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教育王國 討論區 課外活動 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見 ...
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囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見 [複製鏈接]

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發表於 04-12-24 10:57 |只看該作者

Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

我個仔又係學左年幾又係咁,上左小一情況更甚!其實我地想小朋友學音樂都是想佢鐘意音樂,又可手仔同個腦coordinate得更好。上小學之後日常功課多,一星期又默兩次書,又成日測驗,練琴不夠又不好,去到老師度彈得差,便好氣餒了…
佢練琴喊晒咁,跟住我同老師講了個仔的情況,老師不再一星期教兩、三隻歌,只教一隻,個仔進度可能真是慢了點,但唔使練咁多隻,每次學的那一隻都彈得很好,總好過彈幾隻但隻隻都唔熟。我總覺得上了小學時間好唔夠用…你地點安排可以好D呢?

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發表於 04-12-28 00:28 |只看該作者

Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

麟媽媽,

I attended some talks and learnt from the experience of some parents that it is important for parents to help their child to breakthrough deadlocks.

It seems that in your case, squeezing time to practice is perhaps your concern.

Maybe you can consider the following:

- the place of learning piano should be as close to your home as possible in order to shorten the time of travel;

- instead of learning one hour once every week, maybe you can consider two  half hour lessons every week. It has the advantage that some kids may not be able to concentrate for too long. Also, the child can pick up the new songs bit by bit.

- I used to ask my son to practice piano/violin before he do his homework so that he is not too tired and the concentration is better.

- sometimes if my son is too tired, I would just ask him to listen or sing the notes.

Hope that your son can get back to track soon.

toffeeli


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發表於 04-12-28 01:30 |只看該作者

Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

其實時間係可以好好安排的。我妹妹個仔.今年六年班啦. 佢一直都學好多課外活動. 還學日文. 今年考八級鋼琴合格了. 還繼續進軍演奏級。在學琴過程中都有想放棄的時候.要瞭解原因. 多加解釋.引導..有時是要有些少壓迫性的.
當你走到無力繼續下去,當你感到寂寞困惱空虛 只要相信神隨時扶助你,願助你解開困惑拋開痛悲 當你跑到疲乏難再下去,當你感到疑惑說我是誰 只要相信神完全明白你,就讓你伸手接受他深愛你 別害怕他知你難受,擔當軟弱與困憂 不需再懼怕,耶穌必拯救,願你開口接受,張開你手 別害怕他知你難受,擔當軟弱與困憂,不需再懼怕 耶穌必拯救,讓你一生快樂展翅高飛,一個全新的你。

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發表於 04-12-28 10:06 |只看該作者

Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

Hi all,
My girl also give up in last lesson and she said she don't want to learn anymore. She learnt almost one year and 3 months.
I don't want to push her and .......... no way

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發表於 04-12-28 13:17 |只看該作者

Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

個人分享
我細個都係阿媽迫學琴...其實係興趣問題lo.....你女女有冇講過好想學?!其實係大人一廂情願...我到而家都好感激我mummy冇迫我學...其實自己根本冇興趣...最後我去左學ballet 同 drawing...到而家都係arts方面發展..你女女對music 冇興趣唔代表佢冇benifits..etc...不如你問下佢想試學咩重好la^^學每一樣野都只係一個trying 黎ga ja....我try 過piano..雖然學唔成..但大個左我開心 ga~我可以同人講 唔係mummy 唔比我去try..而係我冇興趣lo~

我有個fd..2姐妹學左5-6年...家姐考到5級,妹學到6級就考試...最後一句我唔想學 就放棄左...因為自細到大都係比屋企迫..佢地總有一日大會有自己想法..你可以迫得幾耐??而家2個學日文同組band 重唔錯tim~``
我有另一d fd 學到演奏level...but 係自願去學...部琴好差音都唔準都學到咁ge成績....呢d就係自願唔自願ge分別


學野係可以迫...但唔係迫一世.....如果有興趣迫多一段時間佢發現係fun ge 唔會同你講冇興趣..小朋友講冇興趣其實都要勇氣ga!!! so, hope all support your children all the times!

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發表於 05-1-2 19:39 |只看該作者

Re: 囡囡學鋼琴有年零, 但是她現在很想放棄, 請俾意見

seahorse,

This is exactly what's happening now.  You are so right to say that "其實係大人一廂情願".. "自細到大都係比屋企迫"... "自願去學...部琴好差音都唔準都學到咁ge成績....呢d就係自願唔自願ge分別".

However, sorry lah, most parents will not listen and not willing to face this....  the same sad story still goes on and on and on......repeat repeat and repeat....

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