My daughter is also a self-centered girl but she is always happy and enjoy school life very much. she says everybody is her good friend (=nobody is a good friend?).
I never think it is a problem; even if it is a problem, what can i do? make some friends by myself and then refer to her???
I feel u are starting to panic 失去信心，提心吊膽 (not your daughter.)
From my experience, Character is not easy to change. U are the parent and u "should" know more than outsiders. If u "really" think English is one of her potential problems, why not focus on it before school term begins, instead of joining 7 different extra-curricular activities a week?
My younger daughter has similar character as yours when she was in kinder,she always feels shy to present. Now she is studying in ESF primary, she has much more confidence to speak out and present on the stage after 2 years of study. She has got a few very good friends. Her reading and writing are at the top level.
So I think you need to have much patience and give your daughter more support and encouragement. It takes very long time for her to develop self-confidence. Yet it is very important and is life-long.
think positive.
"現在RC才有Offer，所以大人真的失去信心"
haha! some RC parents will disagree to your speech...
Why don't you think positive that your daughter is "lucky" enough to have an offer RC and now u can start preparing for her primary school life, rather than thinking this and that?
you know, your panic will be spreading to your daughter. Please stop your negative way of thinking unless you want your daughter to have same negative thinking as you.
發表於 09-6-8 12:16
