自閉症兒童升小一評估,請過來人分享情況

joey媽媽

我都好耐無上來,近來真好忙,但我有問題想問大家升小一評估會做甚麼?因呀仔2 號要評估了,請過來人分享或已有Ａ仔讀小一的情況 多謝告知

mcyip

我個仔舊年在尤德夫人中心做過,都不知是不是升小一評估,主要是心理學家做一些智力、言語、操作上的測試,以評估是否適合讀主流小一或是特殊小學

joey媽媽

mcyip

     是這樣的評估，後來心理學家有甚麼建議比你，你小朋友現階段情況是怎樣呢？可以再告知嗎？ＴＨＡＮＫＳ

kmwun

joey媽媽

我仔仔係o係下葵涌做評估的，今年九月升小一，去年十月下葵涌call返去見心理學家，但小朋友自己同心理學家做評估，媽咪唔使入去，之後心理學家有問吓小朋友近來的表現．計完分好簡單講吓小朋友智力正常，分數中等，但個別項目有部份較高分但部份偏低．但可以入讀主流小學．

joey媽媽

kmwun
    看來你仔的情況都很好呢 至少同心理學家都有問答,最重要是好難得佢都建議你入讀主流小學,因我都打壞預算了,我我唔會放棄ga,我都希望佢可入讀主流小學,2/2佢會評估,我已用平常心接受,但始終都好緊張想知答案,如果我們又唔入得去睇,呀仔到時都唔知點喇!   :cry:
你個仔幾大呀,有重讀k3嗎? 我仔今年都是升小一,不過都好考慮緊會否重讀k3,因佢表達能力真是好短句   

HelenMrs.Lau

HELLO joey媽媽,
好耐無見你上黎發表，你仔仔近況如何呀     

kmwun

joey媽媽

仔仔以前好似武林高手，唔係武功高強，係惜字如金，無論你問咩，就算肯答都只係答"好"或者"唔好"．仔仔而家五歲半，好彩入到間唔錯的幼稚園，功課唔太多，又唔使黙書，老師同校長都好照顧仔仔，跟得上就唔同佢repeat．但升小學都好擔心，仔仔專注始終較差，同人相處又cool，抽象概念又唔係好掂（你我他都要攪一餐至明），幼稚園就自由d，上到小學我都擔心老師無耐性照顧佢．

仔仔而家上緊協康砵蘭街中心上緊個叫"壹仔學堂"嘅小一適應班，我覺得幾有幫助，你可以打電話問下．

大家都俾d信心啦！加油！

    

tin_tin

Hi, joey媽媽!!
Haven't seen u for a long time. How are you? Which 主流小一 do you choose?

Even though the assessment result shows my son has already catched up, his concentration, understanding, speaking and communication skill is still weak as compare with his classmates. Sometimes, I don't understand what he's talking about.
He still has keen interest on looking at the doors open and close. He insists to wait in front of the bus door, lift door, MTR door, train door, toilet door when they opens or close.  
Finally, I decided to let my son goes to non-traditional private school and let he grows up gradually.

Hope your son's assessment is doing good. Wait for your news.

chanchanboy

Joey媽媽!!

I miss you much!!
Hope your son's assessment smooth and good.

pamam

my son is due to have another assessment next month, he is in mainstream school but he started to understand he is 'different' from other classmate. Recently he keeps asking me why he has to go for all these therapies but his classmates don't have, I am worried that he may feel bad if he has to do all these tests again. What do you think?

joey媽媽

kmwun
    我仔仔遲d 都會參加協康小一適應班,你現在case同我一樣,老師同校長都好照顧仔,仔專注始終差，同人相處又cool，抽象概念又係唔好掂,咁你未決定repeat嗎?幾時決定?我只有2成想仔repeat,但心大心細緊   


tin_tin , chanchanboy &  HelenMrs.Lau

  好高興係度遇返你地,呢輪自己都好忙同好大壓力,可能呀仔就升小一關係,個心未做好決定,所以自己對仔的事都好緊張,我係2004年都已出外旅行3 次,頭兩次一家四口開心出去玩下散下心,第三次不得了,居然掉低老公同個仔,自己同個女去旅行,原因:真是想出去透下氣,我不是晒命又不是有錢人可以成日去旅行,但自2月份開始轉了早期訓練後我已學懂好多技巧上訓練給個仔,雖然是好事,但對於我心理上知多左見多左識多左已有一定的壓力,所以必須出去減壓後回來再面對 :cry:
呀仔現在真進步好多,但比同年真差好大距離,佢係語言上真要再努力十倍了,脾氣上已改善只有不願做功課時掉下筆落地,而家他都掌握了是,不是 的分別 我上次參觀個幾間特殊小學已備之需,但課程真好淺,所以我都希望佢可入讀主流學校融合生活,如果將來學校對他真應付不來,我才再下決定應否讀特殊小學了 , 咁耐無見,真好多野同你們講
你們仔仔進展又點??

tin_tin
   你仔已有小學收嗎?我要等統一派位   

pamam
    如果我沒看錯你意思的話,其實你仔懂問你點解及感覺同同學的分別,那麼你仔自閉障礙的問題真是很輕呢,至少佢會感受到別人的諗法.他其實是有甚麼障礙?如果佢真可理解的話,我會同他說tests是遊戲,不是人人參加,是媽咪報名參加,所以其他小朋友無份.

