大家覺得身教重要嗎？

IRISSIX

極重要!

愛貓

父母就是孩子的一面鏡子, 是孩子學習和模仿的第一個對象. 能以身作則, 絕對是對孩子的最好教育~

原帖由 vincent1010 於 09-11-25 11:51 發表
大家覺得身教重要嗎？

小曳人

如你家長都做不到嘅事, 就唔應該怪孩子做唔到 (包括睇書在內)
家長做到嘅事, 孩子慢慢自己會跟住做! (包括壞習慣)

Laputa

Why you ask this question?  

原帖由 vincent1010 於 09-11-25 11:51 發表
大家覺得身教重要嗎？

tracytang

Very important!!!

lokaci

我係智能中心嘅導師，曾經有小朋友同我講，佢唔開心會打人，細問下，原來佢父母晤開心打佢，咁你話身教係晤係重要？

jc2009

非常重要

原帖由 vincent1010 於 09-11-25 11:51 發表
大家覺得身教重要嗎？

hkcat_cat

十分重要 !
因為小朋友佢地模仿能力好高 !

childrenhappy

你嘅一舉一動，小朋友都觀察入微...
而且都會學習。
小朋友睇嘢嘅角度好特別架...
隨時大人覺得冇乜特別冇乜所謂嘅動作、說話...
對佢嘅嚟講都會有好大影響!
所以身教係超級重要!!!! ^^

meowmeow

超級重要..
特別係一d習慣, 如拋垃圾..  我兒永遠只會把垃圾放入垃圾桶內, 如果附近沒有垃圾桶, 他寧可拿在手中, 直到有垃圾桶為止.

lottieclee

原帖由 lokaci 於 09-12-7 13:15 發表
我係智能中心嘅導師，曾經有小朋友同我講，佢唔開心會打人，細問下，原來佢父母晤開心打佢，咁你話身教係晤係重要？

Yes.. it is very important... but in this case... I usually ask the child how they interpret as parents being "unhappy" with him.  If it's because he did something wrong.. then he needs to know why there is punishment.

Let me give you another example... I was doing therapy on a child once and used Barbie and Ken to teach him social skills.  Then he put Ken on top of Barbie and hit her.  He said his dad do that to his mom all the time.  The child was only 4!  oh... my god... then do you think parents need to know how they are supposed to act in front of the child?  DEFINITELY.  The father saw all this through the one-way mirror and of course, he needed counseling too!

lottieclee

原帖由 coleus1130 於 10-2-28 23:46 發表
超級重要 ..小朋友最中意學野....佢唔色分咩係好唔同唔好ka ma....

exactly.... 好簡單... 好似過馬路, 地鐵讓座都係一d普通嘢, 但都係身教至effective