my past experience is if it is significant, you should definitely speak with the class teacher, so that at least they will identify who is the problematic kid in side the classroom and follow up
One hour before, my son told me his penis is painful when he is "vv". Then I asked him did anyone touch his penis. He said, the girl sitted next to him, hurt his penis in the snack time. She was not just touching him outside the pants, she put her hands inside his pants. It's unbelivable....
My son said the class teachers purnished her to stand outsides the classroom. But I don't know is that true and I didn't received any call from the teacher. My son emphasised he didn't told lies and keep crying. But I will check with the teacher tomorrow.
For you all, teach your children, this is very serious. Don't hurt the other and protect themselves.
Actually, my husband and me had already taught my son many many times. Don't let the other to touch or see the important areas. He knows it very well. I don't know why it still happened. I feel very hurt and want to cry. I feel sad stronger than I heard he gets hurt in the school before.... I don't know how to tell how's my feeling now...just want to cry...
原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-10 19:18 發表
One hour before, my son told me his penis is painful when he is "vv". Then I asked him did anyone touch his penis. He said, the girl sitted next to him, hurt his penis in the snack time. She was no ...
He is K2, so that's PM. The teacher's reaction is also my concern on this issue. But we have no choice of teacher, my son still have a year to get along with her. What can I do? At the moment, I just keep asking myself to calm down. So that I didn't called the teacher immediately, I'm afraid I will say some bad words to her. As I don't want the teacher to give my son hard time in the future....
原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-10 20:30 發表
He is K2, so that's PM. The teacher's reaction is also my concern on this issue. But we have no choice of teacher, my son still have a year to get along with her. What can I do? At the moment, I j ...
I think you did right. You may teach your child how to protect himself and be strong and say "NO" before it happens again.
原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-10 20:30 發表
He is K2, so that's PM. The teacher's reaction is also my concern on this issue. But we have no choice of teacher, my son still have a year to get along with her. What can I do? At the moment, I j ...
Hi dandau,
I am sorry to hear what'd happened to your son.
The class teacher has already punished the girl, I think she will keep an eye on them in future. If you are still worried, you may call the teacher or write her a letter as a follow up. I trust that the teacher will take this matter seriously if you show your concern.
原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-10 20:30 發表
He is K2, so that's PM. The teacher's reaction is also my concern on this issue. But we have no choice of teacher, my son still have a year to get along with her. What can I do? At the moment, I j ...
Hi dandau,
So sorry to hear about that. My son is also studying in K2. I would suggest you to communication (letter and in person) with class teacher to let her know you, parents aware and concern these kind of matter very much.
I think it is very serious
And, also let yr son know you aware and care about his feeling. You have followed up for him. Most important thing is yr son "feeling" first.
What is the class of your son. My daughter is also in K2. I recommond you should communicate to his head teacher of the class. Your son with hard feeling??
原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-10 20:30 發表
He is K2, so that's PM. The teacher's reaction is also my concern on this issue. But we have no choice of teacher, my son still have a year to get along with her. What can I do? At the moment, I j ...
I just talked with the head teacher. She said she didn't knew what's happened in tea time yesterday, as she was in the meeting. But the other teacher was in the class, but didn't reported any special was happened yesterday.
The head teacher talked with my son and the girl in person immediately once I went out the classroom. She told me that: the girl said no at first, but my son insisted to say she did hurt his penis, then she said yes at last. The head teacher changed the girl's seat immediately and she said she will call the girl's parent today.
To my son, I have already talked with him again and again how to protect himself and treat sexual issue. I hope he is really understand.
Really, I don't understand why the girl chose to hurt the boy's penis, but not the face, hand or leg. The teacher explained that's because of curiosity.
It's good the head teacher has followed up and handled immediately.
But, the asst. teacher has not reported/reacted on this issue to the head teacher even she knew... need to pay attention...
anyway, yr son e-motion and impact (if any) is the first priority no matter.
Today as a parent not easy, especially be a mother. Let cheer up! We all add oil together and let our child have a happy life in KV!
原帖由 dandau 於 09-9-11 16:02 發表
Thanks for you all.
I just talked with the head teacher. She said she didn't knew what's happened in tea time yesterday, as she was in the meeting. But the other teacher was in the class, but didn ...