媽媽們，當資優兒還是BB時，有無不同之處？

puib

請問各位資優兒的媽媽們，當你地的小朋友仲係BB時，行為舉動上與一般的BB有分別嗎？譬如6個月、1歲、1.5歲等階段會否有點不同？定係同一般BB無異？定係要到幾大先發現佢的與別不同？

Thx Thx~~

l_wingwing

我都好想知呀!!!!

Lifetime

http://giftedkids.about.com/od/younggiftedchildren/qt/infant_signs.htm

Check this out

叮鈴

原文章由 Lifetime 於 07-11-1 09:00 硐表
http://giftedkids.about.com/od/younggiftedchildren/qt/infant_signs.htm

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我個仔bb時係好似下面講的全部咁喎﹗係咪其實好多bb都咁？

A typical comment made about babies who are later recognized as gifted children is that they are alert. Looking in their eyes, one can almost see them thinking!

Need for Mental Stimulation
Another sign of giftedness in infants is a need for mental stimulation. It is not unusual for gifted babies to get quite fussy when they do not get that stimulation. The fussiness can end up with crying. Parents of these infants can get extremely frustrated because nothing seems to work to get the baby to stop fussing and crying. The baby has been fed and diapers don't need changing. The parents are sometimes certain that the baby is a "colicky" baby. However, the baby can be calmed and made happy simply by providing a change of scenery. Infants can't move on their own, so all they can see is what is in front of them.
快兩個月開始，只要醒著，通常唔肯係床仔，除非床仔有新鮮野，否則，一定吵鬧要你抱著四圍行，企係度唔郁都吵吵吵。所以逼住未夠五、六個月便放在學行車，情況先有好轉(因為佢比較自由了﹗)

If they get tired of looking at what is in their viewable range, they can get upset.  

How do we know these babies are getting upset from lack of stimulation? There are two ways we can tell. First, these infants will quite often stop fussing and crying when they are turned around to face a different direction or are provided something different to look at. Parents of gifted children often note that when their children were babies, they would have to move them as often as every twenty minutes in order to stop their crying.

兩個月左右開始我就經常被逼要同佢逛屋企(否則會吵過不停，唔理佢，佢就使絕招>>>喊幾喊便失聲兼臉變藍 )，成日夜遊睇勻全屋企的東西...
有次，約四個月左右，抱到手軟，佢都仲係個頭係咁拎來拎去睇屋企(唔知有乜野睇)，我忍唔住，關左燈，然後奸笑咁同佢講﹕「哈哈哈﹗睇你仲有無野睇丫拿﹗」 佢立刻跟著卡卡笑，然後，好像故意的更加厲害的左顧右盼，黑漆漆的都睇到？貓眼....

係佢三四個月時去超市，揹在前面，譬如....看洗頭水吧﹗佢跟你一起看，我才看了一陣子，還未決定買邊隻....佢便會開始吵鬧，只要你走去看別的，佢便收聲，之但係我仲未睇完要買邊隻洗頭水。

[ 本文章最後由 叮鈴 於 07-11-2 00:26 編輯 ]

puib

真係唔知呀~~
不過我覺得而家的b整體比上一代的聰明。
就算唔係資優，都係反應快、觀察力強的一批。

唔知大家覺得係咪？

701003

My son的確與眾不同 BB果時一舊飯咁，教佢乜嘢都無反應！9個月突然自已開步行，一路唔識講嘢，差唔多三歲突然講出成句句子~~嫲嫲，我要食包包！到幼稚園時期咩都弱過人，懷疑佢弱智，帶佢見醫生，醫生同佢check完就話~~佢好正常，仲好大機會係資優！ 小一開始唔做功課，但成績中上，一路默書都唔合格，到小二突然默書100分(佢唔溫書的),成日交唔齊通告！講嘢一句起兩句止，懶音王！寫字好似打風，作句睇唔明佢作乜！突然小五(今年)開始，口水多過茶，無晒懶音，被揀中參加朗誦！中英作文寫到over200字，全部貼堂！突然想學好普通話
總之，估你唔到，隔日就要見家長、留堂！佢話~返到屋企只想靜下，諗下嘢，唔想做功課！為免我英年早逝，我已送佢去功課補習班，唔想對住佢勞氣太耐:tongue:
平日只做兩樣課外活動~~睇書~畫畫~再睇書

bigheadgirl

你寫得好攪笑 ,咁而家confirm咗係資優未?

原文章由 701003 於 07-11-3 20:05 硐表
到幼稚園時期咩都弱過人，懷疑佢弱智，帶佢見醫生，醫生同佢check完就話~~佢好正常， ...

zukijoey

:loveliness:

701003

原文章由 bigheadgirl 於 07-11-5 19:20 硐表
你寫得好攪笑 ,咁而家confirm咗係資優未?

十五十六: confirm咗又如何 一樣要讀普通學校，要融入普通社會:-| 我只當個仔係一名難教ge聰明仔，唔使咁另類
今日又見家長la:cry: 衰仔小息玩到創晒，用較剪指住同學 老師ask佢做乜攞把較剪出來，衰仔包話:我攞來剪自己手指lor,唔得咩？ 真係寸爆！班主任怕佢壓力大，怕佢真係剪手指: 約咗學校社工明天同個死仔包傾傾
我都無眼睇:

NichoB

I found gifted kids are never cry so long, matual and indepandent.  They are very logic and have their own opion during a baby.

