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meimei223

Hi,我有對孖女,4歲半,大女非常聰明,但很固執,易妒忌妹妹,細女也很聰明但一定不及家姐,但EQ極高,冇脾氣/情緒問題, 學習很專注,明顯的張勤補拙型.
當小時家姐也很專注,所以問題不大,但越大越懶散,乜都不想學只喜看書,因 些很激氣,請問大家點救救家姐,我不想她最後成為低成就高智慧的....:

shareholder

「咩都唔想學」 佢唔想學既係咩? 「淨係想看書」佢看的是咩書?

meimei223

Such as Piano, Dancing, Mandarin, I believe it is not related to the subjects, but her concentration or the learning attitude.  For the books, any kinds of books she love to read, can read until very late everyday.  

阿Yan

原帖由 meimei223 於 13-05-25 發表
Such as Piano, Dancing, Mandarin, I believe it is not related to the subjects, but her concentration ...

既然她愛看書，就試試由看書入手，擴闊她的興趣。譬如給她看一些附有CD的普通話故事書自學普通話丶簡單的摺舐書、美術書丶百科等等（按她的情況「引」她讀不同類型的）。

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俾佢睇自己喜歡的書, 只要唔係色情, 暴力, 犯罪書就可以, 培養佢學習興趣, 緊要過學某樣野, 你講果D野, 佢想學自然會學, 佢唔想學, 你迫佢亦無謂, 只會消減佢的學習興趣