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My son’s classmate calls him almost every day discussing about homework and it takes about half to one hour per day to answer the call. Would you just let him or limit his phone call? In the past, he would use the spare time reading books. He is now in upper primary, schedule is tight ie homework, piano, e-assignment, reading books, etc. Am I too tough if I don’t let him talk? Please share your view.

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brian61950

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你要教他的是.....由他自己控制時間,不是你控制他.
當然,吹太耐你可以比提示佢,但唔比佢嗲實反面.

原帖由 ffhhyymm 於 10-5-18 19:27 發表
My son’s classmate calls him almost every day discussing about homework and it takes about half to one hour per day to answer the call. Would you just let him or limit his phone call? In the past, ...

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原帖由 ffhhyymm 於 10-5-18 19:27 發表
My son’s classmate calls him almost every day discussing about homework and it takes about half to one hour per day to answer the call. Would you just let him or limit his phone call? In the past, ...

我上年都遇過呢個問題
我果個係女
d 男同學係考試期間, call 黎話考完試去邊去邊
又話成日問功課
呀女收佢線, 吾夠5分鐘又call 黎(工人講+看返電話record)

我控制吾到人地個仔/女係屋企做乜野, 亦控制吾到佢吾打黎我屋企

最後, 我只可以用好絕的方法, 係電話set password (要比$)

我同呀女講, 如果你d 同學要call 你傾project 既野, 你叫佢地call 我手提, 就會搵到你

之後, 都有一兩個同學call 過我手提, 但果d 真係傾project 既野, 傾完會收線, 電話都小過以前

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brian61950

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男女校就係咁架啦,所以我仔讀男校,女只申請女校.

原帖由 CrabPincers 於 10-5-19 07:36 發表

我上年都遇過呢個問題
我果個係女
d 男同學係考試期間, call 黎話考完試去邊去邊
又話成日問功課
呀女收佢線, 吾夠5分鐘又call 黎(工人講+看返電話record)

我控制吾到人地個仔/女係屋企做乜野, 亦控制吾到佢吾打 ...

無知是福

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唔好用無線電話, AND 將個電話放响一個要企响到講電話既位...唔好放响SOFA格黎~

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原帖由 ffhhyymm 於 10-5-18 19:27 發表
My son’s classmate calls him almost every day ...

First, we need to understand to whom and what your son is talking to/about. If he's talking to the same person, then need to understand this classmate more, as your son may very likely be influenced by such a close friend. If their discussion focuses on homework, I guess you may not need to stop it entirely.

Probably, what you need to do is to
(1) control the length of their conversaton.
30min (or even an hour) conversation is far too long. Probably, set a target (say 10-15 min) for him. And encourage him to keep his conversation to this target.
(2) participate in their conversation.
It's important to keep ourselves in our kid's society, especially when they are in their puberty. So, we need to be one of their peers. For example, show your support when they are discussing their homework; share their happiness/sadness at school by listening to them patiently.

When the kids grow, their own society also grows. The earlier we "step in" their world, the closer the relationship we can maintain.

My brat is 13 now; even his classmates wonder how he can keep such a close and friendly relationship with his mom... which makes me very proud