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教育王國 討論區 教育講場 囡囡常玩弄下體,怎麼辦?
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囡囡常玩弄下體,怎麼辦? [複製鏈接]

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發表於 06-2-23 10:14 |只看該作者

囡囡常玩弄下體,怎麼辦?

平時已發覺她會俯臥,然後雙手放在下體,今日老師跟我說,她在午睡時,雙手放入內褲,老師已跟她說這樣不衛生,除此之外,我可以怎做呢?唔知其他媽咪有無經驗可分享?

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發表於 06-2-23 16:33 |只看該作者

Re: 囡囡常玩弄下體,怎麼辦?

how old is your daughter?

Most children are very curious about their bodies especially the private parts.   They touch their bodies in order to learn and explore.

If your daughter is < 3, U need not do anything to stop her, and U should actively tell her the name of each parts at home.    But if U find that your daughter do that in public or when her fingers are dirty, U should teach her that doing this in public will make everyone embarrassed, and it is no good to do so in a civil society.   Also, if her fingers are dirty, don't put them into the private parts (same as the case that don't put dirty fingers into the month).

U should not scold your daughter and don't relate her action to sex, otherwise when she grow up, she will consider sex as dirty.

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發表於 06-2-24 12:49 |只看該作者

Re: 囡囡常玩弄下體,怎麼辦?

我好似記得己前聽過點處理:

大人不要大驚小怪, 因她可能偶然發現這樣會好舒服.
你可介紹她認識身體各器官, 當然包括性器官正確名稱.

教她那些部位不可隨便給別人看及觸摸.
如她自己觸摸有舒服感覺, 所以她會重覆做, 大人要記住, 這是好自然的事, 只要教她觸摸時, 手要清潔, 同埋係好私人的事, 不可在有其他人在場的地方做.

同時, 大人留意下個女係咪平常生活有大壓力, 又或是太無聊.  大人應安排適當活動給小孩發洩他們的精力,及分散注意力.

(又或是她看見有人咁做, 無論係電視, VCD,或工人 --- 當然這個原因是好好好微啦).  多數都係身心正常發展的其中一環.

Take it easy!
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