國際學校 - 中學生的價值觀

MaryBrown

國際學校 - 中學生的價值觀

國際學校的學生多數家境是比較富裕。  最羞的是富裕一羣的父母價值觀很有問題，他們是成功生意人、一來冇時間陪子女， 二來覺得讀書冇用。 他們的'富二代'好的只懂hea, 差的睇唔起人, 尤其比較'窮'的同學。 富二代'的心態的是不用讀書，最緊要好玩，呀爸有大把身家。

越貴的學校，越多這種人，大家小心選校

bobbycheung

簡單嚟講, 無論讀甚麽學校, 大家都必須"小心選友"  

WYmom

Very bias opinion!!!  There must be some very rich and some very arrogant... but there are a lot of educated professionals, middle class people with upright value to groom their children in IS.  I also see a lot of rich and arrogant parents and kids in those very famous local schools...we always read news about students of elite local schools having their famous branded cars blocking the whole street waiting for them...

So the most important thing is the value judgement we parents have and how we educate our kids.

munchbobo

原帖由 WYmom 於 12-02-24 發表
本帖最後由 WYmom 於 12-2-24 10:58 編輯

Very bias opinion!!!  There must be some very rich and som ...

Couldn't agree more!

新人王

國際學校都有好多種，有D系多D有錢人，有D以中產專業人士爲主。身為中產，我覺得就算自己再忙，都會好關心仔女發展，無論學業做人都價值觀都好注意。其實家庭環境對學風都好有影響，可能大家想入名校都有呢個考慮

annie40

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你的经验好奇怪, 我真的从未遇见覺得讀書冇用的家长, 可否写得具体点.  我认识的CIS 和ISF 的中学生都好有礼貌, 跟阿爸有无钱似乎无直接关系.

vincher

我認識幾個讀國際學校的家長都關心子女，有丨個更放棄高薪工 全職湊 而個小朋友對自己嘅學業都很緊張

ANChan59

Fair comment, close to reality.

PCMW

我以前讀local school,大把狗眼看人低的同學啦!

filicity

我諗每間學校,無論本地或國際學校都會有呢種人,最緊要係家庭教育!

SinCnai

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我每天與孩子相處四小時，親自照顧小朋友起居，著重孩子的品德及功課，身邊的家長亦多如是！

可能你自己如是，身邊的人也如是吧！

nutb

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講得好!!!
你以為自己有錢,更有錢的人多的是,沒甚麼好比較.  父母要懂得關心及身教子女,唔喺掉低比學校就算.

kcvtsai

Agree, depending on the parent's own value and the friends they make...

I don't think this applies to all...

kanaustin

But isn't this good? I mean, getting into a school which has many rich, arrogant people... I strongly believe that this would actually provide a driving force for your kids to want to become more successful than those people, to want to never to be looked down at again... therefore, in some cases, it actually helps your kids become more motivated!!!

bobbycheung

kanaustin 發表於 12-3-9 01:27
But isn't this good? I mean, getting into a school which has many rich, arrogant people... I strongl ...

No, this is no good.  
(1) How successful you are is not measured by how much money you have got.  For example, in my view, being a poor and humble person who is willing to help others is infinitely more successful than a rich and arrogant miser.
(2)  It could be a wrong driving force.  In order to stop these rich and arrogrant people from looking down on you, you must first show them your wealth.  Showing off is a bad thing especially for a reason like this.  Furthermore, competing with these rich and arrogant people could easily result in you being more arrogant than they are.  Yes, they may not look down on you again.  But you may unknowingly form the habit of looking down on others just because they are not as rich as you are.