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angelprincess

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香香,

正如我個女一樣, 我都知佢係有讀寫障礙, 但係個評估員就話佢就算係, 都係marginal case, 所以唔好同佢做太多嘅評估又或者治療, 另佢覺得佢係差過人 (需然佢都知), 要比佢建立信心.
其實每個小孩子都會有佢叻嘅一面, 需然我個女讀書唔叻, 但係佢喺藝術方面就好好, 佢好鐘意畫畫, 跳芭蕾舞, 中國舞, 唱歌, 黏土同陶瓷等等, 佢有時喺呢幾方面有啲嘢可以無師自通, 真係有時覺得自己個女都幾叻架, 佢學呢啲嘢嘅時候就會好專心, 又唔怕辛苦, 跳舞嘅時候, 有時需然啲姿勢會令佢好痛, 但係佢都識講話佢會忍受呢啲痛楚云云, 如果佢讀書係咁就好啦.
我個女讀幼稚園時已經時時將啲英文字母, 全部數目字同中文字左右掉轉寫, 可能而家大個咗, 就冇咗呢樣嘢.  我個女喺理解方面係好差架, 連記性都係 (只係讀書, 激死), 明明呢幾日都係比一模一樣嘅數比佢做, 明明前日同昨日都識, 今日就好似失憶咁.  有陣時我覺得佢連2, 3年班嘅數都會唔識 (佢今年5年班啦, 點算), 其實佢又有時明白條數講乜, 佢就係諗極都諗唔到點做, 好似失咗憶同塞著咗, 但係有時佢又可以跳咗幾個step去到個答案到, 我仲以為佢做漏steps計錯數. 就算佢知道條式, 又會計錯, 就算計啱, 又會抄錯答案, 你話係咪嘔血.
以前佢細啲嘅時候, 我會鬧佢, 但係而家就好少, 因為知道係冇用, 佢都唔想, 我唯有深呼吸, 停一陣先至教佢.  不過佢可能真係大咗, 佢呢兩年我覺得佢進步咗, 可能係因為佢大啲, 知道讀書嘅重要, 佢2, 3年班嘅時候已經同我講過佢大個要入演藝學院.  我知道佢其實係好辛苦, 因為佢要比正常嘅小朋友付出更多時間同心機, 佢又係唔可以好專心溫習嘅人, 佢係溫15分鐘左右就要去行吓嘅人.  但係我同自己講, 如果我放棄佢嘅話, 就唔會有人幫到佢, 因為其實最了解佢嘅係我地, 就算有醫生幫佢醫, 佢地都唔會真正明白佢嘅需要.
佢地係最需要我地嘅鼓勵, 我每次讚佢叻嘅時候, 佢都會好開心, 會更加專心同做得好, 我通常會輕輕拍吓佢個頭, 佢會好鐘意, 知道媽咪鼓勵緊佢.  佢鐘意我坐佢旁邊陪佢做功課同溫書, 因為佢會覺得有人陪佢一齊作戰.  同埋我覺得呢類小朋友, 同佢溫書嘅時候係唔可以照書讀或者解釋, 因為你點講佢都唔會明, 但係當你將啲問題圖畫化或者將啲溫習內容戲劇化咁講比佢地知, 佢地就會好快明白同記到, 不過我地就會辛苦啲.  我個女就係咁, 所以我覺得係work架.
講咗太多廢話啦, 大家唔好見怪.  希望大家一齊努力, 我個女都識得同我講: 希望在明天!  佢地而家唔得, 唔係代表將來都係咁, 我深信我將來會以呀女為榮.

原帖由香香於 09-8-3 15:29 發表
我唔知點幫助到佢. 大家有無方法或見意對侍佢呢.

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flostangraphy

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angelpriness,
really clicked here by mistake actually and see you.
rarely see you in the forum of TSL nowadays!
I have applied TSL for our son and now, let's see if he is lucky enough to get in, as you may know, 3000 candidates this year.... even more than DBS and St Paul co-ed....

原帖由 angelprincess 於 24/9/2009 14:02 發表
Hi, Flostangraphy,

Long time no see too. I'm very surprised that you are here too. Yes. My daughter may have some kinds of 讀寫障礙, but just as the doctor have said, she may be a marginal case, d ...

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BEST_DAD

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An IT expert Gary McKinnon from London has been accused by US that he hacked into US military system. He started writing computer programs when he was 14. While most youngsters used it to play computer games, he created graphics and wrote programs. Bear in mind, he was diagnosed with Autism and learning difficulty when he was a child.
Your child may just need some special learning pattern rather than the ordinary way. He may learn ABC slower than other children but he possible is a musician, sportsman or possible an IT expert which you never know. I have been told most of geniuses have their mind, they cannot communicate with the world easily. Once you find the right way for them, they will be another super star tomorrow.

