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發表於 05-12-3 23:08 |只看該作者

NO MORE

We, BK parents, should become responsible and NOT to compare schools anymore. It is unfair to kids who are not studying in famous schools. It hurts them. Parents are becoming insensible by asking others' opinion on famous schools only. How do kids feel if they know they are not studying in famous schools? Why ask if they are already famous?

Our motto is: All schools are equally good and all kids are equally smart, whichever schools they are in.


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發表於 05-12-3 23:12 |只看該作者

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Disagree! To compare schools doesn't mean a school is better than the other, moreover, it's about a school is more suitable than the others.  If I choose A, I don't mean A is better than B, it's just I think A is more suitable than B base on my own situation.
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發表於 05-12-3 23:21 |只看該作者

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hkchina,

Our experience is, parents only asked for comparison on just a few famous schools. Why parents never asked about comparison of unknown schools. Parents are helping to alleviate the problem of 'brand name' effect. We have got to stop this irresponsible behaviour. We have a motto. "All schools are equally good and ...."

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發表於 05-12-3 23:24 |只看該作者

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If all schools are equally good as you said, why don't you send your 4 kids to some band 3 schools, which area are you living at?  Do you want me to suggest some schools to you? and I believe those school will be very happy if you have your kids to transfer to them from some very famous schools.

If you don't want to send you kids to the 2nd best schools, pls shut up, and don't try to ask other parents not to.
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發表於 05-12-3 23:31 |只看該作者

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hkchina,

Please don't get upset. We have decided not to say anything, as we are RESPONSIBLE PARENTS. Sorry, that is it.

Go and ask the school if you want to know more about the school that you want your kids to go.

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發表於 05-12-3 23:33 |只看該作者

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I will, good bye.  AND, you don't need to remind us that all of your 4 kids are in famous schools anymore, you keep saying that for a long time already.  I won't forget, don't worry.
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發表於 05-12-4 00:38 |只看該作者

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motheroffour 寫道:
Our motto is: All schools are equally good and all kids are equally smart, whichever schools they are in.


I think this is the writer's motto only, and this cannot represent the parents' viewpoint here.

This "motto" is not logical by itself.  How can one assume all kids are equally smart?  Some kids are smart in one way or another, not "equally smart" though, I'm afraid.  

All schools are equally good?  Some schools are good in one way or another, I think.  

Different parents have different expectations on their kids according to their kids' unique characters and potentials.  That's why they need to compare schools to find out which schools suit their kids best.

People often compare those "famous" schools because they are more well-known here and attract more attention.  It does not mean other schools are less comparable to these "famous" school.

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發表於 05-12-4 00:49 |只看該作者

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ttamy123


你係咪傻架?長篇大論同佢講嘢。


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發表於 05-12-4 01:08 |只看該作者

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I have not browsed this forum for a long time but M-O-F is hilarious.  

Please.  Some people enjoy teasing other people.  M-O-F appears to be one of them.  I can't help thinking that she was being deliberately provocative in her remarks.

I have read her comments in the schools speech festival thread.  She may actually have a point or two, but those points (rude behaviour of parents, listening to mobile phones, etc) can actually be made without mentioning the fact that HER own kids got a few first positions (sorry, M-O-F, the proper title is "first position", "second position" and "third position" not "championships").   Likewise there is another thread about choosing catholic schools, and she may have a point or two (if you are an old boy you get 10 points, if you are a Catholic you get another 5), but again those points can be made WITHOUT telling other people that her kids went to (are attending) a Catholic "elite" school (I guess the Jesuits will be really proud that one of their old boys married M-O-F).


This is not a personal attack.  I just want people not to be overly excited about what she wrote.  Just think of her as someone who is "half way there" - she probably has been to some Catholic girls' school and then went to some University and then got four kids and then became very happy with (and full of) herself.  

If we stop responding to her, she will lose interest.

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發表於 05-12-4 01:32 |只看該作者

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Rigmarole

你可能真係最近先番嚟,佢唔止咁少威水嘢架。佢話老公係長春藤畢業,個仔都立志入長春藤架。佢又提醒我哋,唔係間間old famous school都好架,好似聖士提反女校呢啲就專出產failures嗰喎。

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發表於 05-12-4 03:00 |只看該作者

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wutoa 寫道:
ttamy123

你係咪傻架?長篇大論同佢講嘢。


              

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發表於 05-12-4 03:04 |只看該作者

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rigmarole 寫道:

If we stop responding to her, she will lose interest.


I think it might work!!


    :tongue:  :tongue:    

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發表於 05-12-4 08:51 |只看該作者

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wutoa 寫道:
ttamy123

你係咪傻架?長篇大論同佢講嘢。


wutao:

    點解唔同佢講的?
人地以個人觀點發表, 又無針對個人..
喜歡聊的聊, 看的看...
不應阻止人回覆,  不應人身攻擊......

你地讀書時, 點玩Debate? 要對事, 不應對人
;-) 學做人, 求知識 :-P

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發表於 05-12-4 10:41 |只看該作者

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wutoa 寫道:

Rigmarole

你可能真係最近先番嚟,佢唔止咁少威水嘢架。佢話老公係長春藤畢業,個仔都立志入長春藤架。佢又提醒我哋,唔係間間old famous school都好架,好似聖士提反女校呢啲就專出產failures嗰喎。



咁樣指名道姓法, 對聖士提反女校d小朋友咪好唔公平?  
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發表於 05-12-4 11:17 |只看該作者

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發表於 05-12-4 11:32 |只看該作者

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小夜曲

你咪鬼咁認真啦!

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發表於 05-12-4 11:50 |只看該作者

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Motheroffour,

請你不要講一套,做一套.如果你真的不喜歡比較,你就不會經常明示暗示(應該說用盡種種方法)港大同學會怎樣好怎樣好.我還記得你說過港大同學會比你其他三個孩子就讀的傳統名校還要好.這不是比較嗎?

我不否認港大同學會是好學校,可不一定符合所有家長的期望.我的家庭醫生對這所學校有點失望,我孩子的同學即使考上也不讀.每個家長挑學校都有自己的準則,他們來到bk只是問問意見而已,你不能阻止也沒有權利阻止他們比較,因為你本人其實最愛比較.

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發表於 05-12-4 12:07 |只看該作者

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ttamy123

對唔住,原來有人以為我真係鬧你。我原意係你無需要同佢認真,盞哂氣。

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發表於 05-12-4 15:26 |只看該作者

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Wutao,

The area where HK people fail utterly is their limited view of a matter. They take matters out of their context totally. They like to quote people's one or few words and jumped to conclusion. See the complete thread about St Stephen Girls and then you know how I hated parents comparing schools.
Parents like you only like to hear praises, but sorry I don't do that. I don't lick people's boot.
Don't become a silly narrow-minded parent, don't quote others' words out of context. You have no right to do so. Quote the complete story cos I don't think you are able to correctly summarise others' message. Exercise independent judgment please.

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發表於 05-12-4 16:58 |只看該作者

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wutoa 寫道:
ttamy123

對唔住,原來有人以為我真係鬧你。我原意係你無需要同佢認真,盞哂氣。


我無以為你鬧我呀!   
是但啦, 我都係唔抵得幫吓声唧.Ha Ha!     

Yes, you're right.  It is not necessary to respond.
    
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