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教育王國 討論區 小一選校 KTS九龍糖學校(小學部)黑暗悲慘經歷
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KTS九龍糖學校(小學部)黑暗悲慘經歷   [複製鏈接]

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黃大力 發表於 20-12-5 11:38
正常小朋友一年班咁細,滑雪都係山腳跟住教練短缐試滑又玩下雪兜,小朋友咁矮重心低,好難搞到斷腳,通常 ...
好難管到別人,有次同團有個family, 阿仔係一支箭咁沖落山,佢地講話不如一齊玩,我tactfully 回:你們太快我地跟唔到。
the point is if 父母可減低意外的機會,就唔會搞到咁麻煩(當然意外就是意外,唔會100%避免到)。

不過唔會以為我們是好play safe,第一次出國滑我見初級道handled 到,最後一天我就捉小朋友去試中級雪道

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發表於 20-12-5 18:43 |只看該作者

回覆樓主:

KTS都好吸引每年好多學生去報考,本身都覺得有家長投訴下冇咩問題,感覺又好多奇怪評論加鹽加醋,又洗版遮蓋前面留言, 攪到呢間學校好似更加恐怖咁,定係護旗手越幫越忙?  

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發表於 20-12-5 18:53 |只看該作者

回覆樓主:

加少少個人意見,學校比你安排個成人長時間在校內留守,照顧個咁細嘅受傷小朋友,坐輪椅只係短暫過渡期,其實都唔錯呀。

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發表於 20-12-5 19:04 |只看該作者
I have been skiing for more than 15 years and will continue till the end of my life or when my legs cant move. There is risk in every sports. Mountain bike, roller skate, skateboard or even playing basketball can cause bone fracture or ligament injury. IMO, no one should be blamed in that regard because no one knows an accident before it happens!!! Foreigners even cost their lives for climbing snow mountains. They are regarded as heros. In contrast, HK culture just blames Asian (not foreigners!) doing dangerous acts. It is just a kind of self-discrimination.

I have torn my ACL when I was working and have seen colleague having clavicle fracture cant move her arm at all. My friend have her thigh injury which lasted for months because of ski boots a few size too large. All of them continue to work and simply nothing can stop foreigner playing those extreme sports.

Sit back at home relax watching TV for whole life and die eventually VS climbing to the top of a unnamed mountain and die in the Himalaya, majority of HK ppl will definitely choose the former while I will be the latter.

Going back to the topic, if I were the principal, I would invite the parents for a meeting to discuss what would be the best arrangement and explain school policy with insurance/security concerns. Maybe I would ask them to pay extra fee for extra services. Worse scenario is still asking a maid to help the child to go to toilet. Even resulting the same solution after a long discussion, I guess the concerned parents would not complain in a public forum like this.

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發表於 20-12-5 19:17 |只看該作者
lovelovebabe 發表於 20-12-5 18:43
KTS都好吸引每年好多學生去報考,本身都覺得有家長投訴下冇咩問題,感覺又好多奇怪評論加鹽加醋,又洗版遮 ...

本帖最後由 honeybibibibi 於 20-12-6 17:45 編輯

本身件事無咩好討論,因為人人感受唔同。
各有各講就唔好話人護旗手比較好!你認同嗎?

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發表於 20-12-5 19:28 |只看該作者
hknz 發表於 20-12-5 19:04
I have been skiing for more than 15 years and will continue till the end of my life or when my legs  ...

本帖最後由 00806143 於 20-12-5 23:52 編輯

本帖最後由 00806143 於 20-12-5 19:46 編輯

本帖最後由 00806143 於 20-12-5 19:46 編輯

that's the point, I wrote letters directly to both the Principal and the class teacher, just wanted to discuss about this issue, but they never opened the gate to talk, the principal even avoided to face this case at all, just passed the case to someone called Miss Chan and Miss Mak to give me a very rude and unprofessional answers in the phone only.

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發表於 20-12-5 21:18 |只看該作者
hknz 發表於 20-12-5 19:04
I have been skiing for more than 15 years and will continue till the end of my life or when my legs  ...
i just find hk people lack safety awareness.  u should try scuba diving in hk.  its super scary.

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發表於 20-12-5 23:43 |只看該作者
Lack of safety awareness is the same all over the world. I have been hit from behind in Austria twice. Survive fortunately. I have seen beginner foreigner skier/sber injured seriously (several spinal fractures!) while I was in hospital in Japan. Worst in China, kids die first time on slope every year.

I am afraid of water, therefore I dont dive and swim but I wake.

Given that the school has not clarified at all up to the moment and assume that what the parent said is true, it is a unarguable FACT that the school handled the case poorly. That said, if your children injure, you are on your own, and better don't bring trouble to school. Its none of school's business.

FAIR but HARSH.

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hknz 發表於 20-12-5 23:43
Lack of safety awareness is the same all over the world.  ...
cant say for the rest of asia but i think its something to do with the hk/chinese culture and education.

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回覆樓主:

見個topic咁juicy入黎八下,  睇完就知係啲怪獸家長喺度發爛楂,估唔到咁嘅topic都可以有成三十頁。個仔最後都係去到廁所,都有人幫佢開蓋,咁 問題喺邊?個問題簡單不過,只不過學校唔喺用樓主所希望嘅方式去處理,樓主就唔滿意,要周圍開post鬧學校,仲用埋所謂“黑暗悲慘”嘅形容詞,基本上已經言過其實,完全睇唔出有咩咁“黑暗悲慘”,唔通樣樣要就哂你,人地有難處就無道理。話分享所謂嘅經驗出黎供人選校時參考,想達到咩目的?居心叵測 !

