.  The child will eventually grow out of it.  It will be fine at the end.

But we don't want to wait for a year or two, find out that not only the problem hasn't gone away but worsened off.  Almost all doctors, teachers, social workers, other professionals we met said it was very good that we decided to intervene early.

Probably our girl would be fine in a year's time without we going through so much trouble.  But we are happy with what we are doing and at least we won't worry while simply waiting for her to improve.  If there is any thing that we regret, it will be we not meeting these doctors, teachers, social workers, other professionals earlier.

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