有冇媽媽是自己教自己的小朋友(各方面)?

do-re-me

我教自己個女彈琴, 教到我火滾 .但比人教又覺得教得唔好. 有冇人有相似的經驗分享下?

judy

原帖由 do-re-me 於 10-2-4 00:35 發表
我教自己個女彈琴, 教到我火滾 .但比人教又覺得教得唔好. 有冇人有相似的經驗分享下?

如果屋企冇得教，我先俾人教。

阿仔接近3歲半学彈琴，依家己彈完一本John Thomsons。係好辛苦，但慢慢來，不知不覺就是一本。

依家向難度挑戰，俾阿仔学小提琴。妹妹仔教師教完放後，我回家跟進，更辛苦。

TinHay

原帖由 do-re-me 於 10-2-4 00:35 發表
我教自己個女彈琴, 教到我火滾 .但比人教又覺得教得唔好. 有冇人有相似的經驗分享下?

自己教, no matter piano or any school works教到火滾 is normal because we wanted the best for our children however, kids are kids...they only want 3P to play, play & play......take it easy la...慢慢來

do-re-me

原帖由 ming2 於 10-2-4 09:12 發表


點解你覺得俾人教唔好呢???你自己本身係咪都係教琴0既呢??

係, 但退休了, 我而家係大小姐的秘書, 陪讀和丫環.

do-re-me

原帖由 TinHay 於 10-2-4 13:15 發表


自己教, no matter piano or any school works教到火滾 is normal because we wanted the best for our children however, kids are kids...they only want 3P to play, play & play......take it easy la...慢慢 ...

oh yes!
kid's 3p is play, play and play,
our 3p is perfect, perfect and perfect!

[ 本帖最後由 do-re-me 於 10-2-5 22:51 編輯 ]

do-re-me

ming2,
多謝你的意見, 我今天嘗試放鬆心情, 忍住不作聲, 由得她自己練. 練下練下又好似自己掌握倒少少關鍵, 彈出少少感覺, 當然離我的合格水平還有很遠. 你說得對, 我女不是不肯練, 而是不停笑! 我教學生的要求不是要他們作長時間的練習, 而是要留心聽自己的音色, 所以練琴一定要專心, 否則練多久也沒用. 我今天發現原來我愈講她愈唔專心. 我會試下由得她自由發展, 看看效果如何. 你也是教音樂的, 可否分享一下你怎麼教自己的小朋友? thx

[ 本帖最後由 do-re-me 於 10-2-5 23:28 編輯 ]

jojo833

Wow! I found it very hard to teach my kids to learn, esp those leisure and art things. They will depend on parents and usually cannot show their real abilities ga! Don't worry, that's common problems among mothers. I am now only follow up my kids' homeworks, what they learnt from school everyday......

janice_ma

我是住海外的，我自己教倆個女兒中文，包括認識和寫中文字。秘訣是...每日持之而恆，她們是會自己看書的。

do-re-me

ming2,
你話: "我係唔會俾小朋友一個壓力(要幾多歲考到幾多級..."
我同意, 我覺得考試反而拖慢進度, 其實無細路鍾意考試的, 我無比囡囡考試, 因我唔需要靠張CERT INTERVIEW, 我純粹靠運氣


你話:"當然我都知道身邊好多人,包括學生家長都望著我囡囡0既學習進度.."
對此我真係有壓力, 所以我暫時唔教其他學生了.

do-re-me

janice_ma,
你令我想起我女的普通話老師, 她說她在國內是一個英文老師,她在國內大學主修英文的. 但來香港後卻成了一個普通話老師, 而來香港教普通話的薪金更比以前高.

mosibaby

唔好意思, 我想問下d小朋友大個d係唔係會容易教d既呢? 我個女2.5嵗, 我係fulltime mom, 平時教佢一d認知, 佢可以望一望就走左去! 完全逼唔到, 但係出去上堂反而學到好多野, 唔知係唔係比人教會好d? 其實有d野我都可以自己教, 但係進度非常緩慢, 有時仲非常沮喪! 感覺好似比人教佢會特別有興趣同專心?

cherubic

From my experience, the best tutor is parent, esp, mom.

I teach my son Putonghua, Chinese Language and writing at home.  He improves a lot.  But you need to do it on a regular basis and use good materials.

Previously, he had a tutor, but his progress was not very satisfactory.

Likewise, he wants me to teach him swimming.  He prefers me to anyone else, but unfortunately I don't have much time.  So I still need to hire tutor for his English writing.

do-re-me

原帖由 mosibaby 於 10-2-8 10:25 發表
唔好意思, 我想問下d小朋友大個d係唔係會容易教d既呢? 我個女2.5嵗, 我係fulltime mom, 平時教佢一d認知, 佢可以望一望就走左去! 完全逼唔到, 但係出去上堂反而學到好多野, 唔知係唔係比人教會好d? 其實有d野我都可 ...

大D係會好好多, 但對我女來講, 大D係指5歲, 佢一到5歲, 樣樣都突然進步很多, 唔洗點教就自自然然追番晒以前果D. 但有樣野好奇怪, 我女係細女, 佢2歲9個月讀K1. 佢2歲開始我學人地自己做字卡教佢認英文生字. 學到2歲9個月佢可以認倒大約80個. 我以為好成功. 但不知為什麼佢一番左學就完全唔記得晒. 我唯有放棄. 好彩我以前教佢的生活體驗和道理就記得. 她的幼稚園在各方面都教得很好, 我就由得她自由發展. 其實她K1,K2的進度比她的同學都慢, 但唔知點解K3就好好.
所以有時其實都唔洗太擔心. 唯一的問題就係考小校, 遲熟的小朋友係好蝕抵. 所以我一早已決定搬屋.

[ 本帖最後由 do-re-me 於 10-2-9 02:21 編輯 ]