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Re: A little sharing of my teaching experience
Dear fc_cookie,
Sorry for my very late reply, because i am a super busy person! I work at a kindergarten, study at HKIed and I am running a private playgroup on saturday too(please don't ask me where am i running my playgroup, because I don't want to get into any trouble, I just want to share my thought and experience!!!) anyway, I will try to squeeze some more time to share my experiences here!
Actually, I am very agree with what kyterry's suggested! when we talk to our children or even anybody, always be positive!!! Everyday after school, try to ask or encourage your child to tell you what she played at school or what she has done at school is so much fun! Try to help your child to keep all the positive memory only!
I know that many of working parents may feel so guilty that they don't have lots of time for their children, or children will "attach" to you all the time when U are at home! What I want to say is......always remember quality is much more important than quantity! Imagine if you spend a whole day with your child, but less of interaction or communication, which means nothing!!!
So, try to help yourself set up a time table for your child!( when children can foresee when will mummy play with them or they can feel that mummy pay plenty of attention to them, they will gradually reduce attaching or sticking to U!)
As young children they haven't develop their time concept yet, but they do remember the regular routine during the day. therefore, I will suggest you may use the regular routine to set up the time table or a quality play session for your child. For example, every day after meal or bath, spend 15- 20 mins play with your child with fully attention on him!
Fully attention means you won't even answer a phone call,or do anything else without your child's approval! So, if you or your child want to get out of the activity, both of you have to tell each other first!
How to set up a quality play time with your child?
find the most suitable time and tell your child when will you start. explain to your child that you will spend time to her everyday as you love her, you are always willing to play with her and enjoy being with her. but try to get your child commitment to promise after that play time, allow mummuy to have her private time too. hope she will try to stop bothering you or attach to u that much!
What you can do at the play session?
story telling, playing toys, looking at your family albums, some simple free drawing, sing songs, watching viedo under your guidance etc!
i will try to explain to you or other parents more about this issue later, because it's too late la! Sorry for my not very clear and incomplete expression!
Parents, please also share your point of view or your concern, so I know what should I mention or say more! thank you!! nite nite!!
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