已經小三, 仲畀老師投訴上堂唔專心, 心散

luvbb

唉. 阿女自細都比較心散, 但估不到到而家3年級都無改善,
成日番到黎問佢老師要佢地做咩都唔知.

佢又唔似stupid 成咁, 但係點解成日都要我咁勞氣？

今日老師仲打黎投訴添. 有無人可以教下我可以點做？

細女仲有一個月就出世, 我覺得教女有壓力....

qkhui

你囡囡係點心散先...
噉佢考試, 默書個o的有無問題??

原帖由 luvbb 於 08-10-15 14:40 發表
唉. 阿女自細都比較心散, 但估不到到而家3年級都無改善,
成日番到黎問佢老師要佢地做咩都唔知.

佢又唔似stupid 成咁, 但係點解成日都要我咁勞氣？

今日老師仲打黎投訴添. 有無人可以教下我可以點做？

細女仲有一個 ...

Pizza_Hut

我個女又係好懵的, 十問十吾知, 我唯有整天提佢, 又寫字條貼係手冊~筆袋等, 有時佢地吾係吾記得, 只係吾想去記, 我就問東問西, 問到佢記得, 答啱就有小禮物, 有些小朋友係慢熱形, 做媽咪要忍耐, 我個女比起之前都已經有小小進步

luvbb

原帖由 qkhui 於 08-10-15 14:59 發表
你囡囡係點心散先...
噉佢考試, 默書個o的有無問題??

佢考試, dictation 個d 我會督促佢温, 考試都可以, 平均分7x 分.

但硬係上堂成日好似遊雲, 以前n3, n4, 老師已經同我講過呢個問題, 話佢有時會唔知做緊咩.

luvbb

原帖由 Pizza_Hut 於 08-10-15 15:24 發表
我個女又係好懵的, 十問十吾知, 我唯有整天提佢, 又寫字條貼係手冊~筆袋等, 有時佢地吾係吾記得, 只係吾想去記, 我就問東問西, 問到佢記得, 答啱就有小禮物, 有些小朋友係慢熱形, 做媽咪要忍耐, 我個女比起之前都已 ...

小一小二就話唔熟習小學生活, 唔知定姐.
而家小三, 應該熟悉小學生活係點run. 但佢仲好似一舊飯咁.
佢好無心裝載, 幾時dictation, 佢自己都唔緊張, 又唔會記得幾時要dictation, 反而要我成日提番佢轉頭.

我提左佢好多次, 每日放學要對住本手冊睇一有咩功課要做, 佢都仲係有時唔睇手冊, 靠記. 佢係咁好記性, 我就唔洗煩啦.

fannyyu

hi - some of the kids might try to draw your attentions for being this way.  as a little sister/brother is coming, your girl might feel uncomfortable.  really need to be patient to her, give her the confidence to build up her self-ability.
good luck!
fannyyu

qkhui

可能你囡囡就依懶你, 所以咩都唔去記,

原帖由 luvbb 於 08-10-15 16:31 發表

小一小二就話唔熟習小學生活, 唔知定姐.
而家小三, 應該熟悉小學生活係點run. 但佢仲好似一舊飯咁.
佢好無心裝載, 幾時dictation, 佢自己都唔緊張, 又唔會記得幾時要dictation, 反而要我成日提番佢轉頭.

我提左 ...

happy_k

我個仔同妳個女一樣,成日比人投訴,好煩.....都唔知點算好,知唔知邊到有堂比佢地上呢?

原帖由 Pizza_Hut 於 08-10-15 15:24 發表
我個女又係好懵的, 十問十吾知, 我唯有整天提佢, 又寫字條貼係手冊~筆袋等, 有時佢地吾係吾記得, 只係吾想去記, 我就問東問西, 問到佢記得, 答啱就有小禮物, 有些小朋友係慢熱形, 做媽咪要忍耐, 我個女比起之前都已 ...

luvbb

原帖由 qkhui 於 08-10-16 10:06 發表
可能你囡囡就依懶你, 所以咩都唔去記,

我都覺得係依賴左我提佢, 咁我應該點樣開始放手呢？
唔提佢又畀老師寫手冊, 寫得多又畀老師打黎投訴...

囡囡好希望妹妹快d 出世, 佢好愛妹妹, 我估佢唔係因為有妹妹而要吸引我的注意。

LS+MCS

原帖由 luvbb 於 08-10-15 14:40 發表
唉. 阿女自細都比較心散, 但估不到到而家3年級都無改善,
成日番到黎問佢老師要佢地做咩都唔知.

佢又唔似stupid 成咁, 但係點解成日都要我咁勞氣？

今日老師仲打黎投訴添. 有無人可以教下我可以點做？

細女仲有一個 ...

My son has the same problem. But, I'm thinking the other way. It might not be the FULL responsibility of the kids. If the teachers make the lessons real interesting, they could definitely draw the kids' attention, like when my son watches TV cartoons, he's so concentrated. Even for me as an adult, I'll doze off / day dream when I'm attending boring meetings.

So, don't worry too much as your kid's still small.

KaWo

找學校社工幫忙, 和班主任詳談.
比佢錯.留, 記缺點. 要佢知後果.
你冇可能一世照顧佢.
我一年級己開始訓練囝囝自己執書包.
現在開學2個月,令我滿意.