阿仔管唔著?...... [複製鏈接]

櫺囹桼 寫道:
其實香港哋七八成父母都要雙雙做野，冇得驚咁多！
1)小朋升中後，科目、課外活動...都多左！就算你有時間逐樣問佢，佢都冇時間遂樣答你...只好半放手 + 多啲鼓勵 + 多啲信任...跌倒時給予安慰..再問佢需唔需要搵人補習...其他都要靠佢自己！
2)印尼女傭也好、菲律賓女傭也好...佢哋大部份都有強烈宗教信仰及天性善良，所以如果唔係對佢哋過份管束及不信任 + 佢哋冇債務纏身...絕大部份係可以信賴！
3)男性同女性不同之處：講多一句嫌你長氣、講少一句話你欠缺關心...所以搵到竅門、掌握得宜...佢哋都會乖乖任得你舞！
007

cymummy 寫道:
我囝囝亦快將升中, 做媽媽的,忙完面試, 又開始擔心與他關係疏離, 問題是,007先生所說的"竅門"實在難於"掌握得宜",究竟怎樣先可保持母子間之良好關係呢? 我自問與囝囝的關係很好,無所不談, 有如要好的朋友一樣, 升中後,會改變嗎?....
我知無人可以回答, 我只是發洩一下吧了!    

bigdaddy 寫道:
This is the common problem of many parents. I don’t know how to handle. Nevertheless, let me share my tears with you all.

My son was a band one student. He was the top 5 in his primary school. He was admitted to a EMI DBS school.
In the first year, he didn’t work hard. Same as the other students, he played on-line game or MSN a few hours after school. I talked to him and yelled to him sometimes. By the way, I was quite satisfied with his examination result as his ranking is higher than average.

In the second year, nightmare came.
He played on-line game and MSN for the whole day after school. We were ignored by him. He disregarded us even in weekends. He did his homework in their fashion (leaving some of them blank). He never did his PSSE homework and his score in his result slip is 15 marks (full mark is 100). I often yelled at him and sometimes talked to him in a gentle way but the result was the same, being ignored.
He even ignored his lunch. He forgot to submit the lunch subscription and he can only eat instant noodle for lunch.
He turned worse and worse. He didn’t pick up his book before examination. I studied with him like teaching a primary student. Luckily, WE have studied for a few hours before the exam finally.
His mid term examination result was at the lower end.
Now, it is his uniform test. I stop all the internet connection and he can’t face to the computer all the day round. BUT now, he does not come home.

bigdaddy 寫道:
This is the common problem of many parents. I don’t know how to handle. Nevertheless, let me share my tears with you all.

My son was a band one student. He was the top 5 in his primary school. He was admitted to a EMI DBS school.
In the first year, he didn’t work hard. Same as the other students, he played on-line game or MSN a few hours after school. I talked to him and yelled to him sometimes. By the way, I was quite satisfied with his examination result as his ranking is higher than average.

In the second year, nightmare came.
He played on-line game and MSN for the whole day after school. We were ignored by him. He disregarded us even in weekends. He did his homework in their fashion (leaving some of them blank). He never did his PSSE homework and his score in his result slip is 15 marks (full mark is 100). I often yelled at him and sometimes talked to him in a gentle way but the result was the same, being ignored.
He even ignored his lunch. He forgot to submit the lunch subscription and he can only eat instant noodle for lunch.
He turned worse and worse. He didn’t pick up his book before examination. I studied with him like teaching a primary student. Luckily, WE have studied for a few hours before the exam finally.
His mid term examination result was at the lower end.
Now, it is his uniform test. I stop all the internet connection and he can’t face to the computer all the day round. BUT now, he does not come home.

They don’t sorry about their result but proud of marginal pass.

bigdaddy 寫道:
新城電台娛樂台裡的「爸爸媽媽坐下來」的個案重播
Is it on air on星期天早上十一時三十分到下午一時?

I meat his friend recently. This is their dialog.
How is your result?
Last 5, how about you?
Last 3. Hehe.

They don’t sorry about their result but proud of marginal pass.