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Re: 有冇家住屯門區的自閉症小朋友媽咪
W2,
I think the method is "you must be firmed as you can if you think it is good for him". You cannot step backward. If you step backward, you already be a loser and you cannot win him next time. I was very stright to him when he was 2 to 3. Now he has been more understanding, I will let him has a conditional choice. Sometimes, I will try to delay his wants and let him wait. I will ignore him when he uses crying to get what he wants but I will give him a reason. In fact I have tried different method to deal with my son but the key is " I can't let him lead me to do what he want to do" Of course, you have been consistant and you must control emotion. I know lots of parents can't control the emotion when they teach their children.
Sometimes, I am very tired because I am a full time mama and I have to control myself when I stay with him. When I think back, my result today is the return of effort. Thanks God let me have a good temper and wisdom to deal with my son.
Hope you can insist your behaviour in front of your son, so he will know what he can do or he can't. |
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