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Your values
Again, I regard this as the tendency to make assumptions. About this and that. Such as that about DGS kids, famous schools' principals and movie stars' kids etc.
As parents, I think we should not allow such prejudice to cloud our judgement about what we should do for our kids. We must be very clear about what we want for our kids, what is the temperament/ personality of our kids etc.....and work from there.
I believe that not all parents of 名校 kids aims for their kids to發達. It really depends on the individual parent, their value system, and this, I feel varies amongst all parents, in all schools; as you can see from the behaviour of your children's peers, I'm sure.
Yes, waking up at 4am really do sound too much. But do we know what time this child sleeps? Perhaps the parents have arranged a good time schedule for this kid?
Having said that, I too had to catch an early bus to go to school before and it did not worry me. I did not feel it was hardship.
Really, it depends on the kid and parents must be very clear about that. It is so important for parents to observe and review the ability of the kids throughout and to make changes, if neccessary.
I also belong to the group that believes that hardship when you're young will build resilience. Kids now are so pampered already, to study hard, try hard in what they do, should not be considered hardship, it should be their responsibility. |
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