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If her daughter is under 12th grade.
I don't suggest it, because her daughter is not eligible to study in public school. because she can not get the I-20 from public school, without a student visa, this lil girl is going to have hard time for rest of her life in US, she will not allow to change status until she gets married with Citizen, even she does that, immigration will not trust her marriage. that is a life long issue.
ptuboy,
If she is at middle school or high school. I would suggest to send this girl back to hk.. she can study at anywhere, and she should know that it is a family issue. she has the responsibility to save money for family too.
if she is in college, ask her to find her part time job, and study hard, she can apply for scholarship.
so many way for her to deal with her finance.
I believe if she is a college student, as a mom.. you should learn to "let go".
I pay my tution fee and living cost when I was in Australia those years. I had 2 part time jobs after school and all weekends. I went to wash and feed elderly at nursing home.
she can work as cashier /waitress everywhere.
she has to know that the world is cruel.
you are facing your problem, and you should let her know.
I had friends like you..
that is the story here at 2000..
my friend's parent got lay off, they can't afford my friend's living cost (but able to borrow money for her tution fee, my friend who just like a flower in green house. spends money as usual, and when I ask her why doesn't she find a part time job to support herself, she said that her parents did not allow her to work in melbourne, is that stupid? we all university students. and she doesn't know how to cook, how to manage finance on her own, always relies on others. Although, my finance was good, I did not lend a cent to her, because I believe, even I helped her that day, she will learn nothing from that crisis.
end up, she returned to HK, and works as a clerk. what a waste. If that day, she did go and get a part time job, to support her living cost, share house with a friend or two to save the rent and other house hold expense(not live alone), car pool with others to go to university(not driving alone, save the gas). not to eat in restaurant(lunch and dinner), and learn to cook and bring lunch, she should able to finish her bachelor degree in Melbourne. the result will be complete different.
plus, a non-resident to study in US at college or university.. is very expensive.. if she can transfer her credit to HK, there is 8 universities in HK.. right? I don't think that make a different.
she studies in hk.. good point-- to save living cost and with good care from you!
bad thing is.. in a chinese community.. her english speaking skill gets no way to improve..
to get into HKU or CU.. IELTS only needs 5.5.. but to study overseas.. they mostly request overall 6.5 or 7.. that is the different.
it base on my personal opinion..
原帖由 88muimui 於 08-12-2 08:01 PM 發表 
小朋友係咪讀private school? 轉public school 得唔得? 小朋友幾大啦?
[ 本帖最後由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-12-7 12:22 編輯 ] |
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