Homosexuality in convent schools

Psyche*

Would you accept your daughter as a lesbian?
as u know..this is a trend..
I am a current student of a convent school
i found out this problem is very serious IN EVERY CONVENT SCHOOLS
so i want to askk..whether parents will accept or not

opinions thanks



  

ccspy

Psyche* 寫道:
Would you accept your daughter as a lesbian?
as u know..this is a trend..
I am a current student of a convent school
i found out this problem is very serious IN EVERY CONVENT SCHOOLS
so i want to askk..whether parents will accept or not

opinions thanks



  

As an open-minded parent, it's the daughter's choice and she should be responsible for herself. From my own point of view, as there is a limited social exposure in convent schools, acting as a lesbian may be an act of releasing the desire for love during an adolescence stage. So it may be considered to be a kind of puppy love. When she graduates, her social circle will be expanded and she may have more choices between men and women.

WYmom

No, I won't accept.  Yet I know it is a common phenomenon in girls school as I also graduated from a girl school.

What I have done is: rejected such behaviour, focused on studies and made friends with the normal girls only.

supericeice

Psyche,
In HK, I think that nearly all parents will not accept or they don't want their daughter as a lesbian even though this is a trend in many girls schools.  I agree with WYmon that you should rejected such behaviour and made friends with the normal girls only.

salina0817

I also cannot accept. But I think it is not so important as I also graduate in girls school.  I saw a lot of girls are lesbian during school time, but after graduate or when they enter U, they will not be lesbian anymore. Actually, they get married and have a normal life.

NancyFelix

Being a mother, I will not accept it too.  I don't believe that any mother can accept it by heart.  Refuse being lesbian and have normal friendship with the girls is always the right thing to do when you are still green.

I graduted from girls school too.   In this adolescent period, curiosity, the desire for love, the limited social circle may also mislead girls to fall into the lesbian love.  Thus when they graduate, the social circle is enlarged, the lesbians will return to normal life.   It is just an illusion only.  So what my advice is not to define yourself as lesbian so hurry especially in this adolescent period.   

leschelems

I reckon you mean homosexuality in girls school.  That's a fair claim as an oberservation.  Pyschology researches show that girls are more prone to a state called pseudohomosexuality which means at a certain stage of their development they have a confusion over their sexual orientation.  In other words, they think they are lesbian even they are not.  The reason that not many boys, even in boys school, get this state is unknown.  But for girls, the researchers believe that it's the combination of :
(1)  the lack of a fair opportunity in getting along with boys
(2)  and the intimacy among girls.
And this pseudohomosexuality will go after girls get a taste of a relationship with boys.

If a girl is a real lesbian, I do not think a parent can do anything to change her sexual orientation.  I will not judge her provided that she is given a fair social opportunity with both genders.

Psyche* 寫道:
Would you accept your daughter as a lesbian?
as u know..this is a trend..
I am a current student of a convent school
i found out this problem is very serious IN EVERY CONVENT SCHOOLS
so i want to askk..whether parents will accept or not

opinions thanks