放棄學琴？

bbqueen

Hi Esmond's Mom

Pls check yr pm. Thanks!

ff_tt

Hi Esmond's Mom

請問, 現在我的小朋友對鋼琴產生厭惡, 不愿再彈琴, 甚至行經聯合道(以前的琴行所在地)都不要的, 我如何能消除她的害怕, 修補她的心靈創傷呢?

ff_tt

Esmond'sMom;

多謝您的意見, 希望可以有幫助啦! 各位家長慎選您們小朋友的老師!

smalle

我囡囡都係小一, 都係剛取了二級琴既成績單,我同意G-Ma 的講法, 同小朋友傾吓, 睇吓佢係咪練得好苦, 因為才上小一,功課壓力都唔少,如果係既同miss傾傾, 放慢小小, 彈返d佢中意既哥仔, 最重要唔好令佢討厭咗學琴。

smalle

YanYan0116,
我女幼稚園時係平日早上學既, 果陣佢返下午校, 上咗小一9月時,冇好既時間比我地轉,為有放學後去學, 但即使我女好精力, 但時間好趕, 當時差唔多考試, 又唔轉得老師or琴行, 而且個miss同我女都好"甲", 咁為有等機會, 好彩10月時有個星期6既位, 就轉咗loo, 咁好好多.

charlesma

Just want to share my experience.

I quit learning piano when I was small (after G2 exam).  I told my mom that I didn't want to learn piano without giving her any reason.  The true reason was because I was scared.  I didn't like all those exams and Music Festival. It was out of my imagination that learning music meant exams and competitions.
Of course, I now understand that it's good to have a goal to excel. But how can I understand this when I was small.  Practising is a burden. Music becomes torture.

Sometimes when I think back, I do regret requesting to quit.  I really hope that my mom can understand my worries so that I don't need to give up.  Actually, after taking the exam, I gained the confidence of continuing but it was too late by that time.  We were much less vocal when we were small.

So try to understand your kid why he/she doesn't want to learn piano.  You may find some ways to encourage and motivate them.  Understand their concerns and worries.  Let music be kid's friend.