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發表於 12-3-15 23:19 |只看該作者
Don't simply blame the coach and the 10-years old boy. It is just too common to upload video clips to youtube, but ESF management chose to send a lawyer letter to threaten someone to take the clips out. Then, adverse reactions came and now they sent a letter to all ESF parents to "comfort" them.  If ESF management did feel sorry, they should say so at the very beginning.  

ESF schools have a bullying culture. My boy studied in ESF primary school before. Based on my experience and some other asian parents' experiences, it seems that western boys like to bully asian boys, not only becasue asian boys are not physcially strong but also they don't speak fluent english. Asians are somehow being discriminated in ESF school. My son has transfered out of the ESF school recently.

Current ESF asian parents may know what I mean.


   

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WYmom  Discrimination does happen, but not necessarily on Asians.  In my kids' school, minorities like Africans feel that they are discriminated by Asians.  I think this reflects the real world outside.  發表於 12-3-16 09:10
宏媽  I am Asian but my child didn't encounter that in school. European, African and Asian children all play happily together. Maybe it is the class or the school your child attend have this problem.  發表於 12-3-16 08:33

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發表於 12-3-16 00:33 |只看該作者
回復 no-bully 的帖子

Please shed me some light, which ESF school are you referring to? how old was your child when it happened? How did the school handle it? Thank you.

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發表於 12-3-16 00:45 |只看該作者
回復 alpham0m 的帖子

Do you have kid studying in ESF at all?

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發表於 12-3-16 01:08 |只看該作者
回復 alpham0m 的帖子

It seems to me that you are ESF admin staff watching the threads on this forum closely.

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發表於 12-3-16 07:39 |只看該作者
haha, I am not a watch dog and I have a child in one of the ESF schools.
Never mind if you don't want to share, chow.

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發表於 12-3-16 09:08 |只看該作者
no-bully 發表於 12-3-15 23:19
ESF schools have a bullying culture. My boy studied in ESF primary school before. Based on my experience and some other asian parents' experiences, it seems that western boys like to bully asian boys, not only becasue asian boys are not physcially strong but also they don't speak fluent english. Asians are somehow being discriminated in ESF school. My son has transfered out of the ESF school recently.



不如你講多少少件事,等其他 esf  家長留意下自己小朋友的情形都好。
咁你仔而家讀邊間呀?分享下你仔間學校點好啦。
其實,最近 esf  而家都錄續比 offer  比下年度的學位,我知好多人都考唔到,
如果有好學校,不如話比大家聽,等大家有多個選擇,
咁你就真係功德無量,多謝。

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no-bully  ESF parents should ask their child whether they encountered any bullying by some senior students. If they try not to say anything or they got hurt from school, you should probe more questions.  發表於 12-3-16 19:17

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發表於 12-3-16 11:45 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 easydad 於 12-3-17 00:11 編輯

Actually, we should not generalise and conclude all ESF students are bad.

Yet, looking at the way the matter evolves, it is save to conclude ESF's admin is really bad.  For a case with such high degree of media coverage, I would  be surprised if the senior management of ESF is not involved but they still react and handle this way....

Education is more than just feeding book knowledge.  It is also about value and character building.  I fail to see how I can pass my kids to a bunch of people with such mentality in mind.

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發表於 12-3-16 12:12 |只看該作者
恐怖的不是英基童踢頭,恐怖的是英基學校的態度,事件發生后,英基email 信給所有英基家長,信中一直只講已出律師信要求對方刪除youtube 片段及講大家焦點在批評英基學童是對其不公平,從沒提及此學童的行為是不對,直至我們自己上youtube 才發現此學童咁離譜,明眼人一睇都知個ESF 學童野蠻啦。學校仲要包庇 ?你叫我地家長點放心自己仔女係度讀?西方文化就不用教尊重其他人嗎?

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mingmingyinyin  I agree with jamhappybobo that ESF as a school authority should point out the misbehavior of that boy and how the school is going to follow up to cope with such misbehavior.  發表於 12-3-16 13:04

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發表於 12-3-16 19:11 |只看該作者
回復 jamhappybobo 的帖子

I had the same feeling as yours when received that email from CEO. My friend parents also feel angry about ESF management, but nothing they can do as it is difficult to get into other IS now.



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發表於 12-3-20 23:17 |只看該作者
真的很心痛.  
為那受傷的小孩和他的父母心痛.  也為那傷人的小孩心痛.  他是在怎樣的環境成長, 怎會有這樣兇狠的心腸, 且還能做得出手.   我常說, 不要怪孩子壞, 孩子錯, 最先錯的是父母, 如果孩子們能得到父母的愛和悉心的教導, 是不會有壞孩子的.  希望那對外藉父母懂得反省, 要知道錯在那裏.


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發表於 12-3-25 21:49 |只看該作者
冇錯, 恐怖的是英基學校的態度, 垃圾學校

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發表於 12-3-27 10:56 |只看該作者
matsushima 發表於 12-3-25 16:49
冇錯, 恐怖的是英基學校的態度, 垃圾學校

好呀、無人読、不用争。

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tcbobo  今年會唔會少D人報呢,睇吓有冇人認同佢哋  發表於 12-3-27 12:06
tcbobo    發表於 12-3-27 11:59
Mighty
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發表於 12-3-27 11:03 |只看該作者
no-bully 發表於 12-3-15 18:19
Don't simply blame the coach and the 10-years old boy. It is just too common to upload video clips t ...

嘩!好似番左大英帝国時代、洋鬼子欺負中国人呀!! 有無可能呀?! 我唔知你講緊辺間英基、我也只認識10個左右ESF PARENT,完全未曾聴過西人欺負ASIAN,当然一般小朋友的紛争是有的、BUT not racially related lor.

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