I saw my sister's daughter can talk and request some food in 3months old now.  She know how to call for food and shout for full.  Many reponses and respect her mum to do for her.

His son is age 2 and know to speak a lot of english words and sing many english songs.  She plays the Now TV- English - disney everyday.  His son know a lot of english there.

Nowadays, many gifted kids are borned due to the milk and food are full of vitamin and dha.  All good for brain and young kids.  I think they can handle differenct kind of school and be happy in schoolife.  If you found he dont like the school, you may change the others school for them.

Different childlred have different charactors

We must be friendly to our kids all the times and hear their needs.  To teach them how to solve their problem by themself.  They are facing the world and many problems in their life.  

Tell them why they need to work hard at school, why they need to read and exam so many times.

Give them a future picture clearly........What is the result if you dont work hard?  What do you want to be?    Parents are the best friends of kids.  We must listen and talk with them everyday if you want a good kids in the futrue.  Shouting is useless.

原文章由 701003 於 07-11-12 15:19 硐表

十五十六::" /> confirm咗又如何 一樣要讀普通學校，要融入普通社會:-| 我只當個仔係一名難教ge聰明仔，唔使咁另類
今日又見家長la:cry: 衰仔小息玩到創晒，用較剪指住同學 老師ask佢做乜攞把較剪出來，衰仔包 ...

[ 本文章最後由 NichoB 於 07-11-13 10:49 編輯 ]

701003

原文章由 NichoB 於 07-11-13 10:39 硐表
I found gifted kids are never cry so long, matual and indepandent.  They are very logic and have their own opion during a baby.

I saw my sister's daughter can talk and request some food in 3months ol ...

Thank you But,講就容易，做就幾難！我生三個，性格各異，家姐/妹妹同你講果D情況差唔多，但唔係gifted kids，只係又乖又聰明，唔使煩，我都當佢係天賜gift
唯有仔仔要特別管教ops:" /> ops:" /> 我當係上天俾我ge考驗，人生ge挑戰::" />

[ 本文章最後由 701003 於 07-11-16 21:15 編輯 ]

叮鈴

原文章由 NichoB 於 07-11-13 10:39 硐表
I found gifted kids are never cry so long, matual and indepandent.  They are very logic and have their own opion during a baby.

I saw my sister's daughter can talk and request some food in 3months ol ...

gifted bb通常都比較敏感，感官敏感，感受情緒上敏感。
所以那些情緒平穩，好邏輯的資優或智優生或純綷聰明兒，或許比是那些比較偏左腦型吧？？

http://www.geniusdenied.com/articles/Record.aspx?NavID=13_23&rid=12309


http://talentdevelop.com/articles/ParentingEIGC.html

[size=-1]While these are normal for the gifted and appear very early in gifted children, they are often mistaken for  emotional immaturity rather than as evidence of a rich inner life.
(上面又話佢地常被誤解為唔成熟？？ )

Sindy

gifted bb通常都比較敏感，感官敏感，感受情緒上敏感

我女都係咁,六個月啱啱認到人時,就連抱過下佢一次既親戚,完席後各散東西,講 bye bye 時,就大喊,次次都係咁,而家我地plan搬屋,佢不嬲都話好想搬,但而家真係啦,佢就話唔想,轉左校先話掛住舊同學(初時係佢話要轉校)......唉,都唔知點幫佢唔好咁敏感,有方法既話都指教下我,thanks

[ 本文章最後由 Sindy 於 07-11-21 01:02 編輯 ]

jjtseung

原文章由 Sindy 於 07-11-21 00:58 硐表

我女都係咁,六個月啱啱認到人時,就連抱過下佢一次既親戚,完席後各散東西,講 bye bye 時,就大喊,次次都係咁,而家我地plan搬屋,佢不嬲都話好想搬,但而家真係啦,佢就話唔想,轉左校先話掛住舊同學(初時係佢話要轉校).. ...

我女女而家11個月, 好早認人, 不過情緒穩定, 各感官敏銳, 我希望佢係個乖乖聰明女就得啦!

[ 本文章最後由 jjtseung 於 07-11-25 16:58 編輯 ]

hjm

原文章由 701003 於 07-11-16 21:14 發表

Thank you But,講就容易，做就幾難！我生三個，性格各異，家姐/妹妹同你講果D情況差唔多，但唔係gifted kids，只係又乖又聰明，唔使煩，我都當佢係天賜gift
唯有仔仔要特別管教ops:" /> ops:" /> 我當係上 ...

My son is 80% like yours....quite a clever little boy at infant stage and very cute too.  But troubles came when he turned 3 and onwards.  Very stubborn, very opinioned.  He started reading at 5 and could read Harry Potter before turning 7.  He reads and reads but homework is No No.  He studied in a local school and maybe not every other day, but every other week we had to see the teachers.  He's also lazy (I know he is) but our solution was to send him to a "freer" school....my hair is turning grey every day lah!  And I have 3 kids too....really cannot afford 100% time to each one.

What is your solution to him now, 701003?