我開始冇心機教女, 點算?

siupak01

無錯!nn & 各位光名正大媽媽,

支持你地!大家都係想做個稱職好媽媽,盡心盡力陪育自己的子女,分享用家心得,有何不妥呀!
    

li2006

文章已被修改 - 我們不希望見到用戶分身來製造言論，如再犯便鎖IP

cc2467

文章已被修改 - 我們不希望見到用戶分身來製造言論，如再犯便鎖IP

nn

All,

Let's stop responding to those annoying messages.  I have already reported to BK Admin about this person's annoying actions.

Let's continue our happy discussion, and let that annoying person continues to be unhappy about our sharing.  Posting those annoying messages is time-consuming and no added value, he/she will continue be unhappy, he/she will stop some day in the future.

    

moondream3003

Small_Cloud,
0吾好PM啦, 就post

maluck

cc2467 & li2006,

Are you two the sales from 'Disney's World of English'?

cway

nn,

我都想繼續聽下你湊 AliBB 既心得呀 其餘野, 茅理囉

nn

cway,
Ng 理得 Gum Door 囉...   湊BB好忙加馬...  Just revised AliBB's schedule again (i.e. postponing the dates again    ) huh...

cway 寫道:
nn,

我都想繼續聽下你湊 AliBB 既心得呀 其餘野, 茅理囉

YANBB

nn,

I also want to know how you teach your daughter. I very agreed with that the "quality of time". Although I am a full-time mom, but I don't spend much time to teach her before. But right now I regret that, I've been a too lazy mom. Now I planed to teach my girl flash card again, but using another method. Have you ever read that book named ”如何教幼兒學習識字閱讀”the method it's a bit different from Glenn Doman one.

The reason I become active again is I see my girl being so clever lately (maybe she can speak more so she cpould express herself more), she can speak many words now, even a sentances. I was so suprised that some things I didn't mean to teach her and  I've showed her before, she was not respond so well at that time and now she output what I taught before. It's really cheer me up and regret so much that I did put much afford on it. I feel sorry about wasting her time and being so lazy.

So this topic is good to share our exprinence and cheer up togther. Don't give up and believe yourself and your baby.   

nn

YANBB,

I have the same feeling as you, the more I observe how she learns and improves, the more regret I am for not spending more time to teach her.  Yesterday, I put a cartoon magazine on the dining table, and to my surprise, she saw it and named all the cartoon characters shown on the magazine.  I have never taught her all the names (about 10+ characters), she just saw the video a few times before with those characters.  I even needed to open the books and checked whether the names are the right one or not as I don't know the names myself.  This really cheers me up...  but then, this means that I should work as hard as my baby!!!

I don't have special methods to teach my baby, whenever I think of something to teach her, I will go and research, and search for the right materials.  E.g. I bought all the 12 animals from McDonald earlier to teach her all the names, she picked them up right the way, i.e. know all the 12 names in 5 minutes.  Then, I realize this is a good way to teach her with the real object for her to hold in her hands.  So, I searched for the small animal toys and built a farm and zoo at home, again, she learned very fast and knew all the names... then, I went to buy the fishes and sea creatures and built the fish tank...  Ooops... I still have a homework to do tonight, which is to check the difference of Sea Lion/Walrus/Seal... to me, they all look the same    

I saw a pack of dinosaurs at the toy store, but I was hesitated to buy it, as I know NONE of the names... how can I teach her...  and this makes me feel very upset...

Last week, I noticed that she turned herself 180-degree in order to look at the "" letter (I sticked the "" letter on a board), she did this several times... and .... I realized today that she was checking what's the difference between "" and "d".

