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my son starts his nursery this Aug, he firstly liked going to school very much although he did not eat well by himself in school.

However things change these two days, he he always says not going to school. he shows strong resistance when entering inside school and cries sadly

any mani can share her experiences. thanks

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Hi kinderyu,

Just want to share my experience and hope it can be your reference.

My girl relies on me much so we all predicted she would cry for a few weeks when started nursery. But out of our expection, she didn't cry at all so far. (Touch wood) Below are what we have done for preparation.

1. Before school starting, we always dropped by the nursery school and told her that would be your school in future. Let her get prepared in mind.

2. We also bought her some books about school. Let her have an idea of what school is. What kids will do at school etc.

3. We accessed to the school website and found some promotion videos. So, we played the videos and explained to her what children would do at school.

4. The 1st - 3rd day in school.
We accompanied her to school. We introduced her who is her teacher and where is the toilet etc. Let her feel comfortable and be familiar with the place.

5. The 4th day in school
It was the first day she went to school by her own. As recommended by the Principle, we asked the maid to take her to school because our maid is the one she relies on less (comparatively). We encouraged her by telling that we'd give her a small gift if she didn't cry at school. Finally, she didn't cry and asked us for the gift when returning home.

6. We also teach her crying is not a good way to solve problems. Probably it is over mature to say something like this to a 2.5 years old girl. But we always encourage her to share her unhappiness or happiness to the teacher or us.

Hope it helps.

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my son starts his nursery this Aug, he firstly liked going to school very much although he did not eat well by himself in school.

However things change these two days, he he always says not going to school. he shows strong resistance when entering inside school and cries sadly

any mani can share her experiences. thanks

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發表於 07-8-17 02:34 |只看該作者

today is the 4th school day for my boy...case getting worse day by day, the principal told me that he cried and screamed crazily yesterday after I left, so I was allowed to accompany him today and he just attached on my body :-| . I think he is kind of stubborn and I wonder how could the strangers can calm him down (for him, teachers are the strangers).
sigh...I will let my helper to bring him to school tomorrow, dont know if it could help but at least I cannot see how he

it's really breaking my heart :cry:

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發表於 07-8-17 10:15 |只看該作者

my girl has started school for about 2 weeks, at first she is the ONLY ONE who cried from the beginning to the end of the lesson, when i asked the teacher what she had done when other kinds were playing, the teahcer said that she was just crying and walking around looking for me....it's really heart breaking

, but now after we've been praying for her and reading the books about school to her every night before bed, the situation has improved a lot, though she still sried when i left her, she's being happy in school when I am not there

I think it really takes time for both our kid and we to get used to schoollife, but one of the thing we have to bear in mind is that we have to trust ourseleves and be firm that sending our kds to school is a RIGHT thing to do, and we have to think positive that ONE day our kid will show us his/her smiling face when they off school

here is my blog that I record what happended when my girl first went to school and my feelings, you may see if it's useful to you, or at least you will find that we share the same feelings

http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/jw!eJbm_qGFGRBve9UlSjMcWq0CxFk-

[ 本文章最後由 wingchingchu 於 07-8-17 10:24 編輯 ]

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My girl is 2 yrs old and started her class this monday with first 3 days with my accompany. On the 4th day, she cried when seeing off at the classroom entrance, but at least she stopped occassionaly at the class, and she was not crying when I saw her again. however, today is the 5th day, but getting worse. She has not stopped crying throughout the whole hour and she even throw out when eating snack....I was heart broken. When the door is opened, I saw her sitting at a corner and crying....I hope that she could get used to the new environment...

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hi, all mami, my boy also started nursery fm last week, he still cried but teacher said cried lesser than b4. but he still didn't listen to the teacher, did what he wanted.
May I know all your kids can talk now? my boy just say less than 15 word(incl eng and cantonese), I 'm so worry as he is now in international class, and I speak to him in eng when he was born, but now I started to speak cantonese, cos I relied on school for eng speaking. my boy now is 27mths old, do u think I need to take him to see the speech specialist? Pls Share!!!

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my boy is 21mth & 2 weeks, he can only says some single words also, but I can see the improvement day by day. all other mamis said the babies will learn fast after going to school and can be talked well in about 3 to 4 mths time. Let's wait and see.
maybe you can get the advice from the teachers, they should know very well in baby developments, as the varinace in speech ability of baby could be very big, boy is usually delay.

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thks symlsyml, in fact, I asked the advise fm school principle, she told me just wait, and don't worry too much. but as a mom, how I can be relax, and not worry?? So, I should speak to him in Eng or Cantonese? Teacher said i should speak in Cant. cos he will learn eng in school, and also, cos my hubby speaks in French, so it 's also the reason y he 's late talker. But when I tried hard to talk to him and teach him in cant., he just looked at him and open up his mouth, I think he's not willing to learn, esp. some pronounciation is difficult he may think, so he gave up...
ar.... I really hope he will hv improvement. At the same time, I also blame myself not being a good mom.

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發表於 07-8-19 01:25 |只看該作者

no la, in fact you are a very good mom, no point to blame yourself, all you have to do is "relax" bcos baby can feel you and he will feel your pressure too. actually that is very normal for speech delay in your boy's case, as he is living under 3 languages and he is only 27mths, language confusion is surely the great impact. the principle is correct "dont worry! he just needs more time on this"
which school he is studing now?

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發表於 07-8-19 01:55 |只看該作者

he's now studying greenfield nursery, but in international class. We wu like to put him in REAL int' kinder, but need to see his progress first....what about your kid?

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first month to nursey - please share your experiences

thanks foonhei.

i made a phone call to school yesterday, they also recommended to let my son bring his favor toy with him which can relax him.

according to the teacher, after few weeks to school, he does not feel the strong interest like first begining together with the rules and regulations in school, he definitely wants to stay in home longer. the teacher further advised that though he cries badlly when arrive school, he recoveries himself quickly after we left and does well in school.

looks i will only trust what she said and see a while.

just it is really a torture to see his crying and noted that he lost his weight

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原文章由 BBIX 於 07-8-19 01:55 發表
he's now studying greenfield nursery, but in international class. We wu like to put him in REAL int' kinder, but need to see his progress first....what about your kid?

my boy is in Victoria upper kornhill, he still

today and when I back home tonite I found his eyes swollen like an egg. when I read the story book about school or asked him what he done at school, he just said "喊" so I kept saying "唔喊", good boy 唔喊, smart boy 唔喊, tmr go to school 唔喊, when say goodbye to 姐姐 tmr 唔喊...but he kept answering me 喊喊喊....