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發表於 20-12-7 11:56 |只看該作者
希望大家將來老了, 行動不便時, 只上幾級樓梯, 唔好怪你對仔女唔幫你, 叫你去自備工人.

希望大家將來老了, 唔夠力開飯壺時,

唔好怪你對仔女同檯食飯都唔幫你試下開, 要你行去廚房搵工人幫你或者落管理處都會幫到你解決問題的.




唔好打算去同朋友呻, 因為朋友又唔係現場, 唔知你過去係點, 有乜野既經歷, 亂下判斷係無質素的!






如果真係要怪既, 就請你怪自己幫小朋友選左一間乜野既學校.




既結論, 唔係因為樓主既個人經驗所得, 而係根據謢旗家長既邏輯所得. 一間學校無愛心唔可怕, 最可怕係護旗手家長, 令學校覺得自己永遠是對的, 可以高高在上.




最後: 你咁落力, 我當然祝福你會得到學校賜比你小朋友既一等REFERENCE LETTER啦!






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JacobWL 發表於 20-12-7 11:56
希望大家將來老了, 行動不便時, 只上幾級樓梯, 唔好怪你對仔女唔幫你, 叫你去自備工人.
希望大家將來老了,  ...

本帖最後由 00806143 於 20-12-7 12:45 編輯

glad that there's still love and justice in the world

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JacobWL 發表於 20-12-7 11:56
希望大家將來老了, 行動不便時, 只上幾級樓梯, 唔好怪你對仔女唔幫你, 叫你去自備工人.
希望大家將來老了,  ...

神邏輯,佛心腸。仔女朋友類比學校老師校工?一個貼切D嘅例子都舉唔到。人地咩background都唔知就隨便扣人帽子護主,可笑!呢到唔係只有KTS家長可以發言㗎,懇請唔好陷其他家長於不義,我只代表我個人,點解又唔諗下話人護主嗰個係咩??

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發表於 20-12-7 13:27 |只看該作者

回覆樓主:

點到即止,寫埋呢幾句唔再回喇,明事理嘅人會明。只要分析一下D人嘅諗野嘅方向咁負面就知道佢係咩人。其實佢識唔識諗下:
1)一個小學生如果受咗傷唔能夠照顧自己,應該就要留係屋企,而家學校俾佢工人留校照顧,點解唔係去感謝學校肯破例,反而要將責任推比人?
2) 估唔到開唔到蓋要揾校務處幫手咁小事都值得計較?重要記住咁耐開post批評學校,咁嘅心態同為人可想而知。點解唔係感謝學校安排校務處專門幫手?唔識怪下自己所用嘅蓋咁難開要麻煩別人?
3) 學校如果破例幫你寫推薦信,有無諗過咁樣會對之前有要求過而同樣唔成功嘅同學唔公平?點解唔識欣賞學校做事一視同仁?

總係覺得自己嘅要求就合理,對方唔配合就係人地唔啱,人地嘅解釋就肯定係藉口。就算退一萬步學校有咩做得唔好,但用到“黑暗悲慘”嘅字眼去形容就肯定講唔過,咁樣唔係抹黑學校係咩?

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robbiesteven 發表於 20-12-7 13:27
點到即止,寫埋呢幾句唔再回喇,明事理嘅人會明。只要分析一下D人嘅諗野嘅方向咁負面就知道佢係咩人。其實 ...

我都真糸好佩服你既見解和分析,謝謝

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回覆 robbiesteven 的帖子

I agree that "黑暗悲慘經歷" is subjective and a bit over, after all there is no direct harm (such as abuse) done to the family.
To be fair, "Unhelpful and unkindly experience" would be a more appropriate description.

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JacobWL 發表於 20-12-7 11:56
希望大家將來老了, 行動不便時, 只上幾級樓梯, 唔好怪你對仔女唔幫你, 叫你去自備工人.
希望大家將來老了,  ...
interesting analogy, 值得討論下,叫工人幫老人家開樽蓋/飯壼真唔覺有乜唔妥(除左怕姐姐整爛),當然會是叫工人來幫而不是叫老人家去找工人
又或者轉下角度
比如你公司事假一定要在年假中扣,你老爸每一個月要去e院一次,你會叫工人定自己陪佢去?

老人家失禁你會自己去清潔定叫工人代勞?

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發表於 20-12-7 17:58 |只看該作者
robbiesteven 發表於 20-12-7 13:27
點到即止,寫埋呢幾句唔再回喇,明事理嘅人會明。只要分析一下D人嘅諗野嘅方向咁負面就知道佢係咩人。其實 ...
中point
有些人把自己的要求放到好大,滿足唔到就“黑暗悲慘”


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發表於 20-12-7 20:28 |只看該作者
唔好以為走左無事,貴子弟既大名己在校長group內流傳,萬一要升中,或有細佬妹,搵學校既時候...............
教育界圈子好細,唱下唱下唱到番你任教既學校

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b3410 發表於 20-12-7 17:58
中point
有些人把自己的要求放到好大,滿足唔到就“黑暗悲慘”

所以建議個家長去睇完Les Misérables,先明白如何使用「黑暗悲慘」來形容自身遭遇。

否則個仔下次午餐少舊肉食唔飽飯,又可出個po 「我個仔在xx學校塊肉餘生錄」。


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honeybunny8    發表於 20-12-7 22:29
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