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Re: go back to the local decent schools
We, as parents, once gave birth to our children, we are about to sacrifice without limit, we want to give the best to them. my husband and i share the same concept that we are taking our kids as our assets, it is such an huge investment that we are injecting into them to get my kids into the IT schoolds, it is as if we committed to a 13 yr consecutive brook mortage. we have an expectation that kids could receive much better training and become smarter and thus become more competitive in future. i ve haunting in the IT schools for years, interacting and observing the IT kids, i am lucky that i can manipulate fluently four langages, italian, french, english and chinese inclusive. and thus i have a relatively sharper sensitivity to linquistic proficiency. I discovered the english proficiency, which every parent look upon and clinch on, is amazingly dropping down.
listen to the kids, everyone speaks and writes fluently in english, but whether they can speak correctly, appropriately, and write rhetorically is a concern. i know how to work out a language, it takes really consecutive consicous mental processing, is not merely by immersing oneself into the environment and thus hoping it would be done automatically. that is evidently not enough. not every british and american can speak and write well. then i started to scruntize and made an analysis on the IT kids to the good local schools' kids concertated on several aspects including logical thinking, reasoning, linquistic ability to diversity (one's ability to manipulate other languages), athletic standard, artistic ability, persistance and endurance to learning, take into mind that i delibrately excluded the academic acheivement already at that point. no much difference to those locals, but for some aspects, like artistic ability, persistance and endurance to learning, locals lead much ahead the way. i concluded that under that track, after investing double or triple than the others for our assets, but eventually they are not going to be more competitive in future. and yet, i were not born a queen, i can't guarantee their royal lives. kids ought to live upon their competitiveness. personally, i ought to confess that i was very frustrated.amazing9870 寫道:
Hi, jojomum:
May I know why you sent your kid to Int'l School at the beginning? What's your expectation to the school? Is your kid also happy for this transition?
Thanks for sharing.
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