AGNESNG

joey媽媽,

我好想同你傾偈, 因為好有同感, 我個仔會repeat一年, 因為比自己一個希望, 希望人大多一年會成熟D, 我o地兩個case好相近, 未去參觀特殊學校時我巳同老公協議: 如果評估o既成績唔好, 就讓他上特殊, 要面對現實. 到真係去參觀後, 覺得學術上真係好淺好淺. 似乎同佢依家學緊D野相差好大. 我同kmwun o既仔仔係一齊讀"壹仔學堂" 未讀之前只係靠個兼收位, 同自己報協康言語治療. 但讀緊"壹仔" 果度D導師覺得佢好差, 覺得佢連壹仔都跟不上, 我o地終於好似你講果種: 越知得多越失望. 不過大家努力. kmwun成日都好鼓勵我, 我無想過可以幾百萬人之中認識佢, 或者呢D就係緣份啦!

依家我仔報o左感覺統合, 協康o既幼兒訓綀同音樂治療,我覺得"感統"對小兒好有幫助. 努力! 加油!

Agnes   

joey媽媽

AGNESNG
     hi,我都好高興係度認識你,看完你的心聲後,感覺自己又多個朋友了. 你知啦,其實我地小朋友有障礙的話要搵人傾下仔經,真是不易,(要明白我們心情的人)
感統"真對小兒好有幫助,我現在都有一星期一堂,屋企都有跳彈床,彈彈波幫下佢,多d 傾下心得吧
   你個仔會repeat一年,你今年有報小學嗎?現階段你仔仔進展點?如讀寫?專注?聽指示?理解等?可大家分享嗎?

mcyip

joey媽媽,

My boy will be P1 this September and is still waiting the result of the lucky draw.  I think there is no point to force a child with special needs to P1 before he is ready.  Education is a long journey.  My boy repeated K2 when he was diagnosed as A-features.  He made great improvement in these two years and I think he is ready for P1 now, though he is still weaker in language.  An accomodating primary school is also important.  My headache now is how to choose a school who understand and care those children with special needs.  Of course, as parents you know best whether your kid is ready for P1 or not and I trust your decision.  Which primary school did you choose?

joey媽媽

mcyip

    我英文能力不是太好,但都略解意思,希望我沒會錯意.
我現在都要等評估內容出結果,不過都預了不好的結果,我今年已報主流小一,雖則報了,但個心都期待呀仔6月時的進步能力能否應付小一.否則可能會重讀K3,(但都希望順其自然地升讀一年級),其實我都搵的學校不是名校,第一志願選了一間課程淺活動教學,亦很對融合教育肯付出的小學,第二志願選了一間試辦兩年小班教學1:23,不過呢間學校課程是深D ,秩序很嚴,但又接受支援障礙兒童,不過未有這類的經驗,如收的話,我仔是他的第一個特殊仔,所以我個心都等待緊心理學家的結果後再三思再決定.但點都好,呢段時間我一定唔會放棄,繼續要呀仔努力努力   

AGNESNG

joey媽媽,

你已報小一就唔可以repeat K3, 因為一世人只可以報一次, 學校老師已千叮萬囑叫我唔好入form, 教統局個邊都係咁講. 我估你無得揀,一定要升小一.

我個仔都有跳彈床, 拉人力車, 用擦擦身(手,腳) 等佢無咁多thing手動作, .....仲有好多好多動作, 例如要佢提起頭同腳再加指令, 都好辛苦o架! 不過依家講o野長o左!

joey媽媽

AGNESNG
     我知一世人只可以報一次,不過我為何這樣做呢?我是預留空間昐望呀仔突然進步起來可讀小一亦可順其自然升讀,但如果6月再看他情況後真的要重讀K3 打底,到時我會放棄小一派位,等下次可再05-06參加統一派位,因只是這次自己沒得再參加第一次自行選校,所以用這個方式覺得影響不大,今次未決定博下報小一囉!仲有最重要就係如果呀仔能派理想學校的話,咁細佢一年的妹妹可受惠了,因出年是龍年最多仔競爭的一年,我的計劃真是顧大又顧細,煩多人一倍 : 如果呀仔可掹車邊上到小一的話或者我會選擇到時先考慮重讀小一.唉~~~?
諗來諗去真好煩,所以幾大壓力呢

pamam

Joey媽媽,

you are right, my son is diagnosed as asperger, it is considered a mild Autism. The problem is comparing with other A children, he is performing well. But once you compare with normal children, he is way behind.

I tried to enrol him to courses at heep hong but they think my son can join normal activities at other organizations, they need to allocate their resources to more needy children. Eventually they still let my son joined a social course there.

Well what I am saying is sometimes my son is like an outcast of both mainstream and special schools. We are glad he doesn't have to go to special needs school but we also have a hard time to keep him in his mainstream school. I don't know if anybody feel the same?

mcyip

I did feel the same before.  But it is not rational.  Our ultimate goal is that our boys will become normal.  We should be glad that our boys are closer to this end.  So be optimistic.  Tomorrow will be better.

AGNESNG

joey媽媽,

世界真係細, 原來你仔以前都係同我個仔一間幼兒園讀,
你係幾時轉校o架? 唔知我o地見過面未呢?