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lammui

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Dear all,

請問你們的小朋友是否右腦發展得比左腦好? 因我睇過一文章說

讀寫障礙的人的右腦比左腦發展得好一些 (不知我有沒有理解錯)

我囡囡現在 3歲 2 個月, 她用左手多一些 , 喜歡音樂 ,不知是否我經常給音樂她聽

她左右手都分不到 ,有時答錯, 有時答對, 我睇得出她時估的, 唔 sure

但我叫她 spelling 些英文生字, 有 d / b, 她都 ok.

請問讀寫障礙的成因是否先天?

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angelprincess

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Hi, Lammui,

我個女都係用左手架, 佢所有嘢都係用左手除咗揸mouse. 佢喺畫畫, 音樂同跳舞等等藝術方面嘅嘢都好好, 但係讀書就真係嘔血架. 你個女已經好好, 我個女以前寫啲英文字母差唔多全部都左右掉轉. 不過佢而大咗, 呢樣嘢都改善咗好多, 已經冇乜啦, 但係喺理解同接收知識方面就真係要用好多好多嘅時間. 其實如果你想了解多啲, 有好多website都會有講架, 因為讀寫障礙其實有好多不同範圍. 你可以睇睇佢會唔會係其中一樣. 不過你唔好緊張, 可能你個女佢係冇嘢架. 我睇過一個website都講得好詳盡, 一陣間check到就再話你知.

原帖由 lammui 於 09-9-28 12:41 發表
Dear all,

請問你們的小朋友是否右腦發展得比左腦好? 因我睇過一文章說
讀寫障礙的人的右腦比左腦發展得好一些 (不知我有沒有理解錯)我囡囡現在 3歲 2 個月, 她用左手多一些 , 喜歡音樂 ,不知是否我經常給音樂她聽 ...

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angelprincess

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Hi, Best_Dad,

Do agree with you. Every child has her talent. Don't just only focus on their academic. Many famous persons also had some problems in learning in their early childhood. We should find out their potential and help them to develop it.

原帖由 BEST_DAD 於 09-9-28 04:49 發表
An IT expert Gary McKinnon from London has been accused by US that he hacked into US military system. He started writing computer programs when he was 14. While most youngsters used it to play compute ...

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lammui

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回覆 26# angelprincess 的文章

Hi angelprincess

我囡囡不是所有用左手, 如拿筷子, 筆, 玩具球拍等都是用右手, (唔知係唔係
一開始我們教她用右手), 但如用手拿東西食, 水杯等都會用左手
想請問你記唔記得你小朋友 3 歲多時的情況是怎樣? 謝謝

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angelprincess

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Hi, Lammui,

呀女由細到大一直都係全用左手, 佢讀幼稚園嘅時候, 我都問過佢老師要唔要轉番用右手, 佢老師話唔需要, 唔好夾硬轉, 可能對佢冇咁好.  其實我都曾經嘗試過同佢轉, 但係呀女話隻右手冇乜力, 所以唯有放棄.  不過其實我覺得用左手寫字其實都可以好靚, 因為我個女都可以, 只不過係隻手會好dirty同埋揸較剪會麻煩啲, 其他都冇乜問題.

啲人話用左手嘅人特別聰明, 但係我就唔覺. 因為我個女唔係.  其實用右腦多嘅人應該係藝術, 創作同語言方面會好啲, 因為右腦係呢啲嘢比較發達, 唔係學術方面.  所以我個女嘅學校成績唔係太好(可能佢啲同學成績太好啦, 比較起上嚟佢會差啲, 例如佢數學測驗有80分, 但係都係嗰班最低分嘅, 唉!), 同埋我個女有少少讀寫障礙 (需然係marginal case), 所以佢同我都要付出好多時間.  但係, 好似BEST_DAD話齋, 我深信我個女一定會令我自豪, 因為佢有佢其他叻嘅地方, 而且佢都好努力.

其實你個女可能真係冇乜嘢架, 唔好咁擔心.  我可以同你share多啲經驗.  我以前都唔開心架, 但係而家放開咗, 覺得呢個係事實, 而家要做嘅就係點樣去幫個女, 鼓勵佢, 多啲鼓勵佢係得架, 要令到佢有自信.  我以前成日鬧個女架, 成日覺得點解人地做得到, 點解佢做唔到, 攪到佢好唔開心, 冇哂自信, 我自己又唔開心.  但係而家我盡量唔會咁做, 仲多啲鼓勵佢, 真係得架, 我都發覺佢真係進度咗好多架.  希望呢啲可以幫到你少少啦.

原帖由 lammui 於 09-9-28 15:29 發表
Hi angelprincess

我囡囡不是所有用左手, 如拿筷子, 筆, 玩具球拍等都是用右手, (唔知係唔係
一開始我們教她用右手), 但如用手拿東西食, 水杯等都會用左手
想請問你記唔記得你小朋友 3 歲多時的情況是怎樣? 謝謝 ...