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教育王國 討論區 小學雜談 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢 ...
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孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢? [複製鏈接]

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孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?


時常接到老師的投訴,我也用盡方法希望他改過,
但他都是依然故我的,除了學校社工外,還有甚麼機構可幫助我或我的孩子呢?謝謝~~    :cry:  :cry:

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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

Mami_mi 寫道:

時常接到老師的投訴,我也用盡方法希望他改過,
但他都是依然故我的,除了學校社工外,還有甚麼機構可幫助我或我的孩子呢?謝謝~~    :cry:  :cry:


Do you mean your son is only 在校頑皮 , but not at home ? Did the teacher say how 頑皮 he is in school ?  

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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

他今年九歲..佢在家不是頑皮的,
老師說他冇耐性, 和他如果被寫手冊,他會想盡辦法掩飾不給我知道,現在老師說他很古惑,又說他諗很多計仔黎逃避,我怕老師對我仔印象很差
我對兒子軟硬兼施的政策也用過,
但他仍然會說謊,逃避自已做錯事
令我很傷心,心煩,每天電話一響就害怕老師打黎投訴呢 :cry:  :cry:
請問我應點做好... :cry:  :cry:  :cry:

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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

My son is 8 yrs, just like your son, like to lie to hiden his false. What is your relation of his class-teacher?

My son's class-teacher always call me to talk about his thing in school, and I will also call the teacher when I have time. My sons no lie anymore.
:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg

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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

你好
班主任說他太多花款講大話黎掩飾他的罪行( 包括 : 欠功課、犯錯、被老師寫下他的罪行)
他今天被寫了犯錯的罪行,他居然和我說忘了帶手冊回家
又再次逃避 :cry:  :cry:  :cry:
依幾天老師和我也想通電話,
但兒子不斷說謊,我好擔心
今天佢又講大話唔想做某些功課,真係激到我 cry 到眼都腫晒
請問你以甚麼方法令到你孩子改變呢?

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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

Mami_mi 寫道:
除了學校社工外,還有甚麼機構可幫助我或我的孩子呢?謝謝~~    :cry:  :cry:


學校社工幫唔到忙嗎?
小朋友出現這種情況,可能
1.在學校受到老師or同學排斥,沒有認同  建議老師多些關心及鼓勵, 多讚賞他的優點.
2.父母關係不好, 小朋友會用一些方法令父母關心 由小朋友變成代罪羔羊, 建議父母要一起關心 了解他背後講大話的動機.
3.對功課有壓力, 父母期望過高, 弄巧成拙. 多鼓勵, 多讚賞, 培養他讀書的興趣. 不要太在意他的成績 要著意他的進步.

如真的要找其他機構幫忙, 可以要求學校社工轉介 或直接到就近社署家庭服務中心找社工.
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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

I think if your son have these problem, firstly, don't give yourself too much pressure, otherwise, if you can't be claim, how can you teach your son.

don't worry your son will have bad image, as this problem(tell lie) is very common on children.

My experience:
I talk with his class-teacher when I have time (nearly twice a week). Everytime after we contact, I will ask my son: are you doing ....... in school today, have you .......... in school today. At the beginning, he don't trust I had talk with his teacher, but as the time past, he know, even he haven't tell me, but I already know what happen in school.

If he lie to me, he can't go out 1 time on weekend, then no TV......, so he know he need to 付出 if he lie.

I tell him, I don't care about I need to sign on the handbook or not, I only care about his behaviour. Of course forget to take the handbook home is wrong, but the must important is what he done in school. If he have no mistake / have good performance, I will also be happy even you leave the handbook in school.

Also let him know, you publish him, not because he is wrong, is because you love him, and want him be better, and give him some times, children can't change at once. Praise him if he do right.

Sorry to type so many Eng., as my Chinese typing is very poor   
:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg

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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

學校社工已經知道我孩子的情況,
我擔心會惡化,所以希望盡快再搵別處的機構幫忙
你講得正確,可能他覺得我太嚴厲,
所以好多事情都不想給我知..
但我近來已經嘗試放鬆一點,
不責

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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

Don't give-up, if you have any problem, you can even PM me.
:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg

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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

好多謝你的詳盡回應
你打英文唔緊要,我慢慢睇都可以的
我都好似你咁做,如果有講大話或在校做錯事,
我會罰他冇得睇電視,放假不可以去街.... etc,,
但佢擒日為左想睇電視,怕我罰佢冇得睇,佢就塗改左手冊內被老師寫下的缺點 ....
我問佢點解又講大話( 因為已應承過我不再犯)..
佢答我話 : 如果唔塗改左,我今晚實俾你罰冇得睇電視了,所以我又要講大話囉......
我話俾佢知做錯就要承擔後果 :cry:  :cry:  :cry:

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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

evachoy 寫道:
Don't give-up, if you have any problem, you can even PM me.



好呀,好多謝你
今日我真係激到o咸左成日,就黎黐線... :cry:

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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

佢答我話 : 如果唔塗改左,我今晚實俾你罰冇得睇電視了,所以我又要講大話囉......


You can tell your son, if he use a 大話 to hiden another 大話, then he will total have 2 大話, I will publish him more.

Are you really 罰他冇得睇電視,放假不可以去街 everytime he do wrong? I only do that when he is lie, other things I will 罵 him once and haven't 罰. I will ask him to think if I were him, and he is my father, what he will do.

Too much (serious) publish, are also a cause make the children hidden his false.
:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg

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Re: 孩子在校好頑皮,屢勸不改,請問有甚麼機構可幫助到我呢?

evachoy 寫道:
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佢答我話 : 如果唔塗改左,我今晚實俾你罰冇得睇電視了,所以我又要講大話囉......


You can tell your son, if he use a 大話 to hiden another 大話, then he will total have 2 大話, I will publish him more.

Are you really 罰他冇得睇電視,放假不可以去街 everytime he do wrong? I only do that when he is lie, other things I will 罵 him once and haven't 罰. I will ask him to think if I were him, and he is my father, what he will do.

Too much (serious) publish, are also a cause make the children hidden his false.
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yes , i will really  罰他冇得睇電視,放假不可以去街 if  he
is  lie , but  other thing i  just same  as u ,  鬧下佢 only ...
He  just  promise  me won't  講大話 由 tmr 開始,
i hope  so ...
明天又要戰戰競競等老師電話
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