I have a book about feelings, I read with her and made funny faces on "Happy", "sad", "angry", etc...  and she now practices these words correctly, she said "angry" when I blocked her way, and sometimes, she said "I'm happy" and came to kiss me  

Some friends came to my house and commented that my house looks like a kinder    

(stories to be continued...)

palmchristy

無論用什麼教材，用什麼方法，只要持之以恆，教的有熱情，學的學得高興，這些每天的一點一滴，都會令孩子會像海棉一樣被吸收掉。

到了三歲後的某一天，你會忽然發現孩子已經愛上自己看書，愛上自己學習，很有心機地每天完成學校的功課，當其他孩子在吵鬧不休時你的孩子在畫圖畫寫字，你就會知道父母今時今日所付出的心血是不會白費的。

希望大家更有心機教育孩子。

palmchristy

YANBB，

個人認為”如何教幼兒學習識字閱讀”的方法的可操作性限於1.5-4歲。因為只有懂得說話的孩子才能按大人的要求讀出字卡。而3歲以後，孩子對字卡的興趣會大大減低，反而喜歡句子卡了。如果字卡的根底打得好（指大約看了1000片字卡左右的孩子），他們看句子卡的話，看三數次已能重覆讀出。

還有，如你要求孩子讀出字卡上的字，當他們看書時，會習慣性地指著書中的字讀出。這正是我現在面對的問題。因為我寧可孩子懂得”看書”而不是”讀書”。

Small_Cloud

nn,

我估大臣佢哋已經做緊嘢 lu, 您有冇發覺多咗以下呢段呢 :


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希望有效啦

由 nn 於 2006-03-02 20:51:48

All,

Let's stop responding to those annoying messages. I have already reported to BK Admin about this person's annoying actions.

Let's continue our happy discussion, and let that annoying person continues to be unhappy about our sharing. Posting those annoying messages is time-consuming and no added value, he/she will continue be unhappy, he/she will stop some day in the future.

nn

Small_Cloud,
Yes, BK Admin and 大臣佢哋 are really fast, GOOD JOB!!!               

nn

tazmanic,

How old is your boy?

The bookstore I went for the cards is:  LINK (Note: original price for the cards is $10/pack, if you buy more than $300 of things, you can get 20% off, so, it becomes $8/pack)

Joshua媽

tazmanic,

don't be upset ...

I'm not a full time nor 勤力既 mother but I would like to share with u of my 教仔 schedule also.

My son is now 18.5 months old.

He likes to watch 'phonic kids'  very very very very much since he was only 8 months old... beforehand, he liked 'play along 1/2/3' very very very much also but while he's elder abit now, he switches to 'Noddy' luuu...

I fix the time to read the books for him every night... and he has 習慣 左呢個 schedule...

we'll read books at night... (new books or some old books)... + some games (shape sorter/ puzzles/ lego/ role play/ peekaboo/ Question + answer/ 宇卡/ game)... dinner afterwards... change pyjamas for him

then we'll have story time + listening to classical music... then he'll go to sleep

慢慢來啦...我相信好多mami都有自己煩惱既野家...     

妤妤

I am also a working mother and I am also very lazy. I feel guilty because I do not teach my bb girl consistently.

Started from her 10 months old, I taught her with flash cards (dot cards and words) but I cannot accord to the schedule. Later, when she was 1 year old, she felt resistance to the flash cards, she avoided looking at the cards, then I gave up to teach her by cards. I feared that she will not like to read and learn anymore when she grows up. Up to now, she still does not like to the cards. Now, I start to talk with her some stories with the attractive books, she also does not pay attention on it, just play her own things. I feel very unhappy of her reaction. Could anyone tell me what can I do to improve the situation?

I take her to library weekly or bi-weekly, but she just treat it as playgroup, puts the books off but refuses to read with me or by herself.

I do really hope that she likes reading books. It is much worth to herself.

Please give me advice, thanks.

Joshua媽

妤妤,

same as you, I have tailor made many flash cards (English and Chinese) and dots cards to teach my son...BUT.... the result is... exactly the same as you...

Arrrr... I felt very unhappy too ga... coz I've used quite some time to prepare the list of words that I want to flash... BUT...  :cry:  :cry:  :cry:

For the story time... since I start to tell bible stories when he was very very young... and now he established the 'habit'... BUT still depends on his 'MOOD'... (ohhhh nooo again).... soooo...

his ability to speak is       well, I always encouage myself to believe that take time to let him learn... keeps it up la...     

hoyinma

Hi Palmchristy,
Nice to hear from you!!!
I totally agree with you.
What we need to teach is the love of learning and reading!!!
I m sure that all bbs here will love learning as they will understand how much their parents have done for them.
Add oil everyone, 持之以恆 is the key!!!!