音樂是否一定要培養?

亞薛

我仔仔5歲，但比較好動，喜歡運動多少少，但又心野，樣樣都想玩、玩試，但玩得唔耐，學得耐少少，興趣又減少，唔知關唔關雙魚座性格，喜歡新事物，三分鐘熱度，

我想他能學一樣音樂，但他好似又沒有太大興趣，點樣可以引導他呢? 是否要放棄? 我又不是一定要他學，不過可以令他心能靜一下，緩和下個人性格，個性太急及忟憎

kcmom

我都想知﹐如果小朋友已經6歲﹐對音樂完全亳不感興趣﹐是否真的要鼓勵他(其實係逼他)去學一樣樂器﹐去培養專注力、毅力、藝術氣質等等呢？

有沒有人可以指教一下。

Fris

If you want him to learn, the first thing is to make him interest in it. You can try to bring him to some concerts, videos and shows which for kids ( there will be alot during school vacations), let him know what is the instrustment and how to play, maybe can help to raise his interests. After he is interested, he will be more willing and easier to learn.

原文章由 kcmom 於 07-8-20 10:55 發表
我都想知﹐如果小朋友已經6歲﹐對音樂完全亳不感興趣﹐是否真的要鼓勵他(其實係逼他)去學一樣樂器﹐去培養專注力、毅力、藝術氣質等等呢？

有沒有人可以指教一下。

kcmom

原文章由 Fris 於 07-8-20 11:50 發表
If you want him to learn, the first thing is to make him interest in it. You can try to bring him to some concerts, videos and shows which for kids ( there will be alot during school vacations),  ...

I have bring him to different kinds of orchestra concerts for children & youth, including the music program - 麥兜&香港小交響樂團.   Everytime, he will ask to leave during the middle of the concert.  When walking pass 琴行, I let him see different kinds of intruments, but before we start our conversation, he already pulls me away.

That's why I think he is very reluntance to learn music.  Any advise should I still need to push him to music?

cottontail

我唸音樂係要培養, 但小朋友學學下, 做家長既好易走火入魔, 以我為例, 我個仔肯定係冇乜音樂細胞, 亦唔係太鐘意音樂, 即使係屋企佢都好少哼歌, 但我迫佢彈琴同拉二胡, 最初佢玩琴都冇問題, 但去到三級(老師話) 開始有難度, 佢就冇乜興趣去練琴, 下下都要叫先肯去練, 有一段長時間係完全冇進步, 但我同阿仔講亦同老師講, 我唔係要阿仔有八級或以上, 亦唔需要佢考琴, 我只係要佢大d 可以識玩下樂器, 可以自娛, 加上玩琴可以訓練佢既右腦, 因為阿仔個人冇乜人情味, 手眼協調亦差, 所以學琴唔係為張cert. 我反而見好多媽咪迫小朋友學琴到八級, 之後個小朋友亦冇再掂個琴, 咁我覺得仲哂時間, 而家阿仔玩下玩下又有返興趣, 不過都係比平常人用既時間多好多, 老公開玩笑講, 如果阿仔用玩琴既時間去學數, 成績同前排可以入浸大既小朋友差不多, 但各人既取捨不同, 我唔需要佢做偉人, 我希望佢快樂就ok~

yanmachai

每個人的多元智能都不同，不必勉強，最重要是發揮所長。

MercuryMars

音樂是需要培養的﹗
對於一個五、六歲的小朋友，你帶他去聽古典音樂會(縱使是較有趣的mcdull&mcmug)，他確實未必感興趣，你或可考慮帶他上一些音樂唱遊班，而透過音樂遊戲、律動及唱遊，小朋友之間的互動，從而增加他對音樂的興趣。
另外，可多講一些音樂故事給他聽，如︰胡桃夾子、彼德與狼，或一些音樂家的故事，培養小朋友對音樂的興趣。
而坊間有很多木偶劇，其實木偶劇中有很多音樂元素，不仿帶他去看看，增加其興趣。
而小朋友學習一種樂器，除了可增進他對該樂器的認識及演奏能力外，真的可訓練其專注力及耐性，但當小朋友的興趣不夠時，家長可多作鼓勵及讚賞，或許，家長更雖更大的耐性去培養小朋友的興趣﹗我相信只要小朋友有信心能做得到、做得好時，他們必會喜歡上去彈奏﹗