If you saw someone stealing, you report to the police, should you be blamed for that??
I agree people may have double standards when it comes to their own friends/relatives
有個有趣問題, "舉報了....心舒服了", 若果那家長係你的兄弟姊妹, 那小朋友是你的侄仔或姨生仔, 你同樣會'舉報了....心舒服了"嗎?
I may not be the one to report my own relatives or friends, but if they get caught(like reported by another informer)........I would not blame the informer and my heart would not feel 'uncomfortable' because people should be responsible for their own actions. But if I know beforehand, I would stop them from doing it. I have successfully convinced one of my friend not to use false address this year.
You know how frustrated when you see some people got in a good school by using false address and boasted about it shamelessly.........they even teach other parents how to do it and comment " you are stupid if you don't do it"