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Re: 我很傷心,請你們...為人父母者...指點如何做...
hello, yanmachai,
of course I agree that without sufficent information (or evidence), we should not disclose the information on the learning centre here (but I think even if we talk about any centre, we can only mention its partial name or the district it is located). While we are all waiting for CarChu's detailed report, her report may suggest that the incident was only a misunderstanding that does not warrant any follow-up action.
I'm just thinking that it is quite normal that a child would dislike certain people and certain place and does not want to go there anymore, but it is very abnormal that CarChu's son "just kept on banging the walk [presumably the "wall"] while walked down the building with his father. 小兒於心情平復後說: 我不要再去劃班, 我一路哭, 姐姐及哥哥不停笑………" There must be something wrong with the centre or the tutor that would trigger such irrational behaviour of CarChu's son. If you are not happy, you would cry but would not hurt yourself like that. I know different people may have different tolerance level, my suggestion of naming the centre (through PM most likely) is what I would have done if I were CarChu. (Forgive me as I'm quite a straightforward kind of person and will definitely go crazy if my kids are getting hurt like this.)
yanmachai 寫道:
我認為不應在不足夠資料之下，披露該中心名稱，這對他們不太公平，孩子參加課外活動哭鬧並非大不尋常事。
有時因為陌生環境。
有時因為老師要求高一點也會對他做成壓力，令他哭過不停。
孩子亦有先入為主的印象，不喜歡就不喜歡，無
需合理解釋。
有時甚至是父母過於呵護也會做成這現像。
當然中心或許也有問題。
希望首先澄清才作決定。  |
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發表於 05-10-13 20:56
